my man is married in his country and has 4 kids, he proposed to me and ask me to go to pakistan with him, when i asked him what would your wife say, he said she wouldn't mind and that we could stay in the same house and share him, i got pissed off and yelled on him. is this normal
2007-01-03 06:33:14 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
we have been together for 5 yrs and living together for 5 months. we are engaged and he is the best to me and my 3 kids.
2007-01-03 06:41:13 · update #1
i don't blame you i would feel upset too, but remember that u have him and all will work out best. good luck.
2007-01-03 07:21:23 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
OMG .. you should soo NOT GO. If you do, you need to be prepared for a life of servitude and slavery basically. The culture in that part of the world is extremely "man-centric". You won't have ANY of the freedom that you take for granted here. Clothing, hairstyle, makeup, talking to friends etc.... You won't even be able to leave the house w/out a man escort. Realy better to stay in the states if you are woman.
2007-01-03 14:39:16 · answer #2 · answered by captainkirkwood 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to move on. It is accetable in the Muslim religion. I dated a muslim guy from Pakistan and he was raised that it wouldnt be acceptable because us women are a handful...lol BUT clearly that is not the case with him. It's time to walk away. Keep in mind he has no issues with being away from his current wife and kids, next, that will be you...
2007-01-03 14:42:37 · answer #3 · answered by Bella 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In some religions it's the norm to have more than one wife. I am not for the sharing stuff though. You did right by getting upset with him. How long have you known that he was married?
2007-01-03 14:39:06 · answer #4 · answered by DaddysGirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yep. this is the norm.. you might as well get used to it
2007-01-03 14:38:36 · answer #5 · answered by aaron 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
..... i'm not to sure what their custom's are.... but if that was me,. then i reckon i'd have to pass on that one!....
2007-01-03 14:38:02 · answer #6 · answered by peanut 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋