Plain & Simple.
There's this guy I'm really attracted to, were both 19, and work together, well we have so much in common and all that lovey dovey stuff...well I have a son, and he has two kids and lives with his baby's mom and her brother.
They, "according to him" are not together, but she is crazy jealous, and he can't even have female friends because she'll hunt them down and fight them.
So from his past experience trying to move on to other relationships, he has found it useless because she has fought or tried to fight every girl he has tried to be with, and so on the same level, I don't want my baby's dad to find out, bcuz him and my baby's dad are beefing too...
Well wtv, so we've juss been keepin' our lil' thing on the low, I don't think we'd call it a relationship, but we act and all that like we are, but we can't even talk on the phone, or go out to places without someone seeing us, so what to do?
Is he just playin' with me?
2007-01-03 03:42:37 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You are too young to deal with all that drama! Move on with your life and take care of your lil' angel!
2007-01-03 03:45:35 · answer #1 · answered by Queen 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I didn't bother to read your entire passage. My question is where in the hell are you people living having children at this age???? I was still a virgin at 19. Important things first. Are you receiving child support from the guy you keep talking about being the father? And also if not email me direct if you like to know what you should be receiving okay. Too much drama and all these scattered children. you seem to be pretty smart so let's get your act together for the new year! Later for him! You need to concentrate on a relationship with someone else. He is a looser! what is your sign by the way. I will try to guide you the right way for the new year and you will thank me later on in the years......
2007-01-03 11:47:53 · answer #2 · answered by prettysexycalves 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's definitely playing you! He lives with her for more than his kid and because she will fight his new girl thats a poor excuse. He knows u won't tell thats all. Are you ready to play mommy to 3 kids at only 19? I'd find a guy with no kids that way if you want more kids it will be more affordable and he can get to know your child and maybe be a good role model. Think about your future this guy has way too much drama. You have a child put him first and try to give him a stable future. Find a good guy get some schooling and a guy who has a promising career.
2007-01-03 11:51:02 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I cant be 100% sure if hes playing you or not, but i doubt he is. If he is in an unhappy marriage, which seems like the case, then he maybe just lookin for some1 better, like you. His wife sounds crazy though. Has he thought about getting a divorce? or a restraining order to keep her away? Maybe he should consider it. Its gonna be too hard for you to try to keep it on the low, cuz eventually ppl will find out. Its better if you do something about your problem, then you two can go out and talk and etc without worryign about nay problems.
2007-01-03 11:49:37 · answer #4 · answered by tmac 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well why is he putting up with that drama when he doesn't have to. ANd if he still lives with her don't you think that they aren't sleeping together. Hey why do you think the girl is jealous becasue they are sleeping together and she doesn't want any other woman to sleep with him. SO if he loves you so much why doesn't he leave and find himself a new place to live. It doesn't matter if he has kids with her why live like that. I can tell you why becasue he wants it from both sides and your caught in his cross hairs. I say he is playing you or else he would have left and not worry about who see him with you. ANd your kids Dad need to grow up if your not living with him he needs to move on not be so controling. maybe your ex and he's suppose ex belong together. SO I would move on if he's scared of his ex. But if you need to chat more just IM me anytime.
2007-01-03 11:50:43 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, I don't know if he is playing with you or not, but my personal opinion is that none of this makes for a healthy relationship. It doesn't sound like either of you are in a position to make it truly work. I wouldn't date a guy that lived with his "Ex". If he can't move out and end it with her, he isn't free to have a real relationship (or doesn't really want to, at least not enough to actually do something about it......) Run.
2007-01-03 11:52:41 · answer #6 · answered by Amy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YEAP he is a player and you are to be played there is a lot of guys who have a baby mamma and they do not still live together and they have girl friends . sounds like he is trying to get you afraid of her so that if you to was to ever meet you would not approach her so that she can tell you the real truth . I feel that he just want somebody on the side while he is still with his baby mamma
2007-01-03 11:58:36 · answer #7 · answered by slpry L 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YES! well he is telling you HALF a truth. For one he is still involved with his baby mother. Two, although his stories may not be lies but it is more to them. He could move on if he really wanted. Basically your being used for your time and pleassure. He like flerting with you BUT his BM still comes first.
2007-01-03 11:47:51 · answer #8 · answered by recy2cup 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he may not be playing you...sounds like he's in a tough situation
you might do well to protect yourself from tons of grief and drama by getting out of his life beyond just being friendly coworkers
2007-01-03 11:46:58 · answer #9 · answered by smartmitch 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sorry to say i think this guy wants his cake and eat it.
he gets the best ofboth worlds his partner at home and you when he feels like it.
Dump him and move onto someone who deserves you.
this guy if he really loved/liked you then he would leave his ex no matter what.
2007-01-03 11:49:59 · answer #10 · answered by gillian r 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋