BJob - How to make him explode?

Question

My fiance LOVES when I b.low him (big surprise right?) but he's of the type that it seems impossible to make him c.um by just doing that. I've known some guys who have said "you'll never make me c.um doing it" but I've always proven them wrong, not this time! I simply can't make him, he seems to need to be inside of me (though oddly enough, he can make himself c.um?). I just don't get it and want someone...guys, ladies, whoever, to tell me what you've done when you were faced with this and more importantly, did it work? He's thrilled that I actually want him to c.um in my mouth, because obviously so many women disdain this, but my job is to please him, and if that will please him, then that's what I want to do. Any suggestions (and don't be gross about it please).

Thanks everyone, and thanks a lot Curious, pretty good advice there. But Jay, sweetie, I KNOW how to give a good bjob, it's just that he in particular is hard to get off. I've NEVER had this problem before, trust me.

Answer 1

Here is a suggestion, start first with a handjob and massage his balls, then play with his balls using your tongue while rubbing the shaft of his penis. The gradually move tongue to his penis, use a lot of drool (you know like the girls do in porn) and focus your mouth on the head of the penis (its the most sensitive area) while rubbing his shaft with your hand. Make sure to keep eye contact and be vocal men love to hear women moan during sex, tell him how much you love sucking it, and how great his penis tastes, tell him you want him to *** for you.
See if this works, have fun.

Answer 2

Well, u have to take short breaks to do other things. Like half-way through stop and let him do somethan to u that turns him on. My guy loves to go down, so he does that and then I finish him. Or let him play w/ ur kitty or breasts w/ ur doin it. There is always a way, trust me. Some guys just take longer and need more stimulation........

Oh, and make plenty of eye contact and flirty smiles. They love to see the look on ur face that u really r enjoying it. Then when they c*m be sure to lick it all up and act like u want more......

They absolutly LOVE that!!!!

Answer 3

try a hand job for a bit, then deep throat, I love that one, and use your tounge alot, and my wife does it really fast. Slamming down for the deep throat. But I went to a doctor also because I had a problem were it took me like 4 hours, no joke, to c u m. So I now take Viatrox which helps me out a little. Email me for more info.

Answer 4

I actually had a friend like that. I could with anyone else but when it came down to it, i seriously was down there for like a hour(yeah i was determined) but he finally actually helped me by stroking himself as i did my thing and it worked. Most guys really just want to see them in your mouth and what cums out of them in your mouth. Good Luck

Answer 5

Don't concentrate on JUST the BJ itself. Let your nails caress his stomach and back. Roll on your side and pleasure yourself with him still in your mouth. Explore with it. But don't just be determined to do the BJ alone.

Answer 6

My gf gives me a hand job at the same time and that works for me.

Answer 7

Caress his balls while going down keep a fast steady pace too and let him go in your mouth

Answer 8

make a gd use of ur hand too sweety n also do play wid his balls bt lightly dnt put preassure also lick them that will help a lot n with ur mouth also use ur hands....

Answer 9

well, for me what works well is to rub it between her breasts then when fully charged, go to bj

other things I have heard of is to stimulate his prostate with your finger, or to carresse his testes

good luck

Answer 10

yeah, i've had a couple guys that it was trickier with...it helps if you slam it into the back of your throat.