we just broke up - on and off for 6 years.
I love him and this burning pain and sick feeling wont go away.
I cant eat and im smoking a lot.
2007-01-03 06:31:13 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I know it hurts to lose someone you really love, but the truth is they are an Ex for a reason. Trust me no matter how much it hurts you have to move on, find a better man. You were off and on for a reason, if it was meant to be you would want to stay committed forever. Just try to find a man that you can see yourself with, it may take a while, but you'll see why your ex is your ex.
2007-01-03 06:34:58 · answer #1 · answered by Miss Shorty 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Depends on who did all of the breaking up all these 6 years. If it's you, you might have a problem....he could be tired of it. But then again I am sure you will find a way. Why don't you start with I am sorry. Then, you can go from there. Sit down and talk about the things that cause you to break up time after time. Come to some kind of a compromise.
2007-01-03 14:35:40 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hun. Be realistic.
Tell him how you feel and ask him how he feels about you
and the situation.
If he says he just wants to be friends or whatever, don't force you affection and love on him.
He will only drift away.
But the best advice is don't chase lost dreams and move on. Go to clubs or something. Meet someone new and let go.
Good Luck~
2007-01-03 14:56:55 · answer #3 · answered by Breah 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Real love does not cause you to not eat or feel pain. Just pickup the phone and let him know how you're feeling.
2007-01-03 14:36:14 · answer #4 · answered by phillylady4u 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Send him a valentine card next month (and publish a valentine message in the newspaper you know he subscribes to) if you haven't gotten his attention by then. Good Luck
2007-01-03 14:33:54 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
tell him how u really feel. that way, ull hav a definite answer about his feelings, n there will be no questions. u mihgt hurt, but at least then u can force urself to start over.
2007-01-03 14:33:35 · answer #6 · answered by Sharon 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
ask him if he still loves u jis call him and then dorwn on the phone it will most likely make him feel bad or he jis really wants u back
2007-01-03 14:34:51 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hmph I agree with mike
2007-01-03 14:35:17 · answer #8 · answered by spiritualism0 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
..if it was "on and off"..then there really wasnt much there...anyway...your feeling sick because you know he is really not worth it although you are afraid to let go....afraid to be alone with no backup to fall on....you should get another boyfriend..out of site-out of mind....(sorry, but it is true)..
2007-01-03 14:39:23 · answer #9 · answered by chillie 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Send him pictures of your bare feet and ask him if you can give him a foot job.
2007-01-03 14:36:25 · answer #10 · answered by Submit to her Feet 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋