i asked a similar question earlier,but everytime i am alone, which i am a lot, or just bored, he comes into my mind. i miss him so much! he broke my heart, and i told him a while back i didnt like him anymore, and im afraid to tell him i do now, but we listen to like the same music, and everytime i hear a song that he likes it makes me sad and really think about him. anyone have any suggestions to get him out of my head, or to fix my problem? i know you might say move on, i've tried, and i have dated other guys but this guy really seemed like the right one for me...
2007-01-03 06:41:19 · 7 answers · asked by Cephalopod Chicka 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I can relate, there's someone that I feel that way about. But, the bottom line is that I deserve to be treated well. I have raised my standards as to how I expect to be treated. Alone, or not alone, I treat myself well first, and recognize my own value. If he wants to be in my life, he will treat me as well as I expect to be treated. By the treatment we accept from others, we teach others how to treat us. No man is worth your self esteem or enduring abusive behavior. No man. If you hold him to the standards that you deserve, if he is the right one, he'll be back. And he will no longer be a heart breaker, but a heart mender. And if he's not the right one, the right one will come along. LOL, my mom used to say that men are like trolley cars, you miss one and there will be another along soon. Best wishes.
2007-01-03 07:22:30 · answer #1 · answered by shine_radiantstar 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Occupy yourself. Occupy yourself, and then occupy yourself some more. Some times, in the random haze of going about one's daily busy day, your subconcious will take over and analyze the relationship. Take a moment to reflect before trying to get him back. Meet new people and try to gain a fresher perspective on things. Focus on you...its a new year!!!
I wouldn't tell him that. He may hold that over your head and he'd always have you by the balls for coming back.
2007-01-03 14:47:06 · answer #2 · answered by Bathroom Graffiti 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he was the right one you would still be together sometimes things dont work out we've all heard it before listen to different music start a hobby not surfing the internet . not sure how old you are but i can tell you heartbreak sucks time heals all ya know
2007-01-03 15:18:49 · answer #3 · answered by treez1976 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
here is how i did it - you have to first be honest with yourself and him!! yes talk to him and see what happened even if it hurts i dont know the circumstance but you should hear it and strive to see it as time you had and tolearn to what if a friendship could even come of it. if you cant be friends even with his current girlfriend that is probably why it is so hard. yes meet people make friends but HAVE that talk with him and your self get out ALL of those qusetions you ever wanted to know - no crying. be strong!
2007-01-03 14:46:34 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if he was the right guy he would not be your ex you will find someone else but you hv 2 stop doing what u did with him and go to diff places 4 awhile dont try and repeat what u and him did
2007-01-03 14:47:50 · answer #5 · answered by kyfixedit 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
find another guy. it'll definitely work, but only do it if u like the new guy. it might not be the most moral way of solving the problem, and may just hide it, but it will most definitely work.
2007-01-03 14:45:11 · answer #6 · answered by Sharon 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you really like him don't become obsessed or anything but you should totally tell him how you feel or you'll never get anywhere. And if he doesn't like you, I'll prank call him. ;)
Love ya.
2007-01-03 14:47:41 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋