Family & Relationships - 3 January 2007

I recently gave my cousin from Brooklyn a job. It all started when he recently visited me and the rest of his family in Colombia. He idolized the life and wanted a piece of the Colombian-Americo trade. I didnt want to plug him at first but after seeing how him and his mother were struggling in America, I stepped in. Julian went back to New York and I used my NY connects to get some work up to my cousin. He received 7 grams of crack cocaine for his trial and I had him working with Jesse. I wanted to see if he could move my work. We all start small and everybody has to go through the trial, I touched rocks and grams before I got big. So I didnt want to give him powdered cocaine until he could prove himself. Until now all he was getting was crack, none of my best ****. I instructed him to sale it in the median per gram so that the price wouldnt be too high or too low. All he would have made off that paper weight package was about three hundred. And he couldnt even move that, he even almost got jacked by some Dominicans but got saved by Jesse. He doesnt listen, I told him to stay in Flatbush and pitch but he went up to the wrong place and like I said, got chased by the Dominicans. He also just sits around playing video games all day with no sense of urgency or work ethic. Im not going to pump a kilo out to that. At this rate he wont even see an 8 ball or ounce.

2007-01-03 14:31:29 · 8 answers · asked by Jorge "Peppi" Encanto 1 in Family

She has been having bad mood swings. Today she called me a jack *** and flipped ot because the heat was on to low? The other day she wanted to go to Subway and I said lets stay in and save some money and she did the same thing. She also wants to have a kid(just got married Oct 28) and we live in a small condo and the finaces are not htere either for a kid. So I told her the time is not right now but we will have kids once were in a capable situation. She gets upset over this which I can sypamthize best flipping out and locking yurself in the bed room can not be normal. She usally takes a nap after her episodes and then apologizes? This can not be normal right? She is 26 and i am 29. She does have endometrosis( trouble having kids) and is anemic.

2007-01-03 14:30:45 · 8 answers · asked by mustanglaser94 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

im in like love with him and really want him to like me!!!!! i love him to death!! plus he is single and its my chance to make a move!

2007-01-03 14:30:31 · 11 answers · asked by meaza 1 in Singles & Dating

Not of themselves but anything....are they that lazy to load one up and stick it in that grey and white box????????

2007-01-03 14:30:21 · 10 answers · asked by Nicoya 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-03 14:30:05 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I was told, "to find the right one, u must first be the right one" all my life i been prep on how to be a love and caring gentalmen. but some reason i was never able to put that into practice. is it foolish of to me prep myself to eb the perfect lover and yet i know not how to be love.

what should i do, stop being nice to girls and be more agressive?

they say" good guy finish last"

2007-01-03 14:29:56 · 9 answers · asked by Thomas Le 2 in Singles & Dating

They separated and out of anger, when she gave birth, she wrote her last name on the baby. How can he claim paternity? What can he do?

2007-01-03 14:29:41 · 11 answers · asked by Yuri 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-01-03 14:29:39 · 7 answers · asked by bananas0up 1 in Family

can someone just explain to me why they want to postpone sexual things with girls they actually like? just a little confused bc i just thought guys want sex regardless of whether or not they like the girl a lot, why does liking a girl make a guy want to hold off?

2007-01-03 14:28:11 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-01-03 14:27:40 · 9 answers · asked by fmf72000 2 in Friends

I've known this guy for almost 2 months, we've hung out and had lots of fun, and then he decided to kiss me one nite so ya know everything was fine and dandy... next couple times we saw each other this happened again and he always wanted to cuddle and hold my hand and we went for walks and he would grab my hand and then i asked him wut he wanted outta this and he said lets just take it as it goes kind of thing bc he really does like me but is scared of relationships bc his heart was broke and he broke a girls heart in aug. so we hung out a couple times more and i clarified i didnt want friends with benefits but wasnt pushin into a long term thing either... he said he wasnt scared off by that or anything and that he still wanted to hang out. he has been sick for a bit and we havent hung out and then he told me that he really wanted to hang out with me this week but i txted him and he didnt respond yesterday or today... should i keep on wasting my time?

2007-01-03 14:27:23 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have been dating this guy for five years but never told my parents because I knew they would disapprove. Yesterday I finally told them because now I am living on my own and financially independent and I am old enough to do what I want. I am indian he is black. I told my parents that we just started dating.
My mom was a little disapproving but my dad yelled at me and said I should forget about him and my home. I can't break up with my boyfriend but I cant go back to lying to my parents. What should i do?
I feel like I have no choice but to hold my stance and let my dad stay mad at me. I know my relatives will try and convince me and I have no answer when they say "since you just started dating, whats the big difference in calling it off?"
What would you do?

2007-01-03 14:26:10 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

this story happened when the time come that I do not spend my time to thom though i done before ... the reason why is that i dont found the gladness with them...Although I admit they are happy to be with,but the through essence of gladness are not there... they don't listen on me when there are times when i want to say what bothers me ...they have no time for that .... Then now with the other friend with two girls and one boy there i felt the thing i've never felt with them.

2007-01-03 14:24:47 · 8 answers · asked by rhegs15 1 in Friends

how can i convince her to become less prude?

2007-01-03 14:24:25 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I've been seeing this guy who I now call my boyfriend for almost a year now. He's very nice to me but there is a lot of issues that make me feel that I maybe should let the relationship go. First off he's a christian man. Not really active in church but he follows the bible. I'm a Muslim woman. That's one of the biggest issues there. Also, I don't have any kids and he has 3. I want some but he had a vasectomy. He said if we ever got married he would get it reversed, but the longer you wait to get it reversed the lesser your chances are to successfully produce. He is also, 12 years older than I am. I just don't know if I am waisting my time with him. He's very nice to me and treats me with respect. Should I leave or stay.

2007-01-03 14:24:17 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

We just started today and he asked me to a dance!!! But i can't think of a way to talk to him anymore.

2007-01-03 14:23:13 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

She lost her wallet over Christmas break, with money, gift cards & school ID. I found it today in her closet in a bag w/other stuff from school. Now she can't find her expensive volleyball sweatshirt. She leaves things everywhere. She is a smart girl, does well in most other areas. She's making me crazy! Help! Any ideas?

2007-01-03 14:23:10 · 8 answers · asked by Forever 6 in Family

As some of you may already know I have spent more than $65,000 this year supporting my older children. Well, we really don't have that kind of money to be throwing it around like I have, but becuase I was such a terrible father when they were younger I thought I could buy my way out of it and help them in the process. I screwed up. I should have used our money to pay our bills and told the girls how to help themselves. Oh, I think it would have been okay to buy them their vehicles, but it's all the extras that have ticked my wife off. Some of the money spent was hers. I guess that was really wrong of me. Anyway, she said I had to stop supporting them (I've bought cars, paid insuranc, buy their gas, pay their house bills, etc.) or I have to leave. She said she will not be broke so that my older daughters can party for the rest of their lives. Neither of the girls work. We have some bills that we can't pay now and our daughter needs stuff that we can't buy. What now?

2007-01-03 14:22:58 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

A friend of mine told me that, many women dont dig nice guys. But the question i ask myself ,is how should i act towards women when i talk to them without bieng "too nice"

2007-01-03 14:22:45 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Is it ok to have a guy that is talking to you on the phone and but when you see him like with his freinds he sorta ignore me but yet he still stares at me is the the start of a relashonship because we already going out!>

2007-01-03 14:22:30 · 5 answers · asked by rockcreek_23 1 in Friends

i currently feel as if i dont have any friends or anyone else to go to? what do you think i should do?

2007-01-03 14:21:53 · 6 answers · asked by ivan 1 in Friends

2007-01-03 14:21:51 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-01-03 14:21:33 · 13 answers · asked by mike p 1 in Friends

I've heard something bad about the one I'm falling in love with. She's been good to me, but my friends don't agree on my decision. I don't wanna make a wrong decision, but, at the same time, I don't wanna lose her. Should I believe in what those people, who is even 'her' friends, said or should I just believe myself??

2007-01-03 14:21:12 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-01-03 14:20:59 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Hmmm, so, girls, you know when it's a long winter...
and you don't shave for awhile... like, a month or two...

Well, what if you, y'know, hooked up like that?

Would a guy be horrified, at totally hairy legs? and armpitts? or would he just not care, if it was a quickie type thing?
Have you ever done that?

I know a girl that told me that she doesn't shave, 'cept for the summer, and was just wondering how the heck someone's gonna react if she ever goes for a spur-of-the-moment hook-up... or something...

2007-01-03 14:20:04 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My daughters father wants to start having her one week and i have her the other alternate week.
I just dont know how this will work, how will it affect her?
Anyone got any schedule ideas that work?
Does anyone do this successfully?

2007-01-03 14:20:04 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

Well, I met this girl and shhe is awesome, I really like her but she already has a boyfriend. She has given me hints that she likes ME and things aren't working out with her BF. I think their gonna break up which is good for me, but I don't want to seem like I'm taking advantage of her, neither do I want to wait too long that someone else asks her, what should I do?

2007-01-03 14:19:53 · 3 answers · asked by stargenius 2 in Singles & Dating

My best friend is super insecure. I recently moved to a small town, and made friends very quickly. One of the friends I made was Lisa. I thought she was nice because she showed me around and introduced me to all of her friends (especially guy friends) Within two weeks all the boys that used to LOVE her now want to go out with me, and all her friendships are deteriorating because she screams at all the guys for being nice to me, and all the girls for spilling her secrets. None of this is true, but it has been two months, and I have apparently 'taken over' the relationships it took her whole life to build. Literally. I feel bad, but now I realize how unstable she is and can't stand to be around her anymore. I feel even more horrible that her boyfriend of 7 months broke up with her for me. (I'm not going out with him, although I like him. It wouldn't be right) I have not been flirting with these people, I have not been acting any different with them than others. Should I drop them, or her

2007-01-03 14:19:34 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

your parents killed by a killer at the age of 14,everyone thinks you are dead along with them but you're not,the killer knows you're not dead and hunts you down until you are, and the guy that befriends you is very hard to get along with at times

2007-01-03 14:19:06 · 9 answers · asked by Blah 6 in Friends