my gf said to me the other day " im sleepy are you coming to bed ? "
me : X3 im on my way !
5 secs later...
what the hell i said im sleepy im not gonna have sex with you !! what part of sleepy dont you understand ?
how the hell was i supposed to know thats code for im going to bed ???
to me it sounded like an invitation for sex !
women why do you speek in codes ?!?
2007-01-03 14:11:55 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It was an invitation but you hesitated 5 seconds too long.
LOL sorry but that's funny.
you killed her sex buzz so in turn she killed yours.
The answer to your question; You can't understand women because you lack the one thing it takes to understand us......femininity.
I was going to mention that you don't have a part of the female anatomy that men (straight men and gay women) like very very much but that would be a bit tacky. Don't you think?
I am not trying to be rude. It's just fact. My husband asked the same question and he got the x-rated answer.
2007-01-03 14:19:49 · answer #1 · answered by NyteWing 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She said I'm sleepy...
That is not a code... Don't take it the wrong way, but it happens because the first thing that comes to men's mind when a girl talks is SEX SEX SEX!!! so you thought that was what she meant... and yes, you will never understand us... I know we are very very weird sometimes... maybe even crazy
2007-01-03 14:27:16 · answer #2 · answered by Latina Hottie! W.Chocolate 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what part of sleepy didn't you understand? That wasn't code. She said she was sleepy. Sheesh! Men! They think we speak in riddles when we're saying things straight.
Unless you realize that we don't have the same codes, you aren't ever going to understand.
2007-01-03 14:17:45 · answer #3 · answered by kiwi 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she said "I'm sleepy" that means exactly that. If she said, "I'm going to bed, are you coming," then that means sex is an option. Mostly women do not talk in code. We say what we mean and expect you guys to get it.
2007-01-03 14:14:15 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I note each so often after I walk to type or elsewhere i am going to ascertain a lady i understand and they look away, like they did not even see you. i'm particular this isn't only a lady component yet i idea it change into an engaging commentary. i do not smell, btw. all of us is so non confrontational. they'd in all likelihood quite be depressing and bored to death then walk round smiling or searching really chuffed. this is remarkable what a grin can do heavily, walk round smiling once. not ear to ear you'll look loopy, yet merely look like you're chuffed and outgoing. human beings will reply so a lot extra effective to you. even if you do not say something.
2016-12-01 19:23:21 · answer #5 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
LOL. Sorry, dude. Even WE don't even understand ourselves sometimes. For me, that would have been code for what you thought it was code for. Personally, I'm working on just saying what I mean to lessen the communication gap between men and women that is so ever present. Maybe you should take her at her word for everything and if she does start speaking in code, ask her for the secret decoder ring;) And if you could send me the one for male-speak, that would be awesome. Sorry not much help here--good luck!
2007-01-03 14:15:37 · answer #6 · answered by justme 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Lol that isnt a code. She said she was sleepy. That should be quite the hint she isnt wanting sex.
2007-01-03 14:14:05 · answer #7 · answered by Stefanie B 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honestly dude ... women can't be understood. They're weird, mysterious, emotional creatures ... they say one thing, it means another. This and that ... But that's what's great about them I guess. I'll never understand them, but I love females. They're the most beautiful creatures in the universe.
And hey I would've thought the same thing too. "I'm sleepy are you coming to bed?" Instantly I would've thought ;) Sex maybe? Hehehe! And I mean who knows ... I don't know ... I just .... girls sigh
2007-01-03 14:32:16 · answer #8 · answered by Bobby_Bomberman 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
OMFG thats too funny, i am so sorry!
Yeah i would of thought that would be considered a invitation too but i guess not.
I am sorry but i cant answer this because i dont speak in codes i speak plain english.
2007-01-03 14:21:47 · answer #9 · answered by Nicoya 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what part of "im sleepy" didn't you understand??
If she had said "im horny, come to bed" & then went to sleep, then you'd have a point.
She was speaking english, you are the one with the code!
2007-01-03 14:15:25 · answer #10 · answered by Meeeee! 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋