I and my girlfriend has been together for about 5 months. She is a virgin.?

Question

And I love her personality as well as physical appearance. She is the one I plan to marry next year. The problem is: Two days ago, I gave her oral sex for the first time. I found out her thing is smelly. How can I help her improve that condition. Ladies, Is there any kind of perfume and gel or liquid help improve my girlfriend's unpleasant odor. I love my girl friend and I want to buy that for her. (Note: My girlfriend is twenty-three yrs old. I am her first boyfriend and I don't expect her to be 100% perfect. But I just want to help her improve herself and help me to give her a better oral sex when I can stand the smell. Also, My girl friend is kindof shy, so I don't want to tell her about it without buying the stuff for her first). Note 2: She is a clean girl, every where in her body smells good except that part. So please don't tell me to tell her "take a bath". Also, please don't tell me to find a better girl because I truely love her.

Answer 1

It sounds to me that she could have an infection if it is smelly down below..maybe she has thrush..if she has just had a bath and thouroughly cleaned down there then it shouldnt be smelly..but if you are giving her oral sex a few hours a fter then it would be smelly..these things happen..you have to have a chat with her....think if you were the smelly one..its not nice being told but its the only way.

Answer 2

I would suggest that if you want to give her oral then do it right after a shower/bath (buy her some scented shower wash or bath salts/oils). And for perfume, you can buy her some, but tactfully let her know that you would love to smell that on her vagin.al area but don't let her spray it directly on herself or it could cause infection (but more like on her panties and her panties should be breathable. So buy her some sexy cotton ones exp. thongs).

But for permantant repairment, I agree with the others. On one hand, she probably has an infection (should really see a doctor about that) and the other is her diet. She needs to eat more healthy foods and drink lots and lots of water. So if you guys go out to eat or you surprise her with a picnic give her tons of fruits and veggies and nice cold water!

When you bring it up, put it in a way that you had read an article about how you need to go to the doctor to have your "private area" checked once a year or what not. Talk her into it. If she goes to the doctor they will notice it right away and be able to help her. And don't offer up a douche (it causes infections minus what other people may think).

Answer 3

Just slip a roofy in her drink and she is all yours. HAHA jk man umm just respect her decisions. she will come around sooner or later. Trust me bro, patience patience patience is what girls like. It shows that you understand and and she will faster come out of her shell and be enjoying each other yet in another way faster than you think. Also Friends have a MAJOR impact on her thoughts, but not all girls r the same. Some like to follow the crowd ( as in her friends), yet they just have more self respect and do want to wait for that special someone. So man just be patient, you guys have been together 5 months.... give it a few more months, and show her that u love her, she will eventually come around. The little things are what count the most to chicks. write her poems, take her out to dinners, buy her stuffed animals or flower just because. No reason necessary. Good luck brother

Answer 4

ouch..
tough one, however i commend you for keeping mum about this to your g/f as it will embarass her.
although she is clean, most women after not showering for usually 8 hours or more will start to give off a strong odour.
thats very normal. i myself, dont even like my fiance to go down on me unless i have showered in the last 2-3 hours.. i try to shower right when i know something is going to happen orally.
the only thing i can suggest, is feminine wipes, usually sold with feminine products. or when you know something is going to happen, urge her to take a bath or shower, the odour should not be that strong immediately afterwards. if you two are at that stage, take an erotic shower together.. you could try saying something along the lines to her of.. "im feeling really frisky hun, why dont u get yourself fresh for me so i can enjoy some dessert." hopefully she will get the drift that you just prefer her to be fresh, as most men prefer their women, and also vice versa.

Answer 5

I don't doubt she is clean, but maybe she needs to pay more attention to her genitals. If that smell doesn't go out with soap and water, she might have some kind of bacterial infection, and it would be best to visit a doctor. Having an infection can be due to her underwear. anyway, i think the best way is talk to her about it in a nice and polite way.

Answer 6

If you she clean as you say then maybe it was just after her period and she had a bad sense because of that . and she do not have an infection then you need to tell her very kindly to bath properly before you get an infection in your mouth

Answer 7

Ok rather than telling her to take a bath..suggest a bath or shower together! There's this product called "sweet spot" which I saw at Ricki's nyc..

Answer 8

is she taking any medication? was she close to her period?

what i am saying is "how can you be sure she always smell this bad?"

try a couple more time before bring up the perfume suggestion, because it can be pretty degrading.

Answer 9

There's sprays, soaps for 'down there', you can get those anywhere, also, maybe she needs to change her diet, foods do affect body odors.

Answer 10

Mr Clean works wonders
lol