2007-01-03 06:05:01 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I love him - but when I show him he runs. It hurts not to be with him but- what can I do? I tried. I told him I missed him and I loved him and always would and if he needed anything to let me know.
On and off for 6 years. Recently living together now we are not
2007-01-03 06:09:55 · update #1
its hard but you have to be strong.. try and erase him from your mind and get your friends to help you..go out and meet other people..keep yourself busy..dont sit about and mope..maybe go to the gym and work of some frustration.
2007-01-03 06:07:47 · answer #1 · answered by fajita 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's a big question. Why do you have to act like you're over him? Did he break up with you?
You never have to be anything or anyone other than yourself. If you have feelings for this person and can no longer express those feelings, then you have to find something else you like to do to have fun.
Know that you'll always love that person, but life doesn't always workout the way we like. There will be more journeys down the road for you to enjoy.
2007-01-03 14:09:03 · answer #2 · answered by CH 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't call him. If he calls you, don't run to answer the phone immideately or call him back at least few hours later, tell him you have company and you can't stay on the phone too long. If he asks you out, refuse, tell him that you're busy. When he's around you, avoid him... or just say hello and don't start a conversation. Pretend you're interested in someone else. Always talk to other man when he's around.
2007-01-03 14:08:51 · answer #3 · answered by baby2007 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't talk to him that much but still talk. (don't try to avoid him that looks suspicious) Don't look at him except when talking to him. Don't flinch if you see him with a girl or hear him talk about a girl. Casually mention things that suggest that you are moving on. (going out with friends....)
It's a painful thing to have to act like you are over someone when you aren't.
I am in a situation where I like someone who doesn't like me and I have to try to act normal and as if I don't feel any differently. It sucks. And I find it hurts so much---you might try giving up on the act and just not seeing him anymore. Then when you do see him you might actually be over him. I am considering this myself.
2007-01-03 14:12:45 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Why would you want to act like you are if you aren't? Move on and let the man find someone who truely cares and wants him......
Ok I misunderstood the question. =0P
If you're not over him then just let him know your true feelings. If he dumped you and doesn't want you then do yourself a favour and distance yourself from him until you've healed.
2007-01-03 14:07:11 · answer #5 · answered by Cheryl K 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
well get a new guy and kiss in front of him. it will make him jelous. talk on the phone with a new guy. say i love u baby or something like that. i hope for the best of luck for u.
Shelly
2007-01-03 14:08:20 · answer #6 · answered by Yemiko 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
when he looks at u dont look at him, and talk to ur friends. wait, i need detail plz IM me or email me I think i know what ur saying but not sure cuz i kinda need detail PLZ.?
-kaycee
2007-01-03 14:08:00 · answer #7 · answered by ♥Answer Gurl♥ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont try any more .if he loves u or is interested at all he'll come back .if not he's probably not right for you
2007-01-03 14:12:35 · answer #8 · answered by shere 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Dont....you will only hurt yourself more because you are in denial...it wont work, only get harder for you.
2007-01-03 14:08:23 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
why put on a front... don't just try to stay away from him hiun
2007-01-03 14:08:02 · answer #10 · answered by Cassie 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋