Family & Relationships - 3 January 2007

Do you have a ghetto family Member that gets on your last nerves????!!!!???? If so put them on blast and tell why they are ghetto


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2007-01-03 05:28:30 · 10 answers · asked by TruDiva 3 in Family

2007-01-03 05:28:24 · 18 answers · asked by joey4hitman 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-03 05:26:21 · 39 answers · asked by Girl Nobody 2 in Singles & Dating

My Fiance and I are looking for a place for a winter mountain wedding in Southern or Southeastern Colorado. We will be having a small wedding, only nine guest will be in attendance. We would prefer to be outdoors on a mountain. I have been in desperate search for months, but the only thing I have found is the ski resorts. That would be fine for my side of the family, but Patricks side of the family can not ski. Does ANYONE have any ideas? We would like to marry in Febuary or March. PLLLLLEEEEEEAAAAASSSEEEE HELP!!!!!
Thank you!
Desperate in Oklahoma

2007-01-03 05:24:27 · 3 answers · asked by johndeerechick 2 in Weddings

I don't know ANYTHING about any of this stuff. My Mom doesn't know either. Should we invite close friends, people who will be in the bridal party along with the fam? Just dinner somewhere or at home?

2007-01-03 05:23:59 · 5 answers · asked by LONG ISLAND GIRL 3 in Weddings

Hey, ive never had a girlfriend and im 19 years old. Ive always been a fussy person and when it comes to dating im picky. Now im getting really worried because if i continue to be like this then ill never have a partner and end up alone. Am i different from everybody else??

2007-01-03 05:20:06 · 80 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

When I worked in the same section as him, he always seem to be at the teapoint the same time as me. I changed the times I was there to see if he would turn up. He did once but that was it. He seemed to make a point of talking to me but it never got past the point of general trivia. Could he have been shy ?I really would like some advice on ways to check if he fancies me. Can anyone give me advice ?

2007-01-03 05:16:36 · 5 answers · asked by angie 1 in Singles & Dating

Ok, I am always paying for everything! I left highschool and went into a job as an apartment manager- I make good money for someone just coming out of highschool. However, my boyfriend (soon to be fiance) sits at home with no job, no college, and expects me to pay for everything! I don't mind paying sometimes- but its starting to get to me. He also doesn't have a car or licence for that matter- he's almost 19 years old. Please don't call him names- he's a doll really, he's been through more than you could imagen. I just need to know what I can do and how to approach him with telling him that he needs to get his **** together. I mean, I could just tell him but I don't want to hurt his feelings- he's already had a hard life.. What do I do?

2007-01-03 05:12:11 · 71 answers · asked by Nikki 1 in Singles & Dating

I've been married for a year and a half and we have a 7 month old baby.Things were great until we got married.He has the shortest temper and we started to argue all the time about stupid things but during these arguments he gets violent.Not with me but he throws things and punches walls and once he pushed me.Once he calmes down i try to talk about it and he says that everything is my fault for making him mad.I want to do cuples therapy but he wont go, so i go, but its not the same.Besides all this i dont trust him.He usually comes home on time from work but if he goes anywhere he wont tell me where hes going and if i ask he gets mad and then i start thinking things.Before we started dating he was in a relationship and he cheated all the time.When we met things seemed to have chaged in him but im afriad hes going back to his old ways.My friend suggested that if it would bring peace of mind i should have someone follow him.But its expensive (i guess) and im scared he'll find out.

2007-01-03 05:10:18 · 5 answers · asked by ? 1 in Marriage & Divorce

i've got this friend who has a boyfriend...she dosen't like him anymore and he still likes her, she tried to break up with him but he just won't go...like no way out of here.....he refused to break up with her.....he just wouldn't go..she even tried flirting with his best friend but he wouldn't feel anything at all.......he just refuses to break up....help me solve her problem please....best friend!!!

2007-01-03 05:10:01 · 63 answers · asked by Jason Kid 2 in Singles & Dating

I have had 2 unhealthy relationships in the past 2 years which left me with trust issues regarding men. I met someone that expressed an interest with me and I told him that I wanted to establish friendship first before having a physical relationship. He asked me how long, and I said however long it takes..8 months, or more, whatever. He said he was not willing to wait for 8 months. Should I assume that this man has a hidden agenda? ...and does not really care about me? (Even though he say's he does) I, myself would absolutely sustain if I felt he was the right one...and would give him as much time as possible...then again, I am not a man.

2007-01-03 05:04:17 · 55 answers · asked by ntouch06 1 in Singles & Dating

My honey and I plan on getting married some time next year. We don't want to spend a whole bundle of money. He would like a church ceremony (thats not really the costly thing), We would like a decent reception (Sunday afternoon around Lunch time) but everywhere I have looked so far is going to cost a fortune. I was wondering if anyone can give me any ideas that will help save money, but will be beautiful and fun for not only us but for everyone else as well. I would be expecting around 50 to 60 people to attend (mostly my family). Thanks.

2007-01-03 05:02:32 · 27 answers · asked by Easter Bunny 4 in Weddings

I am only 19 but I honestly think that I have found the person that i am meant to be with. We have been dating for almost a month and a half but EVERYTHING is PERFECT. I am extremely excepted in his family as he is mine. We have had no arguments or disagreements. Everything he says is perfect and I know that I am falling head over heels in love with him. He is EVERYTHING that i could EVER want or need in a mate. An education, a career, and a heart full of love. He respects me to the fullest and does his best to make sure that I am beyond happy. I honestly feel like if he asked me to marry him today and us wed tomorrow i would do it! ... He is only 20 but I think he knows exactly where he is going. I have only known him about 2 months but i have no doubt about us and niether does he. I think he feels the same way that I do.... It is like a fairytale come true..So, do you think that i could have found my soul mate the one guy that was meant for me?

2007-01-03 04:59:33 · 54 answers · asked by Kathryn N 1 in Singles & Dating

My husband got this cat a couple of years ago...when we only had one child. Now we have 3 and our middle child has asthma and allergies really bad. The cat only makes her sicker...plus it's just gross. He gets on the kitchen counters, eats my baby's bottle nipples and pacifiers...his litter box stinks, AND he's not really all that friendly. Everytime I bring it up my husband just gets angry, but I really don't want the cat to be around for 10 plus more years! Is it really that terrible of me to want to send the cat to another home, or at least outside?

2007-01-03 04:57:12 · 3 answers · asked by mommyismyname 3 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-01-03 04:56:07 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

Long story short, I've been really in love with this guy for about a year and a half, we just admitted it about a month ago and we've got a lot of backed up, for lack of a better word passion. I haven't seen him in two weeks and now I'm worried the relationship is going to go too far.

I'm only 14, he's a bit older. Right now we've only kissed. When I'm in my right mind, I don't want it to go any further. But when I'm with him, and everything's been heating up, both of us start making moves I don't want us to make. I don't want anything besides hugging and kissing. Definitely no sex. No sexual touching. I'm going to get carried away in the moment and I want to be sure of how to handle myself.

Also, is it unfair to have just been on the cusp of doing something, and then to just break it off and start only cuddling instead?

2007-01-03 04:54:50 · 37 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

im almost 4 months pregnant. My babys father tends to drive me crazy and sends me in emotional circles. I met him only 6 months ago, and since day one he had my heart, the only problems are...he has lied to me in the past he has cheated on me. He has multiple promises he has yet to keep. So in love but its so hard to trust him, but at the same time i cant see myself without him,this is my first child. He tells me that things are going to get better but ive yet to see a rapid change. He doesnt really do too much to get my trust back. Im driving myself crazy having a hard time trying to trust him because of all the pain he has cause me, plus being pregnant my hormones are all out of wack. How many chances should i give him to treat me right before i leave? He wants me to stick around and be there for him, he said thats what a good woman would do. So my question is...after broken promise after broken promise should i leave him or should i stick around and try to make things better?

2007-01-03 04:54:38 · 47 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I have a really good friend whos also been her close friend for a long time. Now he wants to go out with her too,and she doesnt like it because she feels like she cant really talk to him anymore without him saying something about it to her,and it bothers me because my friend doesnt know that I know this and its really awkward talking 2 him,and because my girlfriend is getting really sick of it.....What should we do?

2007-01-03 04:52:43 · 39 answers · asked by me 1 in Singles & Dating

what is wrong with me. i am sabotaging my new relationship with my bf. I have been seeing him about 6 months now, but have been friends with him for about a year. He has been so sweet and a gentlemen to me. I love his affection and also give him back the same, and definitely treat him nice, but at times I seem to get moody and sometimes start acting up like oh, maybe this wont work out, maybe we should just be friends. I told him this the first time, i hurt him emotionally, I made him cry. I didnt know i had the power to do that to him, he left the next day and drove up 6hrs to see me in. I broke his heart twice, i did it again. I do care alot for him. But what I dont understand is, when we are apart, I miss him and want him and think of him, and he is here with me for his winter break for 3 weeks, and the first week I was fine, but then something happened, I seem to be acting up again, and always upset or give him the silent treatment. and its not fair to him. He distanced himself.

2007-01-03 04:52:01 · 1 answers · asked by Larki79 1 in Singles & Dating

my husban want to get something for me but dont know what to bye
me i dont want clothes or jellerie i want something special

2007-01-03 04:50:07 · 30 answers · asked by carolle g 1 in Weddings

2007-01-03 04:50:00 · 36 answers · asked by Amanda 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

My husband went skiing with his buddies. He called four days ago and said that he was caught in a snow storm. They had to drive out to another state.

I haven't heard from him. He is scheduled to pick up the kids today. I had no idea where he was. I sent a email saying that I would assume that he is picking up the kids unless I hear otherwise. (His blackberri(sp?) works anywhere and anytime. I get a email back saying. "I am here, in the office and tired. Thanks for asking." Is it me or is he a jerk?

2007-01-03 04:49:36 · 83 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

my best friend is the biggest whore ever.. & ive tried to tell her that whut shes doing is wrong but she dont listen. i even think she has some STD's but she wont admit it. how can i help her or make her realize whut shes doing is wrong.

2007-01-03 04:46:37 · 30 answers · asked by Amanda 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

Sometimes, I get these random spontaneous thoughts of my parents dying. Like they would go somewhere and I would just think to myself, "What if this is the last time I see them??" It's AWFUL!! I can't even IMAGINE the pain I would endure to go through losing my parents so young (I'm in my early 20s). It hurts just to think that...

Like when my dad goes to work, I wonder if that's the last time I see him... so I make sure I give him a hug and say "I love you" and smile at him before he leaves.

And with my mom today... she had to drop her friend off. I rode in the car with her so she wouldn't be by herself on the way back home. And if something happens to HER, something would happen to me too... and I would atleast suffer with her and she wouldn't be alone...

My mind is twisted. I hate thinking these things. Do you guys have these random thoughts?! And how do you make them stop... : (

2007-01-03 04:46:02 · 8 answers · asked by Rita 3 in Family

All of my female friends have kids. All but one of them are struggling single mother's who are doing their best to raise their kids in a single parent home. A couple of them have been pregnant multiple times and have had abortions to get rid of the children that they don't want.
I asked one of my friends why does she stay with her boyfriend who she has complained to me about many times and has called a no good looser on many occasions. She told me that she stays with him because it is better than being alone. This seems to be the consensous of a lot of young women today. "I would rather have a piece of slop man than be alone". I don't understand this kind of thinking at all. I'm 30 single, no kids, no man and I am very happy to be single. It doesn't bother me at all that I don't have some no good looser laying up in my bed living off of me. Am I the only one that feels this way??

2007-01-03 04:44:15 · 44 answers · asked by Cheryl J 2 in Singles & Dating

I find myself talking about my boyfriend a lot...

I am spending the holidays with my parents. And I realize that I talk about him way too much... that he comes up a lot in conversations... like "Jacob does this... Jacob does that... Jacob and I went here before... etc etc." It's bugging me. I feel like I'm wearing his name out!!

I don't want my parents to get tired of hearing about him either. LOL. I love him!!! We've been together for almost 11 months... almost a year. I just feel like he's the only one I talk about... the only one I think about... I feel clingy in a way. But in fact, I'm not clingy at all. I even try to catch myself before I bring him up again.

Do you guys feel like you talk about your significant other too much?

2007-01-03 04:43:58 · 5 answers · asked by ( Kelly ) 7 in Singles & Dating

she hasnt gotten too detailed or anything and i want to keep it that way....
she is very sexually confident... WHICH I LOVE BELIEVE ME
however ignorance is bliss and id like to keep it there.
thanks

2007-01-03 04:43:54 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

a) skinny
b) average
c) Built/Muscular
d) Chubby
e) Fat

2007-01-03 04:40:52 · 71 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

would you care if your hubby went to the pealers and lied to you about it? what would you do

2007-01-03 04:39:59 · 49 answers · asked by lildomenk 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I hear women/men say all the time that they want kids NOW. Yet, most of them haven't finished school or don't have stable jobs/income. I just need to understand why people are in such a hurry to have children when they are still pursuing their careers or trying to finish college. What is the rush?

2007-01-03 04:38:13 · 46 answers · asked by phillylady4u 2 in Singles & Dating