Could I Have Found My Soul Mate?

Question

I am only 19 but I honestly think that I have found the person that i am meant to be with. We have been dating for almost a month and a half but EVERYTHING is PERFECT. I am extremely excepted in his family as he is mine. We have had no arguments or disagreements. Everything he says is perfect and I know that I am falling head over heels in love with him. He is EVERYTHING that i could EVER want or need in a mate. An education, a career, and a heart full of love. He respects me to the fullest and does his best to make sure that I am beyond happy. I honestly feel like if he asked me to marry him today and us wed tomorrow i would do it! ... He is only 20 but I think he knows exactly where he is going. I have only known him about 2 months but i have no doubt about us and niether does he. I think he feels the same way that I do.... It is like a fairytale come true..So, do you think that i could have found my soul mate the one guy that was meant for me?

I mean ACCEPTED .... not excepted...

Answer 1

I think that it is very possible to have found your soul mate at 19. Although I do think that we go through many life changes b/w the ages of 18-25, I think love is something that transcends age. I hate it when people tell young adults that we don't know what love is and won't be ready to make life commitments until we are like 30. True, getting married super young may not be the best idea, but I think it should be judged on a case by case basis.

If this guy has the same goals as you in life and is willing to love and support you through college or whatever career/training you are seeking and you both see yourselves growing older togther then I think you have found that lucky guy. Good for you!!!

Answer 2

Ask yourself the same question 2 years later. That's when the honeymoon period ends. You're way too young and way too inexperienced to know anything about love. This is probably your first real boyfriend right? Well, we all feel that way the first time around. Prepare to have your heart broken in a year or two at the most.

You say he has an education? What did you graduate from? Red Neck High? There are institutions of higher learning. It's called universities and colleges. Why don't you guys give that a whirl.

What kind of a career does he have? Fast food? That's not a career. A good career is when you are making well into 6 figures, if you even know what that means.

I don't want to rain on your parade, but you don't have anything special. It's typical. There is absolutely nothing wrong with waiting another year before you commit to a marriage.

Answer 3

Maybe you did, maybe you didn't. You won't know until more time passes. One thing I noticed is that you said you guys don't argue. Well maybe thats a good thing right now because you're so new into the relationship but if you don't ever argue then there's a problem. You see, when two people really care about eachother, they argue. Not excessively but they do. It's a sign of emotion and compassion for eachother. Think about it, if you don't argue with someone about something you should then it's because you really don't care too much about it or them. So that's something to look at later down the road. Also, with most relationships, everything seems perfect in the beginning because you're still getting to know eachother and bond. Don't put your all into it just yet, give yourself a little more time because you can't learn everything about a person that quick, it does take a lifetime, even then maybe not enough time. Just be careful because there is that saying we all know "If it's too good to be true, then it probably is" Not to say that's what's happening here because you very well could be a lucky lady and have found that person put on this earth to be with you. Take it day by day, don't rush it, that will only cause things to fall apart. I'm glad you are very happy right now and I hope it stays that way for ya! Good luck!

Answer 4

I found mine when I was 17. But it is a process. We started out as just friends then about half a year later he asked me out and I kept saying no cause I was so scared to make a mistake. I finally said yes. And we've been together 3 of the most happiest, challenging and difficult (all understatements) years of both of our lives. I have been engaged for the past 6 months and I am quite happy with the way things have gone.

I am glad I waited, took it all slow. Cause it gives me "me time". When you're married, sometimes the sacrifices you have to make you don't want to or even understand. That's why everyone keeps telling you to wait. There are just somethings out there that keeps us 19 and 20 year olds still ignorant of the world.

You are, of course, going to have to choose your own path. But from my own experience, if I had dated him right away and we got married then, it would have been a mistake because we're both different people than we were then. But we grew together and that's part of being a team. See if you both work well as a team through the next joyous and hard coming times. You know your own answer, there are really no reassurances in this world. Think before you act. You have time on your side...

Answer 5

Okay. Slow down there. You've only been going out for a month, sorry to disappoint you but your thinking things too quickly. At 19, you're not really ready to start considering marriage and stuff like that. Don't take it too seriously because you could get hurt later on, you're still young remember. You will know when you've found your soulmate, and you will have no doubts about it, so really you wouldn't need to ask yahoo answers.
Enjoy the time that you have together, but just don't take it too seriously.
Good luck.

Answer 6

hate to be a joykiller but theres no such thing as soulmates and it ain't no fairytale.It's just your genes wanting to replicate themsellves,they have the power over u and what u think is ur consiousness and not the cosmos or stars or anything else.Note how u said he had a career and was educated first?Heck almost any guy withese quaklities (maybe as well as being rich,good looking,reminding u of ur dad Elektra type complex or an older manly man if u had no father) would probably have u head over heels,u just nneded to come across them(maybe thats the only fated part)
Take out these factors in ur imagination and then maybe,JUST maybe there is an inkling of some kind of theoretical true love whose very existence philosphists and biologists have been boggling over fo generations.I WANT to believe but I NEED to be real

Answer 7

I think what your experiencing is lust and infatuation. Knowing a guy for 2 months and being with him for only a month is a very short time. You two don't know enough about each other yet to say "this is real" Sorry honey but give it time you two will discover more about each other as time goes on and you will learn more about yourself too. Your in what is called the Honeymoon stage it does eventually fade and reality sits in. Enjoy it for now cause things in life happen you two will have first fights, first hurts, first sadness and so on. It isnt always a bed of roses but if your both committed to each other and have an everlasting bond and willingness to work on things together you'll make it so enjoy the moment for what it is cause things will getting bumpy at times. Good luck .

Answer 8

Just dont rush anything. 85% of marriages between the ages of 18-25 end in divorce. Dont push anything and take it slow. Almost every relationship I've ever been in has been a rush at the beginning and then gradually slows down into a comfortable level. If you can survive the comfortable levels for extended periods, Id say you have a chance of staying together. Good luck

Answer 9

I know exactly how you feel, I started going out with my girlfriend about 2 months ago and honestly we both think we are a perfect match because we are interested in the exact same things and she love how I treat her, and honestly she must really like me if she is giving it up to me already, she just turn 17 and I'm 19 but honestly if you would like to talk instant message me or something.

Answer 10

1- Relax and enjoy your feelings, don't worry too much about them.
2- Do your best to work on the relationship and enjoy it!
3- Have in mind that it may or may not last for ever. Make sure you don't get too attached until some more time has passed in the relationship.
4- Good luck!