She has been having bad mood swings. Today she called me a jack *** and flipped ot because the heat was on to low? The other day she wanted to go to Subway and I said lets stay in and save some money and she did the same thing. She also wants to have a kid(just got married Oct 28) and we live in a small condo and the finaces are not htere either for a kid. So I told her the time is not right now but we will have kids once were in a capable situation. She gets upset over this which I can sypamthize best flipping out and locking yurself in the bed room can not be normal. She usally takes a nap after her episodes and then apologizes? This can not be normal right? She is 26 and i am 29. She does have endometrosis( trouble having kids) and is anemic.
2007-01-03 14:30:45 · 8 answers · asked by mustanglaser94 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
She is probably a little extra sensitive about having a baby because of the endometriosis since it can cause problems. Also, being anemic can cause mood swings as well. She needs to talk to her Dr about this and he can help her. She may need to be on an antidepressant to help her through this. I know it's difficult but do your best to be understanding and supportive. Don't take the mood swings personally but do try to talk to her about it and get her to mention it to her Dr. There's no need to live like that if there's something that will help. Good luck to you both.
2007-01-03 14:38:28 · answer #1 · answered by vanhammer 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Could be she's Bi-Polar. Sounds like my girl and she is. Check into it on the web and see if she's having the symptoms of a Manic Depressive person. Counseling for you both may be in order. Medication does work but before you try that just does what she wants you to do for a week and I mean everything and see if she still flips out. I found out I was "dammed if I do and dammed if I don't" with my girl and I stayed depressed because, I didn't know what to do. Please, get a handle on this soon because it can ruin your marriage. Good luck!
2007-01-03 14:56:21 · answer #2 · answered by saturn man 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I do the same thing to my boyfriend at times and i think that sometimes us women let so many things build up inside of us and it can just all come on the simplest little thing. sometimes us women just need for you guys to b sweet and spoil us and give us what we want. but your wife has to meet you half way and let you know if there is something bothering her. so wait until she's calm and not so offensive and ask her what might be wrong if any thing is wrong and why she hasn't been herself lately. i'm sure it's just a phaze she's going through but if it doesn't change then it could turn into deep depression or anxiety. so try to help her through this time and be sensitive, maybe plan a nice cheap dinner maybe at home. just something to show her she is special and you care. good luck.
2007-01-03 14:41:20 · answer #3 · answered by Mrs.Dennis 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
First of all, if you wait until you can afford children, you will never have them. At 26, I am sure she is ready for children. Having endmetrosis can also have something to do with her mood swings. It sure did mine. I eventually had to have a hysterectomy. I am so thankful that I had my children before I had it done. Good luck.
2007-01-03 15:18:57 · answer #4 · answered by Cindy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds to me like you need to some how get her in to the doc. to get the mood swings checked. I have a 2 yr. dregee in developmental disablities and when you added the takes a nap after is what got me.
2007-01-03 14:41:45 · answer #5 · answered by Krissa S 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like you answered your own question! You said she does have some things wrong with her witch could be the cause of the mood swings.
2007-01-03 14:38:34 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Chris is stable in this one. After a splash one some females's hormones and thoughts are in all places. i don't comprehend why you does not desire to make certain a document just to make beneficial, however the terrific i will say is wait and notice and expertise of her moods. merely my techniques
2016-10-19 10:43:44 · answer #7 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
some times mood swings are normal but are also sign of illness.
2007-01-03 14:34:01 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋