Okay so I like this girl and she likes me, we hooked up (kissed, im only 15) on new years. She says she still likes me but she doesnt want to "go out" because she is under stress. She said she doesnt want any titles. She suggested we be friends with benefits (at my age and maturity the furthest we'd go would be head). When i see her in school she is not cold to me but isnt as warm as she is on aol or outside of school. She says she is shy and reserved also. I am just wondering, can someone actually like you and not want to go out but be friends with benefits instead? and is this just leading down a parth where she says in a week, just friends or is this leading to going out.
I should also note:
She is hotter than me
She says she is just under stress, and when we talk on aol she is fairly open and says she likes me
2007-01-03 06:42:32 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I need to correct somethings,
I would onyl get head if we end up going out and that would be after at least a few months,
Also she said she wants to continue to hang out on weekends and hook up
2007-01-03 06:48:00 · update #1
She also clearly knows I like her alot and want to go out with her
2007-01-03 06:57:22 · update #2
She is playing you for a fool...find someone else. And friends with benefits at 15? Geez....I think I better start checking my kids cell phone and e mail to make sure he isn't getting "head" from some little girl.
2007-01-03 06:46:00 · answer #1 · answered by WonderTwit 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
She knows what she's doing. Every girl knows that guys don't want to feel backed up in a corner or trapped in a relationship. They only commit when they feel like they're the ones who initiated the relationship and want it. Furthermore, everyone wants what they can't have. Once she's sure you really want her and will stick around, she will want to make it official...in a way that makes you think it was acutally YOUR idea.
2007-01-03 14:49:50 · answer #2 · answered by abby j 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on the girl really it could lead either way. talk to her let her know how u feel so maybe u can become more than friends with benifits
2007-01-03 14:47:36 · answer #3 · answered by Orps 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your friends with benefits theres rules to that , the main one is keeping your mouth shut with what you two do
2007-01-03 14:47:35 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋