2007-01-03 06:34:55 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Hahaha, just keep being you and don't try to change to fit someone else's :)
2007-01-03 06:50:01 · answer #1 · answered by rosie768 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Make sure you know who you are and what your 'deal breakers' are. Make a list of what qualities you are looking for in a partner and don't focus too much on the physical. Things like, honesty, intelligence, respect, sense of humour are what I'm talking about. Be as detailed as you can and then, don't compromise those ideals. When you meet someone that comes close but isn't perfect, reassess your 'deal breakers' and ask yourself how important those qualities he/she doesn't have are to you and can you live with or without that? Be a little flexible as nobody is perfect, but don't compromise your ideals so much that you will never be happy! Also remember that people don't really change their core values so if he/she has a value that you really don't agree with, you can't change them and move on!
Good Luck!
2007-01-03 14:43:14 · answer #2 · answered by Turtleshell 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't look for someone....just be open and receptive to the possibilities. I have found that great people are in the least likely of places. Entertain conversations with strangers. Flirt a little more. Smile a little more. Be aware of your image throughout the day.
I've been doing it all day and boy does it work! Go for it!!
You only have one life!!!
2007-01-03 14:41:22 · answer #3 · answered by Bathroom Graffiti 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I hate so say it, but my mother ALWAYS told me not to look for love, let it take it's course and find you. Love just happens. When you look for it, you're TRYING way too hard to make it work and it shows to a guy, but not to you.
My best advise is just to date! I met my current boyfriend in August of 2005. I was dating and not really wanting to be in a relationship. I played hard to get and we lost contact. We met back up in Feb. 2006 and have been together ever since!
This is the best way to do it sweetie! Remember, guys can SMELL desperation!
2007-01-03 14:40:04 · answer #4 · answered by Loreal D 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Remember that you are truly the most important person in your life and that you should find that you are special. As far as finding someone you should concentrate on them(not like stalking though)and nhot worry about yourself. Afterall you have already decided that you are wonderful.
2007-01-03 15:09:16 · answer #5 · answered by Miss Diva 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Persanally I don't thinking looking is what you should do. Finding someone will happen with fate and destany. This is my belief but I'm in the same boat you are. If you find someone help me out so I don't have to ask your same question.
2007-01-03 14:45:53 · answer #6 · answered by Cuntry 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't give up . . be honest in what you are looking for, with yourself and the other person, totally brutally honest . . I found my soul mate, getting married in 3 wks, and I'm 50 yrs old . . I met him on a dating site and we lived about 8 miles apart
2007-01-03 14:38:40 · answer #7 · answered by Cindy Lou 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Stop looking. Its like looking for your car keys when your in a hurry and theyre actually infront of you
2007-01-03 14:38:32 · answer #8 · answered by robz 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
take your time and look deep before u leap into any relationship and plus get to know the person which takes some time before putting your all (speaking from experience)
2007-01-03 14:38:47 · answer #9 · answered by lilsis2576 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Stop focusing, live your life to the fullest, LOVE your life, and the right one will come along and fit right into that!
2007-01-03 14:36:52 · answer #10 · answered by Annevita 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋