2007-01-03 14:16:07 · 24 answers · asked by terry b 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Yes, yes, yes! We are amazing! We really are.
When I was divorced after 18 years, I was much larger than the typical single woman out there. I felt insecure and intimidated, but I learned quickly that there were plenty of men out there that saw past my size.
I dated large men, average men and thin men.
I was honest about it when I chatted on line. I found a nightclub in town that catered to BBW's. (Big Beautiful Women)
Get out there! You've got nothing to lose!
C-F
2007-01-03 14:23:12 · answer #1 · answered by Crispy_Frog 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes!!!!!!!!! I know why you have asked this question, because I am a "thick chick" so to speak. I honestly didnt think men would ever find meattractive. i covered up and wore baggy clothes and tried to hide it. Ha mistake. Now sure alot of black guys find thick girls attractive, I didnt mind that at all, but there are lots of men that think thick women are sexy. It isnt how big you are, it is how you go about wearing it. If you show that you are self concious, men dont want yuo, but if you hold your head high, and be proud that you are a thick lucious woman, you will find that men are attracted to you. I learned it the hard way, you now have a booster! Go out there and flaunt what your momma gave you, and dont get discouraged if a little skinny jerk or braud comments on it. Just write it off and keep going! Thick is so much better than TWIG!
2007-01-03 14:23:44 · answer #2 · answered by P-cilla 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Some men do; however, if YOU do not like yourself, you will not make a very good mate. If you want to be someone different (in size) than what you are, seek help for that before seeking a man who wants a big woman.
If you are happy with yourself, then advertize, play up the fact that you are large to attract the guys who like that.
2007-01-03 14:22:23 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes there are men who find us heavy women attractive but they are very hard to find. But in order for someone else to accept and love you you have to accept and love yourself first. Someone once told me that how you see yourself is how others see you and I never beleived it until this passed year. It is very true, so walk proud and confident with your head high, wear clothes that compliment your shape. There is someone for everyone.
2007-01-03 14:25:35 · answer #4 · answered by angeleyes1981_25 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
yes, but that's not the most important thing. A man want a healthy woman, one that will be by his side for years to come.
skinny, thin, thick, heavy, big...make sure your health is in order...and you have confidence so your knight and shining Armour will come thru!
2007-01-03 14:20:27 · answer #5 · answered by Khandi 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes! There are men for every type of woman, and there are women for every type of man. Just watch different couples where you are, and you will see this is true.
2007-01-03 14:18:23 · answer #6 · answered by grey_fox 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Yep, and I'm marrying a women with curves in Sept. I think she is really beautiful and hot, but in the same time, she is also hot and beautiful in the inside as well.
2007-01-03 14:18:51 · answer #7 · answered by Jason 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Being heavy is a big disadvantage. But i know of a girl who is heavy but still attractive. Its difficult though.
I've heard there's a tribe in Africa who fing heavyweights much more attractive than thin ones! Go there if you are desperate and black. (no offence intended)
2007-01-03 14:20:16 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 3⤋
I weigh over 200 and have never had a problem meeting guys.
2007-01-03 14:20:42 · answer #9 · answered by Sharyn 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, they are out there. But it's like trying to find a needle in a haystack.
2007-01-03 14:19:01 · answer #10 · answered by hpotter4ever2000 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋