I've heard something bad about the one I'm falling in love with. She's been good to me, but my friends don't agree on my decision. I don't wanna make a wrong decision, but, at the same time, I don't wanna lose her. Should I believe in what those people, who is even 'her' friends, said or should I just believe myself??
2007-01-03 14:21:12 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
ALWAYS go with your gut. Your friends dont know what happends behind closed doors and rumors can fly giving a person a false bad rep. YOU know how she treats you, what she wants, how she acts. If you have doubt because of something she said or did then talk to her about it. If you still have doubt then step back and take in a bigger picture. If you dont have doubt then whats the worst that could happen? Its better to have loved than to have never loved at all, no regrets just lessons learned, Live life to the fullest. You can err on the side of caution and avoid possible hurt and all the while be hurt anyway with the added wonder if you made the right decision, or take the chance and go for the possible happiness. If it doesnt work out, you gave it a chance and never have to wonder.
2007-01-03 14:29:12 · answer #1 · answered by Kujo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best way is to find out for yourself. It's also the only way to learn...........She may have changed. They may be just rumors that got spread around. She may have been misunderstood by others. Whatever it is, if you truly like her and she's good to you, then the girl deserves a chance. It's better to have loved than to have never loved at all...................
2007-01-03 14:24:29 · answer #2 · answered by artutina 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
be objective,
get facts.
You need believe your self but if you like her you can talk with her about the questions that you have
no body is perfect.
Her friends need to be in their own business, I fell sorry for her because she doesn't have friends
2007-01-03 14:30:02 · answer #3 · answered by latina_y_sincera 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hmm.... difficult, well, you obviously like her and life requires us to make some sacrifices. im not saying give it all up for her, just dont listen to what your friends say about her and listen to what your heart says. you'll make the right desicion
2007-01-03 14:31:17 · answer #4 · answered by *august 12th* 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
JEALOUS ONES ENVY. IF SHES GOOD TO YOU. WHO CARES WHAT YOUR FRIENDS THINK. MY EX LISTENED TO HIS FRIENDS WHO WERE ALWAYS TRYIN TO CAUSE TROUBLE BETWEEN US. HE END UP LOSING ME 6 YEARS LATER HES TELLS ME WHAT A MISTAKE HE MADE. GOOD PEOPLE ARE HARD TO FIND WHO GIVE A *** WHAT UR FRIENDS THINK ALL THAT MATTERS IS WHAT U THINK!
2007-01-03 14:24:19 · answer #5 · answered by fine_ass_fatty21 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends on why they say she is bad. Date her but be gaurded until she proves all that wrong.
2007-01-03 14:25:16 · answer #6 · answered by Jennifer M 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
always follow ur heart don't ask ur frinds what they think..cause chances are they just jealous of how good ur girl is to u.
2007-01-03 14:48:54 · answer #7 · answered by CHICK 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey .... don't worry about everyone else .. obviously you like her alot .... just ignore it ... unless she has a disease then you should make her go to the doctor... good luck
2007-01-03 14:27:50 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋