have a close friend whom has been acting wierd lately.First off he all started when she came over after thanksgiving, she had been calling me everyday, and then she stopped.And once she left my house, she text messaged me calling me an hoe, (which was out the clear blue sky) I don't know where the hell that came from, and then she stopped calling me altogther, and so I called her to wish her a happy new years, and she never returned my call..which like I said before, in which I 'm never used too, Anyone have any advice as far as how to interpret it and what to do?
2007-01-03 04:23:56 · 41 answers · asked by Stephanie 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Talk to her face to face because it sounds like someone is making up rumors about you and telling your friend-but then again if she were really your friend she wouldn't have belived it in the first place-Talk to her if you really value your friendship with her.
2007-01-03 04:33:56 · answer #1 · answered by Art 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yea, that seems a little fishy to me. Maybe you should figure out what is making her act so strange. Just talk to her and make sure that she knows your being sincere about everything, just come out and say "Look, I don't know if I did anything to offend you but if I did I would rather you tell me what it is than just write me off altogether." If that doesn't work I wouldn't say she is worth the time. Best friends are supposed to be there for you and if she's going to ignore you than you might as well try moving on no matter how hard it can be sometimes. Good luck.
2007-01-03 04:30:22 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
So how good a friend is this? If she is worth the effort then go to her privately, not in front of parents, other friends just you and she and get to the bottom of it. I am concerned that you value your relationship with her more than she does. I believe that she has decided not to continue your friendship. Or to let time heal the wounds and that is still another option. Let her make the first move towards opening communication with you. Either way works.
2007-01-03 04:46:32 · answer #3 · answered by Miki M 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Write her a letter expressing concern for her erratic behavior. Tell her you don't appreciate the language and manner in which she treated you, but that you are more concerned with what ever brought on such a hostile attack. Tell her you would love to hear from her, but only when she is ready to speak respectfully. Then keep her in your prayers and continue with your own life. Do Not Share With Other Friends. Show through your own conduct that you are respectful of your friends in good times and bad. But do not become aby body's floor mat. Good Luck
2007-01-03 04:57:50 · answer #4 · answered by Mermzie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First I don't know why you would call and tell anyone who called you a Ho, Happy New Year with out her explaining it to you.. Next I hope you have been thinking (did I do her man ). Because she apparently thinks she knows something about you, if you say you have no idea why she called that to you . You need to go to her and tell her I don't know what you heard but you need to ask me if it true or your not the friend I thought you were.
2007-01-03 04:48:17 · answer #5 · answered by parentsofbadmeandt 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have you done or did you say anything to anybody against her or something that would make her get like she is now? Think about it, if the answer is no, then:::: Forget her with an open hand. In other words, don't worry about her but if she comes back then accept her, that's what a real friend should do.
2007-01-03 04:33:19 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if this a really close friend like you said she is. she should not be acting the way she did. that is just plain rude. she should at least be returning your calls. but if she continues this for a couple more weeks you should find a different friend to hang out with.
2007-01-03 05:01:42 · answer #7 · answered by girlie 801 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Unless you just like weirdo's, I say move on and don't give her a second thought. If she were a "close" friend you wouldn't be here asking these questions.
Close friends are like fine wine, the friendship takes years to properly mature, and even then, you occasional get a bottle of vinegar.
2007-01-03 04:35:06 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like someone has said something about you behind your back that may or not be true. Your friend probably expects you know what you did wrong, so ask another close friend to find out what is going on.
2007-01-03 04:34:36 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like your a great friend, and, in all honesty, she doesn't seem to respect you. Either that or shes acting like that because she's having trouble with somthing-- I was a huge bich to my bff when I was going through depression. Ask her what's going on, adding that while you respect her, you are a real person with real feelings. She needs to stop, or else you need to stop clinging to her...by that I mean give up.
2007-01-03 04:32:16 · answer #10 · answered by Cloudyheartgurl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋