Is a 40 years or so, who was divorced, his wife left because he is very moody, and has a bad temper, now he doe not have many "real" friends around , so he spends most of the evenings chating with married women older than him, and most of his friends are people he met on the chat. Is he affraid of being left again? Or he is affraid to have a new relation He is a good guy, but he has internal problems , somehow he is aware of this, but he does not get any help. He said he is happy the way he is. but I CAN TELL HE IS NOT.
2007-01-03 06:37:52 · 5 answers · asked by achoooo!!! 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If he wants to change, he will. Obviously at this point he is happy doing what he is doing. Leave him alone. If he doesn't live his life to the fullest and becomes unhappy about it, its his own fault. You can't save anyone.
2007-01-03 06:42:47 · answer #1 · answered by Jen_n_TX 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Geeze, that sound exactly like my ex-husband. Maybe it is, he just turned 40. If the dude has a bad temper then he needs to get that resolved before he'll ever have a relationship that can work. It's up to him to make that change, no one can make him do it. After being married to a guy with a bad temper I don't have much sympathy for this guy. I don't believe that people have to have a bad temper, self-control is the key word.
2007-01-03 06:50:24 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he says he is happy then leave the poor chap alone,he will only get help when he wants it not when some one tells him to get it.
2007-01-03 06:41:55 · answer #3 · answered by Nookie bear 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
It's not up to you. If he's happy then he's happy. If he's not, then he needs to change his life. You can't do that.
2007-01-03 06:40:52 · answer #4 · answered by janicajayne 7 · 2⤊ 1⤋
If he has internal problems, as you say he does, he should see and internist ...
2007-01-03 06:41:06 · answer #5 · answered by blueyedimpledguy 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋