Family & Relationships - 3 January 2007

Neither one of us is very strong in our religion (I go on Easter and Christmas, and he goes whenever he makes the trip down to his parents house almost 3 hours away) and he has said that he would become Catholic, but that would disappoint his parents. We don't want a huge wedding as we have to pay for everything ourselves (my parents have been telling me that all my life, they paid for their wedding so we have to pay for ours.) We have already discussed the differences and know that it will take some work but we will be able to get through them. What kind of wedding should we have? I know that if I don't get married in a Catholic church then I won't "be married" in the eyes of the church, or in the eyes of my parents. His parents don't really mind anymore, since we have been engaged for 2 years already. Does anyone have any help to offer?

2007-01-03 03:42:49 · 27 answers · asked by urliltease4eva 1 in Weddings

I love my man very much and he too. but he is two months younger than me... Normally People dont accept to marry a guy younger than a girl. it is in practice.. is it right?? I feel that true love never mind about age, status and all.... am i right.... what u people think abt it??

2007-01-03 03:42:46 · 33 answers · asked by apple 2 in Family

Plain & Simple.
There's this guy I'm really attracted to, were both 19, and work together, well we have so much in common and all that lovey dovey stuff...well I have a son, and he has two kids and lives with his baby's mom and her brother.
They, "according to him" are not together, but she is crazy jealous, and he can't even have female friends because she'll hunt them down and fight them.
So from his past experience trying to move on to other relationships, he has found it useless because she has fought or tried to fight every girl he has tried to be with, and so on the same level, I don't want my baby's dad to find out, bcuz him and my baby's dad are beefing too...
Well wtv, so we've juss been keepin' our lil' thing on the low, I don't think we'd call it a relationship, but we act and all that like we are, but we can't even talk on the phone, or go out to places without someone seeing us, so what to do?
Is he just playin' with me?

2007-01-03 03:42:37 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I am in a relationship .. 3 yrs relationship. i met him online then i met him real, we saw and shared each other for 5 days in life, he is my first love... now he is 27 yrs old and i am 21yrs.. i had sex when i was 19 may be i wasnt matured though to think about life whatever but still i love him a lot. the problem is we are indians we follow culture and tradition. my family wont accept this relationship because he is not highly or professionaly qualified and he do not have permanent job but still he earn his income to live.. he is ok.. now his parents started to think abt this marriage and he is getting so many proposals he asked me should i marry other girl or not and my answer was Follow your heart.. you decide with whom do u want to live with.. he needs to marry a girl in U.S. i am not a nurse so i cant earn money like a nurse. His parents are interested in him to marry a nurse that they prefer, i still love him but how we gonna live if i marry him? family will be against this..

2007-01-03 03:42:35 · 7 answers · asked by ann m 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-01-03 03:41:59 · 39 answers · asked by rjhamuk 2 in Singles & Dating

months ago. He did not accept my work to hang in his gallery, but we did strike up a regular email correspondence, and became pen pal friends. At one point, we discussed meeting in person and perhaps visiting a museum, or something like that. I never gave him my phone number, but this morning he called me (saying he got my # from the phone book) and said he is in town today. Then he boldly asked me if I'd like to go to dinner with him tonight. This took me by surprise, since I am straight, and I assumed he was, too. My question is, is this a gay man trying to date me? I didn't want to mislead him into thinking I was gay. All I wanted was to be friends. Maybe I'm dense, but I know it's customary for two male business colleagues to have lunch--but dinner? What's going on here? Is asking someone you just want to be friends with to dinner normal?

2007-01-03 03:41:55 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

who else likes foreign women, like me. i think they are more attainable/ more open minded. perhaps i am mixing with the wrong sort of english women.

2007-01-03 03:41:07 · 19 answers · asked by rjhamuk 2 in Singles & Dating

Sorry it is so Long, So here it is. I wife and I have been married for 13 years now. We never really had a great sex life…. well 2 months this summer was great but it went as fast as it came, don’t know why. 2 kids, both have jobs you get the picture. Everything else in our relationship is going good. It is the lack of intimacy that I am not happy with. Don’t want anyone else either. I try to initiate sex and I always get the old “I’m tired” or if in the morning “I have to get up soon” Now, I have been reading a lot of stuff on line and I agree with what some of it says. Is this is just an excuse or copout if you will. I know what it is like to be tired but I always have time for my wife. Is it that her priorities are different than mine? I know you may say she really is to tired for sex but if you were to get a call from some one saying that they would take you on a shopping spree with $10,000 to spend or something along that line I am sure you would not be “to tired” to do that.

2007-01-03 03:41:07 · 21 answers · asked by Andy S 3 in Marriage & Divorce

When we make new years resolutions do we have to resolve them on january 1st or do we have the year to resolve them?

2007-01-03 03:40:47 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

of saline pumped in you makes you insane?
(sorry to my silicone friends out there)

2007-01-03 03:40:18 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

a) Skinny
b) Average
c) Built/Muscular
d) Chubby
e) Fat

2007-01-03 03:40:01 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

wow.. how do i begin... i have been seeing my best friend as a boyfriend everything seemed going ok until his ex keeps calling him and threathning me... i also beleive that he is misleading her by not telling her to stop calling even tough he is ignoring her calls. i beleive he still has one string attached to her and until he doesnt let go of that string we can never be an item we haven't spoken or seen each other in 10 days... i miss him soo much what do i do? everyone is telling me not to speak to him to let him call me but i miss having him around! help?!

2007-01-03 03:39:36 · 8 answers · asked by milky856 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-03 03:39:32 · 10 answers · asked by jmelea 2 in Weddings

I left on a 3 month business trip and a month into my wife cell usage jumped up to 4000 mins over the normal usage. Some of these calls were also made during the late hours of the night (late pm and early am) When I confronted her, things went down hill. She told me that she been talking to some of her new friends from her new job she just started. Both males and females. She also told me that they been going out as a group drinking. I’m a jealous person but do I have a good reason to worry. I don’t receive any emails from her anymore when we talk our conversations are very simple. We’ve been marriage for 8 years and have a son together. I ask her a lot of questions but she refused to answer most of them. It leads me to believe she has something to hide. She tells me I’m overreacting. Is she right? We've been fight a lot lately which is the worst I can do being away, but right now I'm thinking about the worst things possible. Please help!

2007-01-03 03:38:53 · 26 answers · asked by Aztec 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I am 22 and I am taking an 18 year old girl out for the first time. I have been on lots of dates before but I always seem to over do it and look to flash or under do it and look cheap. So wot do girls want to do on a first date. I have to impress this one I realy like her.

2007-01-03 03:38:44 · 47 answers · asked by Alex C 1 in Singles & Dating

Ok weird situation. We're both in the military. We went threw all our training together but we were really never that cool. We've known eachother for over a year. We come to our duty station and pretty much become bestfriends becasue we've known eachother for so long. We have now been here for over 6 months and we still hangout everyday. We dont have phones but we live down the hall from eachother. I was never really into her before until we came here and i got to know her more. We are always together people think we are dating but we're "just friends" we go out every weekend with friends and every morning she comes to my room and wakes me up. We tell eachother everything...Crushes and stuff. We dance at clubs and for new years i was her first kiss but it was on the cheek. and she could def. have her pick of any guy she wants becasues shes surrounded by guys and there arnt too many girls at all...so confused i need some help because now i have a crush on her.

2007-01-03 03:38:43 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

He and I have been friends ever sence grade school, we dated once a few years ago, and from that point on he's been a little jelous when I get a new bf... he's the one who decided it wasn't working, but he acts like he wants to go back. Now(today) he flipped out on me over nothing... he even said to a mutual friend that I've been "shoving my problems down his throat". I almost NEVER tell him what's going on, unless I think he can handle it... is there anything I can do?
I still have feelings for him in a more-than-friends kinda way, but didn't want to let them get in the way of our friendship... maybe that's why no one after him has lasted...

2007-01-03 03:37:19 · 8 answers · asked by cher 3 in Friends

to select the songs and burn.Im looking for a shop or a store where can i buy cheap blank CDs but with good quality and any one who can make a personalized CD label and cover(affordable and nice/any one who can teach me how to make or where can i get a design.Any free website for this.Thank you

2007-01-03 03:37:05 · 6 answers · asked by yammy 1 in Weddings

every time i have a large meal. i need the toilet straight after. how can i stop this and does anyone think there is something medically wrong with me. i ate alot of chocolate over christmas and had loads of beer. i don't know if this is normal. i have let almost 50 go in the last six weeks and i think i am putting on weight. what do i do.

2007-01-03 03:37:00 · 21 answers · asked by rjhamuk 2 in Singles & Dating

do you have regrets?
I for one is happy 3 years in the marrige to my wife.

2007-01-03 03:36:43 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

to select the songs and burn.Im looking for a shop or a store where can i buy cheap blank CDs but with good quality and any one who can make a personalized CD label and cover(affordable and nice/any one who can teach me how to make or where can i get a design.Any free website for this.Thank you

2007-01-03 03:36:19 · 3 answers · asked by yammy 1 in Weddings

I really wanna ask this girl out, but im scared out of my wits, i think she likes me but i dont wanna ruin our friendship by doing her maybe not... also wat would be the best way 2 ask her out?

2007-01-03 03:36:19 · 33 answers · asked by Matt 2 in Singles & Dating

ahh..........I need help fast

2007-01-03 03:36:08 · 14 answers · asked by Paige001 1 in Singles & Dating

What to do? I have been sleeping on the sofa for months. Reason is that whenever i sleep in the bed and turn hubby down for sex, he gets all mad and we get in a fight. Even if we have sex two or three times in a week, if i turn him down, he gets pissed. ( We have three kids) and even though he tries to help out with them, sometimes i just want to be left alone and get some sleep like everyone else in the house. He Always Always goes to bed way before i do and then wakes up when i go to bed and wants some ( after hes had some rest). anyway. what can i say to make him understand that he is being unreasonable? (getting tired of the sofa)

2007-01-03 03:36:01 · 7 answers · asked by cheese food product 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Right now I am feeling very neglected by my husband. Lately, he has been having alot going on his life such as working 12 hrs a day, running back and forth to the courts about his kids, etc. By the end of the day he has no energy at all for me or my kids. All he wants to do is take a shower, eat and go to sleep. Should I back off and just start doing my own thing? He doesn't talk to me much either once he gets home. When he treated me like this before I ended up nagging him and we would argue. I want to handle this differently as to get his attention back on making his marriage a priority.

2007-01-03 03:35:17 · 6 answers · asked by stella 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Dear all. I have pointed out the issue in question. But believe me, I never forced any one or complled any one to be mine. Yes, there were some reason behind. In short, I look fair ,smart & 30/35 plus. I do good job in foreign company & earn enough.I spend lot too. I have my own property & side bussiness to. I'm involve with many social organisations wher i got good contacts. With lot of friends & their families.Right on the moment I have as many as 11 girl friends with whom I share every thing!!!!!!!!

2007-01-03 03:34:43 · 22 answers · asked by ogmansur 2 in Friends

I want someone tall, clever, funny, kind, caring, Dark hair, good job/education and a great kisser!!

2007-01-03 03:34:08 · 25 answers · asked by here2helpu 1 in Singles & Dating

Ok...this seems weird for a 36 year old man to be asking. I recently met someone on a dating site. 3 dates and no action. I want to be a gentleman but i dont want to ruin anything if she doesnt want me to. usually its easier than this but i havent dated anyone in three years after i broke up with fiancee and she just recently got divorced. Last week, she dropped her kids off at grandmas and took me over to her house. Her actions suggested she wanted me to do something but there was no indication through her body language! in the car when she dropped me off she already asked if i wanted to do anything this week. She asked me out for this saturday. But i havent heard from her since sunday two days after our last date. She wrote me an email saying she stil wants to hang out with me cause i'm alot of fun but feels awkward cause she was with same guy so long. But i feel that if i dont at least try something she may think i dont have interest or that i'm some kinda fag! What do i do?

2007-01-03 03:33:20 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My wife came home from the gym last week and basically attacked me. We had some of the best sex ever. I joked with her saying, what has gotten in to you? She laughed it off saying, "I can't tell you...you'll be jealous." Well, I could tell that it was one of those deals where she really wanted to tell me, so I persisted a bit. Smiling, she said, "You wanted to know. Don't be mad." She then proceeded to tell me that a black guy at her gym, who is a personal trainer, kept approaching her, flirting, and asking to train her. She said that it was just a naughty turn-on. She said she is a faithful women and would never cheat on me. She admitted that he just had a perfect body and, if she were single, she would "do" him. I wasn't mad. How could I be? I enjoyed the benefits, sexually. That's why, later, I asked if she would like to try a big black dildo and spice things up. She put her pillow over her face and sheepishly said, "Ok." Now, I ask you: Is this harmless fun or a slippery slope?

2007-01-03 03:33:17 · 5 answers · asked by Hush M 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Does age really matter when dating? Question for everyone.

2007-01-03 03:32:53 · 29 answers · asked by deitymike 2 in Singles & Dating