I am 23 year male .I have got a girl friend ( pretty and beautiful), who is professionally a doctor. I met her (about six months ago) in a hospital when I was visiting a friend. Our friendship continued from there. we use to dine together, go to movies, i used to drop her daily and even had our secret business. Eventually she got married but the real problem started from then onwards , even though she has got an husband, she asks me to meet her and tells me to take her to night clubs ,film etc. I don t know why she likes me when she has got a husband. I don’t want to be tangled between them. I enquired about her husband, but I came to know that he is a nice gentleman, no problem with him.
I just want to get rid of her, without hurting her, even though I am hard (less feeling ness) man, I do think women’s should be treated with gentleness. We both had enjoyed some moments of life, but now it should be stopped or else her life will be ruined. I have to think about it.
Any suggestio
2007-01-03 14:11:01 · 4 answers · asked by Bond "James Bond" 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Next time she wants to go out suggest a double date with her husband and your new girlfriend. When she is sitting there with her husband and staring at you with another girl she'll get the point that she can't use you as her maintenance boyfriend.
2007-01-03 14:24:31 · answer #1 · answered by WriterChic 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
This is a problem that you cannot approach without hurting her to a degree. She is being inappropriate and you should tell her. Be firm, direct but respectful. Focus on her behaviors and not her person. State what she is doing, that it makes you uncomfortable, and cannot spend time with a married woman. She will be hurt but you are doing the right thing. You should break off all communication with her at that point. You cannot be "just friends" with her because she is to emotionally connected with you.
2007-01-03 22:28:24 · answer #2 · answered by mjohnson1422 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would just explain to her that you feel it is wrong to see each other now that she is married and leave it at that. You don't need to explain further. if that fails to stop her advances, say you are seeing someone else and that it's over. I feel sorry for her husband. Good luck Mate!
2007-01-03 22:18:20 · answer #3 · answered by Chico 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you're that your the one that needs some TLC, because in my book your being used. It is your life that is starting to get rattled So i think it may be you that has to be let down easy.. She would be perfectly fine if you told her you felt you were being used............ Sorry i had to tell you the truth
2007-01-03 22:23:33 · answer #4 · answered by LittleDaisy. 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋