My boyfriend and I have been sleeping together for a while now. I know he enjoys it but his face doesn't say anything good. He looks bored and emotionless. He says that it's just his normal look. It makes me feel uncomfortable and unsatisfying. I talked to him about it and he think that I should just trust that fact that he says he likes it rather than go off of how he looks. But during sex, I can't help but see this guy who looks like he is just going through the motions. I don't know how to fix this.
2007-01-03 04:38:06 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
should he have a big smile on his face as he is humping you
2007-01-03 04:58:51 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
Well, if there is a problem, just ask him what he likes. Ask him what he fantisizes about. He may be bored because he has a different style or preference for how it should be done. If he tells you something that you think you can do or would like to try, then you can work from there. If however, he tells you that he wants something that makes you uncomfortable, like a threesome, don't make yourself feel miserable or dirty for him.
2007-01-03 05:34:24 · answer #2 · answered by Yuka 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Spice it up girl!
Take belly dance classes if you have there any, Do him a lap dance, Strip yourself... Tie his eyes, play with cream, strawberries...
If that simply doesn't work, turn off light completely. It is proved that when you turn off one sense, others work stronger! + , if he looks bored after all I suggested, by turning the light off, you won't see him bored (maybe he isn't, it's just how his face looks like during sex), so it will just slip your mind, and you'll be concentrated on feeling him, not seeing him...
;)))))
2007-01-03 05:01:32 · answer #3 · answered by Looda_Plavusha 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
My personal opinion, it sounds like when you are together, for example: he is just getting through the motion, just to get done, is mind is somewhere Al's? stretch you will find the answer, to your problem you're not going to like what you go wing to find ?
2007-01-03 05:21:40 · answer #4 · answered by raymond l 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try bringing different stimuli into the relationship maybe porno, maybe feathers or deep body massage things like that can bring different reactions in relationships, if still not affected then find someone who is interested
2007-01-03 04:57:05 · answer #5 · answered by Michelle M 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Maybe he knows he shouldn't be doing it? Maybe he doesn't enjoy it? It would be best to have a talk I think.
2007-01-03 05:11:39 · answer #6 · answered by westgaliberty 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tie im up and spank him until he licks you the right way....
stick a pair of panties on him and
Then pull out a dildo and tell him what you're going to do to him.
take control. tie him up, throw him into the bathtub and pee on him.
2007-01-03 04:59:46 · answer #7 · answered by a1tommyL 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
make sure hes not just takeing advantidge hav less $Ex see how he feels then talk to him about it
2007-01-03 05:01:38 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
he should be having fun during sex
2007-01-03 09:31:43 · answer #9 · answered by cutebrattbaby 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i dont see how he could be bored with sex just beleive him and beleive that is his normal face
2007-01-03 04:54:37 · answer #10 · answered by nationwide 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋