okay heres the deal, my boyfriend out of the blue said that he did some stuff with another girl, i found out who the girl was and apparently he gave her his class ring, we've been goin out 7 months and i really like him because i once made a mistake so he gave me a second chance but when i said i was gonna give him one he said he didn't deserve it, i've been crying all day and he's been followin me around like usual at school, i'm so confused!! he didn't even sign the note with "love" like he usually does. HELP!! tell me what this means and if anyone has anything that would cheer me up that would be greatly appreciated
2007-01-03 06:07:45 · 14 answers · asked by ♥PopLock&DropIt♥ 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
just sit down and talk to him and ask him why he is acting like he is!!!
2007-01-03 06:11:57 · answer #1 · answered by Sarah Marah 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
First off, try not to stress out too much. I know it's hard to do, but don't worry too much. After all, is this situation really worth all the stress? I mean, you have your health. So, just take a deep breath and relax! : ) Ok, now for the problem: if he gave you a second chance, I think you should give him a second chance. The reason he said that he didn't deserve a second chance is because he didn't want to seem too pushy to you. He wanted you to make the decision. If he's following you around at school, he obviously still likes you. He's only not signing "love" at the end of notes because he's afraid you'll reject him for it. Of course, don't take my opinion as the last word - I could be wrong in my interpretations. Just follow your heart! If you still feel the same way about him, forgive him, but if your love is shattered, why go on? Good luck!
2007-01-03 14:16:24 · answer #2 · answered by potassiumbroth4 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
People make mistakes. Sometimes those mistakes are damaging to a relationship. If he goes to other girls now, he will later. And will you always be the one to give third or fourth chances? And will you be the one on the other end asking for those chances? That's not a way to live, if you're going to be with someone, stay with them. Otherwise it's a cruel thing you both are doing to eachother and that's not love.
2007-01-03 14:14:18 · answer #3 · answered by ? 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
What should cheer you up is to realize that this high school/ teenage relationships never last, and when you're around 25-28, you'll meet a man who is mature, and worthy of your love. This high school stuff is basically meaningless. Crying all day and being confused is a waste of time. You're destined for bigger and better things.
2007-01-03 14:12:11 · answer #4 · answered by Violet Pearl 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
to tell you the truth i would have tripped the f*** off if it was me i mean yeah you did messed up but he didnt have to go and messed around with someone else that was plain wrong here's what i would have done i would left his a** look so good flirt a little and you would see his a** begging you back and one word of advice dont ever fight for a man if he aint giving you **** and most importantly dont ever make a boy see you crying because it will make him feel so good like hes all that you know. that is the worst thing that can happen dont make him see you down all look happy even if your not
2007-01-03 14:22:39 · answer #5 · answered by beautiful 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Oh sweetie guys make mistakes like girls do..Its all up to you.If you dont trust him then dont bother.If there is not trust there is no relationship..Yes it really hurts...and you will feel bad for a few days but then it only means he wasnt the one for you...Its okay to be sad and cry your hurting...You will be okay....keep your chin up and smile cause better things are to come for you..Your a beautiful person I can tell and willsucceed at anything yoiu do..Good luck
2007-01-03 14:12:24 · answer #6 · answered by karen e 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Dump him, he is looking for a reason to get out anyway. The only thing that will cheer you up is by thinking of all the fun you will have with your next boyfriend
2007-01-03 14:12:50 · answer #7 · answered by Jonathan I 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
this is insane, he gave another girl his school ring and you feel that because you messed up once that you should forgive him. thank god i am so beyond all this. listen honey, everyone makes mistakes but that doesnt excuse it when they are done. why is he following you around, and how old are you anyway.
2007-01-03 14:15:23 · answer #8 · answered by rosebud1320 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you just need to stop being around him...i know telling you that wont help because you will just keep doing wat yur doing anyways...but i had a boyfriend that i had for 8 months and i loved him so much he was my first love and we broke up and i kept hanging around and from experience it doesnt get no where and it just hurts you...SO..just leave him with the other gurll..tell him off say.."you obviously want to be with her!" that will make you feel better PLUS he might feel bad and come back..if not WHO CARES theres many guys out there!
2007-01-03 14:12:37 · answer #9 · answered by ~Ohio State~ 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
From the sound of it you are to young to be having these kind of problem my advice is to dump him and wait till you are older to have a relationship
2007-01-03 14:39:20 · answer #10 · answered by Kat 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok he cheated, showed more interest in the other girl and didnt sign that note like he did before.....forget him! ( I know its hard to hear that)
2007-01-03 14:12:04 · answer #11 · answered by Cali 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋