she is married ...why would you wanna see you your ex?
2007-01-03 05:37:42 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
She wants to bone you.
2007-01-03 06:15:49 · answer #1 · answered by Sax M 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am sure you used to be friends right?? Before you were married you were her friend, a shoulder for her to cry on. Maybe something is wrong there or with one of your kids. Or maybe she just wants to talk to you to see where things where wrong so neither of you make the same mistakes over again.
If you are uncomfortable then tell her at the very beginning of the conversation. That will maker her state her purpose much quicker.
Don't be thinkin she wants you back.... I am sure that should be the least of your worries, no offense.
Just talk to her, what can it hurt?
2007-01-03 13:42:57 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know if I ran into my ex I wouldnt want to catch up. Theres a reason why we would have got a divorce. Saying hi is one thing and speaking for a few minutes is fine, but to catch up and she is married, no way jose.
2007-01-03 13:52:32 · answer #3 · answered by rosebud1320 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends. If you all do not have any children there is nothing you all need to catch up about. She is looking for trouble and if you are married or in a relationship you need to stay away
2007-01-03 13:43:03 · answer #4 · answered by Proud Momma of 4mth old Boy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's not abnormal. Lots of people are better friends after they divorce, they just weren't meant to be married. I don't know how long you were together, or how long you've been apart, or if kids are involved, I'd say as long as she isn't coming on to you, I wouldn't worry.
2007-01-03 13:46:07 · answer #5 · answered by Proud to be 59 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
coming from a woman...she wanted to see if yall had anything there....she's unhappy in her new marriage...and she wants to see if your unhappy with out her in your life...did you divorce on bad grounds or good one...i would want to see how my ex was doing if i was married to him for some years...i'm not married or have i ever been married...
2007-01-03 13:43:10 · answer #6 · answered by ladywetherell23 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She probably still feels a connection with you,maybe being married to you ws better than her current situation/.
2007-01-03 13:39:52 · answer #7 · answered by carin1983 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
For her maybe so. Lots of people are fine moving on and being civil, and then things like curiosity and wanting to know that things are ok for you would be healthy.
For you, it doesn't sound like it.
2007-01-03 13:56:20 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
She may think it was not so bad with you after all and she wants to re-connect. What out for a jealous hubby...
2007-01-03 13:41:28 · answer #9 · answered by capnemo 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i have know idea .but just give god your problems .or she could just want to catch up on things.
2007-01-03 13:43:53 · answer #10 · answered by ? 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋