Ok...this seems weird for a 36 year old man to be asking. I recently met someone on a dating site. 3 dates and no action. I want to be a gentleman but i dont want to ruin anything if she doesnt want me to. usually its easier than this but i havent dated anyone in three years after i broke up with fiancee and she just recently got divorced. Last week, she dropped her kids off at grandmas and took me over to her house. Her actions suggested she wanted me to do something but there was no indication through her body language! in the car when she dropped me off she already asked if i wanted to do anything this week. She asked me out for this saturday. But i havent heard from her since sunday two days after our last date. She wrote me an email saying she stil wants to hang out with me cause i'm alot of fun but feels awkward cause she was with same guy so long. But i feel that if i dont at least try something she may think i dont have interest or that i'm some kinda fag! What do i do?
2007-01-03 03:33:20 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I say start making contact with her. Touch her knee or something simple or along those lines.... that way you can gauge her reaction to that. Or you could just tell her whats up and ask her if its too soon to kiss her. I first say thought try the sly, little contact and see what happens. If you are still miffed than be straight up about it.
When did she break up with her ex.... if it wasn't that long ago then shes probably jsut weird getting physical with someone new now.
Good luck and Go Get Some!
2007-01-03 05:21:56 · answer #1 · answered by Heart of Gold 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm about your same age. I say remain a gentleman and continue to date her. She may be hesitant about it all too. Sometimes us single moms just want your time and attention, not sex. Just have fun, go out and enjoy each others company.
2007-01-03 11:40:34 · answer #2 · answered by damesha 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
communicate!
tell her you find her attractive but understand that she has just broken off a long term relationship and my not be ready for anything more then friendship. But DO let her know you are interested...if indeed you are.
2007-01-03 11:37:52 · answer #3 · answered by katalah 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
WELLL NO DATING SITES GO ON MYSPACE AND GET A GIRL OR CLUBS OR STREETS CAUSE U NEED A WOMEN RIGHT NOW CAUSE UR 36 AND LONELY GET ON THE BALL!!!!!!!!!!!
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2007-01-03 11:40:16 · answer #4 · answered by patman9272003 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
gradually increase your actions and movements - she will let you know when to stop (if she wants you to)
2007-01-03 11:38:13 · answer #5 · answered by NAN G 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋