for women to answer...?

Question

would you care if your hubby went to the pealers and lied to you about it? what would you do

Answer 1

I would care if he went and didn't lie about it. Why should a married man or a man who is in a committed relationship be sitting in a strip club ? Why is it ok for him to do this ? Why do men think this is ok ? Women have overlooked this behavior for so many years that people have come to think of it as normal. Its not. I cant see how people ration a women running around their man naked as being ok. What if I go over my friends house and take all my clothes off and run around her living room in front of her husband ? Would that be ok ? How about the cable guy comes over and runs around in front of your wife naked, Is that ok ? Just because men are dogs and have the saying that men will be men doesn't make going to strip clubs ok.

Answer 2

I will not have the heart to embarrass him,even I know that he is telling a lie(,came the sources from his pal that went with him to the pealers,? How would I know if he went to the pealers any way? Unless I have nothing to do just spy on him? I have better things things to do than spy on him.) Is pealers in other word strippers? Well, I'll if he is arouse,I believe he is telling lie, I will do something on his arousal not his lying .

Answer 3

What's a pealer? He must be doing something wrong if he had to lie about where he was going. Hell yes I'd be mad and worse than that I would not be able to trust him anymore.

Answer 4

To go watch strippers (on occasion) is not a big deal if you trust your husband and if it doesn't bother you. If he has to lie about it then that is a big deal.
Tell him that you don't mind him going (if you honestly don't) but if he has to lie about then you have a problem (is it just watching or something more). If you do have a problem (most of us do) tell him how it makes you feel and be honest (if he loves you and understands how it affects you he'll stop). If he still sees the need to go tell him that you can understand somewhat but lying about going is not acceptable and the trust you have for him is being questioned.
Men claim they just go to watch and nothing more but if they make it a habit, spend lots of money there or hangs around the wrong crowd eventually lap dancing and back rooms will soon following. The more they lie the less you should trust, don't ignore it, little lies will eventually become big lies.

Answer 5

Strippers?
Go see some guy pealers and get a good eye full yourself.

If he went before you were together and lied about it he may have been embarrassed about it.

Answer 6

I don't know what the pealers is but mine better not go anywhere and lie to me about it. Just as I would not go anywhere and lie to him about it. Yes. I would care. And I would let him know it.

Answer 7

I assume you mean a strip club. Not a biggie that you went there, it's just an issue that you lied about it. Some women don't particularly care for the fact that their husband hang out at strip clubs on a regular basis. something about it is kind of juvenile and slimy. If you went for a bachelor party or with a bunch of your friends, or just once a while it's OK. talk with your spouse about this and see what's the issue. The dancers are there to work, they are not there to make friends or find boyfriends, they are there to make as much money as possible. remember that.

Answer 8

Yes, but not because he went to a strip club; it would be because he lied about it. He lied, plotted and schemed, and his friends were in on it, too.
What most men don't realize is that in this day and age it's no big deal anymore, but if a man will lie about something so trivial, what else have they lied about? And believe me, we will find out about it!
Just tell us...we probably will want to go with you. Just think about how erotic that could be...

Answer 9

Lying about spending that much money????
Lying about anything?
It isn't the pealer...it's the lie

Answer 10

I don't know what a Pealer is - but lying is never cool.