Family & Relationships - 3 January 2007

I am still married but haven't had sex in like 2 years with hubby, we are seperating and I want some sex, do I just masterbate or do I go out and find another what do I do?

2007-01-03 14:58:11 · 8 answers · asked by Sunshine 1 in Marriage & Divorce

It took me a while to accept, but I really think my gf has some serious unresolved issues that are going to take some pro. help. Being in a relationship w/ her has taken its toll on me now, too. I have got an appointment set for ME now next week, but really (and I am very serious) want her to go at some point if, for no other reason, because she is never going to be happy w/ me or anyone else until she takes care of whatever this is (and I think it's pretty heavy stuff). Any advice?

Before anyone asks or suggests, yes, we have talked and she is VERY closed about this stuff. I let it go for a while and tried to let her "come to me" and now all she can do is pull me close then push me away. She might hate me for this, but I care enough about her not to care if she does.

And please be nice. This is, unfortunately, a serious question.

2007-01-03 14:57:56 · 1 answers · asked by randyken 6 in Singles & Dating

my grandma may freak , but i don't plan on telling her anytime soon and i'm 17 and a size 18 i need help.are there any guys like the ones i mentioned above that might accept me?and i do like other boy in and out side my race that's just my preference.

2007-01-03 14:57:32 · 3 answers · asked by Mrs. Vonaparte' 2 in Singles & Dating

what do i do

2007-01-03 14:56:12 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have a date for the movies this Friday, and he told me to pick the movie. This is our first date, and I'm a little bit nervous that I will pick a lame movie for us to see... and then I'll feel stupid.

So, can any of you men out there recommend a good movie in theaters right now that my date will like? All suggestions appriciated (including suggestions not related to movies, lol...). Thanks a lot!

2007-01-03 14:55:43 · 11 answers · asked by litestim 2 in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend is a realy nice guy but recently he has been acting very strange. It started two weeks before christmas he got fired from his job for punching a client in the face. So needless to say i have been the only one paying for the apartment. Than a week latter he sold my two kittens without even asking me. He has also started to just jerk off on to my clothes. Now i have told him i dont realy apricate him doing that. He also threw his labtop i got him for christmas off the top of our buliding. I found this like white powder stuff in the bathroom and asked him what it was and he claimed he had no idea. Ive found this clear glass pipe too. so do you guys think hes on drugs?
and what kind do you think hes doing.
and what kind.

2007-01-03 14:55:33 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

It's been 2 weeks already since I broke up with him. It was my decision, but I was forced by his behaviour. Well, he called me the other night and said that it's OK with him and he doesn't want to go back, than he corrected himself he can't have relationship with me now. I want him back, I'm ready to give him as much time as he wants. I'm ready to wait and see what might happen when we see each other, let's say in a month or so. How can I tell him all that? He might think that I'm a psycho and will never let him go.

2007-01-03 14:55:30 · 2 answers · asked by Boginya 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-03 14:55:17 · 12 answers · asked by steven c 1 in Family

There's a girl that I'm crazy about and she knows it but she had a bad relationship in the past. She's basing everything on that one horrible relationship. How do I prove to her that I'm not like her exboyfriend and that our relationship won't be like that?

2007-01-03 14:54:11 · 8 answers · asked by Steven 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-03 14:54:04 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

we've been together a little over 2 yrs. I know he loves me & he treatd me well... what is your best advice on how to make him "think marriage"?

2007-01-03 14:53:41 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

ok...here's the deal there has only been 2 main guys in my life that i have loved...the first one cheated on me and the second one broke up wit me b/c he said i was distracting him from his football career?? we still talk sumtimes!! but i was dating this new guy and i kinda made a mistake.....i was scared of a relationship and broke up w/ him but he was sweet nice caring and was really into me!! any idea how to get him back?

2007-01-03 14:53:17 · 13 answers · asked by sweetheart_2509 1 in Singles & Dating

by the scent of the bathroom after your gf has just taken a massive dump????

2007-01-03 14:52:38 · 34 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i really like this girl alot
and she is also shy and so am i
so we r both shy
so we mostly talk on aim
and we only really talk like once or twice
but when we r only we talk a lot

but at the moment we r just friends
and we just met this year
but i wanna get her number or something so maybe something can start between us

2007-01-03 14:52:06 · 10 answers · asked by ur_rich_jew 1 in Singles & Dating

I am single in Albuquerque, and tired of it. I date here and there....but i'm sick of the bar scene (even though i DO like to party from time to time)....i would like to meet someone, but i really don't want to do one of those website dating thingys lol

now, here's the other prob. I am by no means fat, however....i am not skinny. i've got curves.....and i like them :O) any ideas on where to meet a guy who likes women that actually look like a woman???? i'm super cute, way fun, and i wear about a size 10......and i'm pretty chesty (36DDD) obscene.......i know lol any help would be appreciated. if you need more info, here is another question i asked.......that explains a little more of my frustration.

http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;_ylt=AiSuR4Ol88eimQA6wukYVXIjzKIX?qid=20070103190735AAagVk0

2007-01-03 14:51:26 · 11 answers · asked by ratpackluvr 2 in Singles & Dating

found out my good friend's wife is bisexual and into lesbian porn - she has several porn profiles on the net ...my friend has no idea i have figured this out ... i periodically go out and look at her profiles ..is this wrong? am i betraying my friend ?

2007-01-03 14:51:12 · 10 answers · asked by bill 1 in Friends

okay which one would you rather have a fun-loving crazy (in a good way)funny girl or a quiet loves to be alone (some people think she's boring) just curious

2007-01-03 14:50:39 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My girlfriend (of 2 years) and I have called it splits.

She worked as a consultant and spent many weeks away on business trips and vacations. We didn't spent a lot of time together. Perhaps 2 dates a month... and sometimes no dates for 2 months. She rarely called me, and rarely answered her phone when I called her.

When I got mad at her and told her I didn't want to be treated this way, she would say "I'm sorry but you know how demanding my job is. Don't say I didn't warn you."

So either I just put up with her ****, or just someone else. It should be a no brainer. But the problem was that I was deeply in love with her. She was perfect in everyway, which made it so hard to let her ago.

I miss her so much, but I'm also mad at her. We haven't spoken in 4 months and never will.

What's the best way to get over the saddness/anger thing? Without getting into details, my life's been a downward spiral for the past 4 months.

Thanks for reading. Take care.

2007-01-03 14:50:35 · 15 answers · asked by Mister Bingley 1 in Singles & Dating

There's a girl that I'm crazy about and she knows it. Is it alright if I tell her how much I like her and give her a hug and a kiss on the cheek?

We're both in highschool

2007-01-03 14:49:19 · 22 answers · asked by Steven 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-03 14:48:49 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

my father is trying to find his brother in Miami....We know his immigration number also we know that he recently in Ohio, New Orleans back in the late 80's. Do you know any website that we can use to find him?

2007-01-03 14:48:00 · 3 answers · asked by missboricua14 1 in Family

He talks about me all the time. He calls me at least once a day. When we are together he always has his arm around me. When we are cuddling or whatever, he keeps kissing my cheek and neck and saying "sorry I can't help it". He tells me I'm beautiful and he really likes me etc etc. He likes me so much it's freaking me out. Is he clingy or just really into me?

I don't like him that much, how can I get rid of him without hurting his feelings (he's such a sweet guy)?

2007-01-03 14:47:53 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-01-03 14:47:49 · 7 answers · asked by Reo 5 in Other - Family & Relationships

one of my friends told me that when I was 7, and I believed her,,,,,,,her name was Nicky,,,,I miss her

2007-01-03 14:47:45 · 11 answers · asked by ? 3 in Singles & Dating

My husband left me a year ago today. He has been seeing someone else for about five months. In fact they were about to be married after our divorce. We have a five month old baby together as well. He told me he is going to brake it off with her and work on us and our relationship. I'm scared of two things one hes doing it just for the baby and will leave me no matter what after she is two or he will no follow through with his plan on moving back in. What do I do? Should I move on? I dont think I could handle another disapointment. I fianlly got over the idea of me and him ever gettting back together. A big part of me thinks I am just setting myself up. HELP!! All your thoughts and opinions would be greatly apreciated.

2007-01-03 14:47:15 · 40 answers · asked by BlueT78 1 in Marriage & Divorce

one of my friends told me that when I was 7, and I believed her,,,,,,,her name was Nicky,,,,I miss her

2007-01-03 14:46:59 · 11 answers · asked by ? 3 in Friends

my friend thinks it okay but im not that sure

2007-01-03 14:46:14 · 42 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

what shall i bye my girlfriend as a gift on my return to her after five weeks? i asked her but she told me to bye anything,and i dont know what to bye.

2007-01-03 14:46:04 · 4 answers · asked by jim 1 in Singles & Dating

i got a pblem here....m married but one nite, when i was drunk, i initiated smthg between me and a divorcee...he kissed me and tried to french kiss me...wat does it mean when a man french kisses a woman who is not his galfren but only a normal fren whos drunk....now, i got back my senses but still keep on thinking of tis incident......does it mean anythg for the guy or he just wanted to sleep wif me?

2007-01-03 14:45:45 · 9 answers · asked by hacheongkai 1 in Marriage & Divorce

call me on the phone everyday tell me he love me and everything. then he took my virginity. then i kinda saw a change in him calling me every other day, then he stop calling as much and then the only time i would here from him is when i call. then he sound very moody and conversation becomes short.he tells me he'll call back and never do. theres times when i feel that it could be another girl. can any one give me some advice about this situation please!!!!!

2007-01-03 14:45:14 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating