Family & Relationships - 3 January 2007

I am a girl who is not too sure about guys. I don't blame all guys, but I do blame the ones that hurt me. One of them was my falut. When I was 12, a week before my 13 birthday. I was sexually assaulted by my great uncle (grandma's brother). He was 64. I told my parents, I have accidentally seen him around, but I have not spoken too him since. I went out with a guy for a couple months, then got his ex girl friend too call me and tell me he never wanted to talk too me again. Me and her talked a little later and did a two way on him (mean I know) and we found out how much he had been lying and stuff. That was my fault, though. Not gonna tell why. The next boy hurt me the worse, though. Well, not as bad as my great uncle, but still really bad. The next boy, I was 14 (still am), and he was 16. We went out for ten months. We broke up in Sept. I had to go away for counsilling some where else. IHe turned 17 in October. I just found out he is going out with my sister. My younger sister.

2007-01-03 14:18:23 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I am 18 and never have

2007-01-03 14:18:17 · 46 answers · asked by babyphat 2 in Singles & Dating

there thsi really nice girl i see her at the hall and she sometimes says hi but looks down and i do it to since i like her. we are both shy but i see her talking to other guys more and she doesnt talk to me much. we have a class together and idk bout shy girls but ive never heard a shy girl says" i love u " she said that while laughing
its been half a year and i am in love with her. im a pretty nice guy with decent grades im 15 years old. she sits right behind me but the class we are in is allindividual work and we never get to talk i love her with all my heart do u guys think she likes me?

2007-01-03 14:18:07 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I was raised with the belief that love is the most important part of a romantic (or any kind really) relationship. Lately I've been reading 'What Really Happens In Bed: The Demystifacation Of Sex' which has some really interesting stories from peoples real sex lives. One thing I've noticed is that without good sex these people can't really say they love their partner. I have no experience in this area yet and I am a bit older, now I wonder from reading this and other things I hear and read now days if I've been wrong all these years. I'm a bit confused over this, was I taught the wrong thing by my parents? Do I believe in an outdated religious principal?

2007-01-03 14:17:39 · 20 answers · asked by InvicibleStar 2 in Singles & Dating

What would you think if the girl you like , doesn´t answer her cell phone when you call her (because she leaves it everywere and because of that missed you calls), but returns your call almost immediately? Would you think she´s doing it on purpose, or that she´s not interested?

2007-01-03 14:16:59 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-01-03 14:16:07 · 24 answers · asked by terry b 4 in Singles & Dating

There's this really cute guy at my school that I like. He's really nice and funny but he's a senior and I'm a sophomore. We talk a lot and send each other text messages and we flirt, but I don't know if he likes me. Today he kept bringing up the idea of coming over to my house, and he seemed pretty serious. He seems like a player, but he tells me he's not. I don't really know what to do. I'm not going to ask him out so don't even say that.

2007-01-03 14:15:56 · 17 answers · asked by Love_Forever 3 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-03 14:15:01 · 8 answers · asked by lucy aaaaa 1 in Singles & Dating

She hit the party scene, hooked up with the first guy that came along, and gained a lot of weight right after the breakup. Are these symptoms that she is having a hard time with the breakup of our long term relationship? She broke it off, but I don't think that she expected me to dissappear afterwards.

2007-01-03 14:14:05 · 12 answers · asked by forgot my real name 1 in Marriage & Divorce

There's this guy at my school, and I just hate being around him. He's an ugly person on the outside and on the inside. He's mean and inconsiderate, he brags about every little thing. (If you've seen my other ?'s about the guy that sexually harrassed me with his comments, yes it's the same guy.) Even when he's not doing anything to me, all I can think when I see him is, "@#$!^(%$!" seriously, I can't stand having him around. And after all that he's done to me in the past, I just wish he would disappear from my life, but I know that can't happen. how can I cope? thanks!

2007-01-03 14:13:14 · 21 answers · asked by 77684 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-01-03 14:13:14 · 10 answers · asked by fmf72000 2 in Friends

She is my classmate in two of my subjects. But I can't talk to her because I don't know how to approach a girl of my type.

2007-01-03 14:13:13 · 16 answers · asked by gmraymar 1 in Singles & Dating

my gf said to me the other day " im sleepy are you coming to bed ? "

me : X3 im on my way !

5 secs later...

what the hell i said im sleepy im not gonna have sex with you !! what part of sleepy dont you understand ?

how the hell was i supposed to know thats code for im going to bed ???
to me it sounded like an invitation for sex !
women why do you speek in codes ?!?

2007-01-03 14:11:55 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I am 23 year male .I have got a girl friend ( pretty and beautiful), who is professionally a doctor. I met her (about six months ago) in a hospital when I was visiting a friend. Our friendship continued from there. we use to dine together, go to movies, i used to drop her daily and even had our secret business. Eventually she got married but the real problem started from then onwards , even though she has got an husband, she asks me to meet her and tells me to take her to night clubs ,film etc. I don t know why she likes me when she has got a husband. I don’t want to be tangled between them. I enquired about her husband, but I came to know that he is a nice gentleman, no problem with him.
I just want to get rid of her, without hurting her, even though I am hard (less feeling ness) man, I do think women’s should be treated with gentleness. We both had enjoyed some moments of life, but now it should be stopped or else her life will be ruined. I have to think about it.
Any suggestio

2007-01-03 14:11:01 · 4 answers · asked by Bond "James Bond" 2 in Singles & Dating

i just got raped and dont know wat
to do am using my phone for advice

2007-01-03 14:10:34 · 13 answers · asked by emo222freak 1 in Friends

What will he do????

2007-01-03 14:09:07 · 12 answers · asked by Kimora M 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

any answer

2007-01-03 14:07:43 · 25 answers · asked by v v 1 in Singles & Dating

Are there any men out there that like women who aren't super skinny? Now, i'm not fat.....but i've got some meat on my bones :O) it just seems like lately, men are really into super skinny girls. I'm very voluptous....and i like it that way. i guess i'm just wondering if there are any men out there who actually like a woman with curves. And secondly, if there are any men where I am who like women like me?

2007-01-03 14:07:35 · 22 answers · asked by ratpackluvr 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-03 14:07:03 · 5 answers · asked by diddy 233 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I got HIGHLY intoxicated on new years and my co-worker and I slept together. It has been a little odd around the office since then. He is a real good friend but I dont want to presue anything further and made that known. Will the oddness go away or did I ruin a friendship

2007-01-03 14:06:57 · 43 answers · asked by Kelly K 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-03 14:06:24 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

Who "wears the pants" in your relationship? I want to see how many say girlfriend and how many say boyfriend. I know my boyfriend has more control.

2007-01-03 14:05:43 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-01-03 14:05:37 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-01-03 14:05:33 · 18 answers · asked by yessir 1 in Friends

esp. girl friends... but i don't like dancing or drinking. I just wanna go out to eat, go shopping, watch movies, or whatever.

what should i do? is there any organization that i can join? i'm 25.

2007-01-03 14:05:22 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

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NHL Finals Game 7
NBA Finals Game 7
World Seies Game 7

2007-01-03 14:04:43 · 8 answers · asked by Wise One 3 in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend went to a strip club (twice) and got a lapdance (something I could've done!! And he would've got some afterwards!!) His cousin told me so I would have never found out if he didn't say so.I lost my control for a second, hit him across the face with my keys and dumped him..

He calls like crazy and wants to get back with me. He tells me that those strippers are nothing but dirty trash compared to me. I belive he totally dis respected me. Before he went I told him If he ever went I wouldnt feel comfortable and I'd be hurt.If he went he was supposed to take me..He obviously didnt respect my feelings when he went there (twice) which is why I dont want to be with him, I love him and I would like to be with him again, BUT I dont deserve to be treated this way..Should I even take the son of a ***** back??

If I do take him back how do I forget about this and move on?

How do I forgive him?

2007-01-03 14:04:27 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My ex husband and I got divorced over 12 years ago. We were too young to get married, and only did because I got pregnant. Things did not work, we remained friends and since February last year, we´ve been dating again. He asked me to marry him again, that we are older and more mature now. I love him with all my heart. But we failed once, who knows if things will go right this time?
And there´s also my daughter. She´s 16 and absolutely hates the idea of me and her dad being together.. she sayd parents were made to live in different homes and not to be with each other. I´m confused.

2007-01-03 14:04:22 · 30 answers · asked by Allie 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-01-03 14:04:18 · 5 answers · asked by kregger 1 in Singles & Dating

i'm thinking about moving to another job that pays less, but is more interesting. what should i do?

2007-01-03 14:04:16 · 9 answers · asked by DON J 1 in Singles & Dating