I need everyone's opinion........ASAP!!! :O)?

Question

Are there any men out there that like women who aren't super skinny? Now, i'm not fat.....but i've got some meat on my bones :O) it just seems like lately, men are really into super skinny girls. I'm very voluptous....and i like it that way. i guess i'm just wondering if there are any men out there who actually like a woman with curves. And secondly, if there are any men where I am who like women like me?

see, i'm super chesty.....so sometimes it feels like that and a cute face is all the guy is interested in. by super chesty i mean a 36DDD.......WAY TOO BIG.......but i wear about a size 10-12 in clothes.

See, but when my gf and i checked out one of those dating sites......there are only maybe a handfull of men who don't put: slim, slender, etc, etc, etc.....


it's just so frustrating.....maybe it's just New Mexico?? lol

Answer 1

First of all, to a real man there is NO SUCH THING as breasts that are "too big"!!!

36DDD sounds simply awesome to me, and to most men!

I don't know the first thing about women's dress sizes so I have no clue what "10 - 12" means in women's sizes [tell me your measurements I'd have a better idea of your body size]

But women with big gigantic breasts are super sexy - and in general, big women are attractive and feminine.

Most straight men do NOT like superskinny chicks - the straight women and homoseuxal men who edit fashion magazines are the only people in the world who like that body type - and they like skinny chicks precisely BECAUSE skinny chicks are NOT sexy AT ALL!

Also, since you live in New Mexico, maybe you should start dating Mexican men.

Perhaps the White guys in your area like scrawny chicks - but most Latino men like real women with big breasts, you'd be just what they're looking for!

So be proud of your big body and your big chest - I'm sure you'll find a real man who will want to date you!!!

Answer 2

Curves are what separate the men from the woman. Yes I would have lived a very a happy live through Elizabethian times as that is how women were then and this new found interest in being thin is a real turn off to this old guy. Be proud of who you are and how you look and you will exude confidence and this is also a big turn on to men as it shows you are comfortable in your skin.

Answer 3

It does seem like skinny is the best thing, but if you look more closely at the subtle signs, it's not always so. Any guy with a brain wants a girl who is healthy and happy with herself. Confidence is SO appealing to guys. High maintenance girls who are self conscious are too much and really unappealing. Also, it's in human nature for guys to be drawn to girls who are healthy. It's an instinct thing because men want someone healthy to carry their babies. They may not know it, but it's imprinted in their brains!

As a woman, there are certainly many women who I think are beautiful regardless of their weight. I'm very small and I think a lot of girls my size are boring and can look sickly. So be proud of your curves and don't worry about what people think. A lot of men surely find you beautiful :) goodluck finding someone!

Answer 4

Im not skinny ....never have been.....always had curves that will never change and i don't want to be size 2,cause i think it's unhealthy. Im west indian so thats how i view things. I know how you feel especially when i was younger guys didn't appreciate it. But now as im a little older it's different, because guys approach me more easily. But trust me they are out there, not all guys like super skinny women.

Answer 5

There are just as many guys that like women who have some curves or meat on their bones as there are guys that like deathly skinny girls. Sounds hard to believe... but the trick is not to go for the guys who are obviously chasing girls. Most guys that act desperate like that are players, and go for the anorexic look. Be patient and you will find a guy who has a great personality, treats you well, AND he will love the meat you have on your bones. After all - it will keep him warm in the winter too!!! :)

Answer 6

curves is hotter than not having any meat at all. i do not know why models are very skinny. doesnt suit at all.

i am just like you. i think every man cannot be skinny because of the muscles and sometimes the fat.

because being skinny means that you are vulnerable to sickness because you lack so many nutrients in your body.

that is why we men prefer the meaty ones than the skinny.

Answer 7

Well you didn't say where you are so it's hard to answer that part of your question, but speaking for myself, I can't stand to look at a super skinny woman. It just looks unhealthy to me. There are plenty of men out there who like women of every shape & size so you are being unfair to yourself, & to men in general if you believe that all men like just one body type in a woman.

What usually turns a man on at 1st glance is a woman who appears to be self-confident. The wording of your question suggests that you are lacking in self-confidence, so you would be best to learn to accept yourself as you are.
Then put yourself out there where all available men can find you.
Cheers!

Answer 8

Eww. Women who are super-skinny are extremely gross and not attractive at all. But thats not to say that I like women who are on the opposite end either. I guess it's somewhere in between.

If I find their personallity attractive, then I find them physically attractive. I don't know how to explain it other than that.

Answer 9

There are plenty of guys out there like me that would rather date or marry (in my case come Sept) some one with some meat on there bones then a twig. Just keep looking and you will find him.

Answer 10

I am a chubby girl too...not fat but womanly, and I love me.....the guy I'm with now keeps telling me that if I had been skinny when he met me he wouldnt have asked me out. And he is a hockey player who is incredibly fit! So yes, there are guys out there who are attracted to not so skinny girls.....dont lose sight of who you are!