she hasnt gotten too detailed or anything and i want to keep it that way....
she is very sexually confident... WHICH I LOVE BELIEVE ME
however ignorance is bliss and id like to keep it there.
thanks
2007-01-03 04:43:54 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Just tell her that you arent interested in the details of her past escapades. you already know that her experiences have made her a great lover and you dont need to know anything else.
Shell be stoked you think shes great in bed, and she probably take the hint
2007-01-03 04:55:00 · answer #1 · answered by Heart of Gold 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I had an ex girlfriend like that and sometimes honesty in the most brutal form is the only way to get your point across. It sounds like she wouldn't be hurt anyways. All I said was, "look, we're together now and if you want to try something sexual with me than talk to me about what you want but I do not need visuals of you doing something with someone else while we're together, it's gross, I don't like hearing about it." I wasn't mean or nasty about how I said it but I was very assertive in putting my foot down. That was the end of that problem
2007-01-03 04:57:27 · answer #2 · answered by J-Dub 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-29 21:54:14 · answer #3 · answered by hinch 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Confident. Maybe. Insecure?... Most definitely. She wants you to show jealousy. For the insecure person, that is proof of love. A secure, confident woman knows to keep her mouth shut about details in her past relationships. Sooner or later, this insecurity will show itself in more ways. Maybe she needs to mature more. That's pretty skanky behavior to display toward someone you care about.
2007-01-03 04:59:12 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be straight out with her, tell her that's her business and you don't want to hear about it. Say the two of you are in the here and now, not in the past. Maybe catch her off gaurd one day when she tries to talk about him and ask "so do you miss him?" that or talk about your past sex life and see how she takes it. She shouldn't be talking about it with you anyway, it's disrespect. All that should be coming out of her mouth is maybe who she dated, even that is also her own business and shouldn't talk about it unless you ask her. It's just total disrespect to you by her talking about her sex life in the past, especially when information is unwanted or unneeded.
2007-01-03 04:56:57 · answer #5 · answered by Steve S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I could never understand why people feel the need to discuss such personal information about ex's to their current partner. My husband and I never ever did that because the past is the past.
I would say to your girlfriend that you are not INTERESTED in listening about her ex's and the sex
2007-01-03 05:34:12 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell her the truth : Keep it to yourself, I don't wanna hear it, it's spoiling OUR sex life!
Tell her if you were to break up with her for a lousy sex (and she is to be blamed for it, naturally), you won't be in her sex collection book. Nothing to boast. The horror!
2007-01-03 05:36:08 · answer #7 · answered by Hanna 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just say, "listen babe, i don't care to hear about your past boy friends." say it in a calm and sincere way so that she knows it's not any insecurities on your part but just a tid bit of info you would do without.
2007-01-03 05:07:11 · answer #8 · answered by Jazzy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her your interested in her not in competing for her or if you are good with her in a $Ex way she wouldnt care about those other crackers tell her you like the here and now not then and there
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2007-01-03 04:59:21 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Start sharing your past too and she may get the message. Don't be so passive.
2007-01-03 04:56:57 · answer #10 · answered by gabeymac♥ 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋