Guy talkin to a girl...what does she always want to hear?
2007-01-03 03:56:34 · 16 answers · asked by smartmitch 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
there is no one answer... some girls dont even like guys who flirt directly. Try to get to know the person first, then you'll know.
2007-01-03 03:57:36 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
In my personal opinion, I hate it when guys flirt. It's just a farce. They're putting up this fake-o show like some bird displaying it's colorful feathers in attempts to attract a female.
I know some girls may be attracted to a fat wallet or to an underwear-model face or to abs of steel, but not all are. If you want to catch someone who likes you only because of your surface, be prepared for a shallow relationship.
For me, I'd love to, just once, see a guy who is genuine. Don't try some stupid line on her, don't try to touch her, just be you. Be honest. Be real. Don't pretend to be what you're not.
What does she want to hear? You. That's all.
Of course, this is just a personal opinion.
2007-01-03 13:34:34 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Flirting is a touchy thing to do. To one person it could be a welcome diversion to another it would be an unwelcomed advance. To me flirting is knowing the person you're directing the flirt to and then directing the appropriate amount on attention to that person....To one it could be a simple comment to another you might get away with a touch of the shoulder, arm or perhaps even an embrace.
Be safe out there, you could get slapped...LOL!!!!!
2007-01-03 12:00:22 · answer #3 · answered by J.C. 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Great Flirting is flirting without offending or disrespecting the girl!
2007-01-03 11:59:22 · answer #4 · answered by sarabmw 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My...my... she wants to hear the artistic verbal gymnastics, laced with a little intimacy... that stimulates her mind, as well as other parts, and make sure you're maintaining that sultry eye contact as you speak to her...more meaningful.... flirting is the best i still do it with my partner some times.
2007-01-03 12:08:13 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honesty, honestly! Not trying to be glib. But if you give yourself honestly and what you say is heartfelt, you can not go wrong. Well occasionally you will based upon the vagaries of life but you will come out ahead on so many levels it doesn't matter. Good luck. . . honestly!
2007-01-03 12:00:37 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Make her laugh. Listen to her, Be interested in the things that are important to her.... Find out what her chairs are.... What I mean by this is by watching the film Phenomenom (because this is a great film on what women want) because life is about falling in love and finding out what is important to them......
2007-01-03 11:59:15 · answer #7 · answered by Girl of Spirit 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
smiling genuinely and crackin a joke before talkin to make her laugh n have a smile on her face
2007-01-03 12:04:08 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well I flirt with most of the girls that I know and somtimes I feel that the girl takes the flirt wrong.
I do it because I am nervous around them.
2007-01-03 11:59:15 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
A bit soppy, a bit suggestive and something to make her laugh.
2007-01-03 11:57:52 · answer #10 · answered by Mazzy 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋