wow.. how do i begin... i have been seeing my best friend as a boyfriend everything seemed going ok until his ex keeps calling him and threathning me... i also beleive that he is misleading her by not telling her to stop calling even tough he is ignoring her calls. i beleive he still has one string attached to her and until he doesnt let go of that string we can never be an item we haven't spoken or seen each other in 10 days... i miss him soo much what do i do? everyone is telling me not to speak to him to let him call me but i miss having him around! help?!
2007-01-03 03:39:36 · 8 answers · asked by milky856 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
His ex is not his ex. Sounds to me like she is the leading lady and sees you as a homewrecker who's going for her man. I bet if you had a civil conversation with her, she would give you an entirely different story from what this guy is giving you. I smell a rat in the woodpile.
2007-01-03 05:26:01 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wait it out; he is either breaking the last string or weaving the relationship back together. Try to keep yourself occupied in the meantime. In the future, don't answer any of her calls, it's just fueling her obsession. If you really miss him and don't hear from him in the next couple of days, you might want to contact him and ask him point blank what's going on; just make sure you're prepared for the answer. Ten days of silence doesn't sound like a good sign. But if he can be manipulated back to her, you need to find someone with a real backbone.
2007-01-03 03:47:56 · answer #2 · answered by bfwh218 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to have a deep conversation with him regarding the matter in order for you two the resolve the issue on hand. If there is no way you can solve it, then you are better off parting ways and looking for someone else.
2007-01-03 04:03:31 · answer #3 · answered by Jon 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u need to talk to him directly about everything. He's the one who has to say NO to her. If he's willing to do that, he likes u, and if he dosent, u have to be strong and say no to him. Think and act. It seems as if u love him, but he has'nt givn himself fully to u. So talk!
2007-01-03 03:49:00 · answer #4 · answered by goair 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My advice to you my friend is stay outta his buiness and find new friends.
2007-01-03 03:42:43 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Call..you will regret it if you don't and tell him whats been going on...
2007-01-03 03:41:28 · answer #6 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i think i can help you plase contact my at my id : ady_thebest82 and i will try to help you
2007-01-03 03:43:09 · answer #7 · answered by ady t 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
listen to your freinds
2007-01-03 03:42:34 · answer #8 · answered by Neil G 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋