My wife came home from the gym last week and basically attacked me. We had some of the best sex ever. I joked with her saying, what has gotten in to you? She laughed it off saying, "I can't tell you...you'll be jealous." Well, I could tell that it was one of those deals where she really wanted to tell me, so I persisted a bit. Smiling, she said, "You wanted to know. Don't be mad." She then proceeded to tell me that a black guy at her gym, who is a personal trainer, kept approaching her, flirting, and asking to train her. She said that it was just a naughty turn-on. She said she is a faithful women and would never cheat on me. She admitted that he just had a perfect body and, if she were single, she would "do" him. I wasn't mad. How could I be? I enjoyed the benefits, sexually. That's why, later, I asked if she would like to try a big black dildo and spice things up. She put her pillow over her face and sheepishly said, "Ok." Now, I ask you: Is this harmless fun or a slippery slope?
2007-01-03 03:33:17 · 5 answers · asked by Hush M 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Harmless fun. Go and buy the prophalactic device. Go to the gym and meet the guy.
2007-01-03 03:38:02 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think married couple should enjoy a healthy fantasy life. It keeps the relationship from getting mundane and boring. If you two are comfortable with the role-playing, then enjoy. It shows how strong your relationship is that she could share that with you and you didn't get mad but indulged her fantasy a little. when she has a husband like you why would she need to cheat, she is apparently getting everything that she needs or wants at home with you.
2007-01-03 03:38:37 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, you brought it up about the black dildo. So the question should be answered by you................does it or will it bother you for your wife to be fantasizing about this black guy now, instead of actually be making love to you?? IF it doesn't bother you, then have at it! ENJOY being replaced in your own bed!
2007-01-03 03:38:26 · answer #3 · answered by peggin_beast 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Can go both ways. All depends what each others intentions are going forward. She's faithful but you're expounding on a fantasy she shared with you. You get a big black dildo don't you think she'll be fantasizing about him while you're f-u-c-k-i-n-g her with it? Be careful she just may want to realize it for real. HOWEVER if you're cool with that, than welcome to wonderful world of swinging.
2007-01-03 03:44:58 · answer #4 · answered by Add Man 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you're both into it, then where's the harm? Have fun!
2007-01-03 03:37:52 · answer #5 · answered by rshegv 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋