found out my good friend's wife is bisexual and into lesbian porn - she has several porn profiles on the net ...my friend has no idea i have figured this out ... i periodically go out and look at her profiles ..is this wrong? am i betraying my friend ?
2007-01-03 14:51:12 · 10 answers · asked by bill 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
he probably already knows she has porn sites is it wrong to look at them well its on the sites for people to look at and u dont need to tell him u are
2007-01-03 14:57:02 · answer #1 · answered by dee_ann 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi Bill,
First Of all, does your friend know about his wife? It seems like he does from a part in your question, but not sure. I think that if your friend knows that her buisness is out there to be viewed by anyone, then it is out there for you to view as well. Now, if you took any further steps towards fantasizing,pursuing,flirting or even aroused? I would then think that you would have to stop what your doing,before you get yourself in trouble, and/or You BETRAY your friend. Hope this is helpful.
Sincerely,
HooYah
2007-01-03 23:07:42 · answer #2 · answered by HooYah 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first of all are you positively sure that it is her, and secondly once you were certain i think the best thing you should have done was not go & check out her profile. You should have just left it alone, now you are contemplating the whole situation well just forget about it..because if you are wrong and you go to your friend with this can you imagine the turmoil it will bring
2007-01-03 22:56:11 · answer #3 · answered by rcreyes72 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well in a way. i would say don't look at the profile and just tell your friend about his wife.
2007-01-03 22:54:26 · answer #4 · answered by figureskater&awsome! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sure he knows about his wofe. As for your looking at her---it IS in public domain. You have two choices. Either tell him you saw the pics, but quit looking, or if you plan to keep looking, say nothing to your friend.
2007-01-03 23:04:18 · answer #5 · answered by nursesr4evr 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think that this is wrong. you know that woman that you are looking at belongs to your friend and i don't think that you should tell your friend that his wife is on there because it could tear up there relationship so let him find out on his own but you shouldn't be looking at her.
2007-01-03 23:10:12 · answer #6 · answered by Mrs.Dennis 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ummm this is a good one, i think you should stop looking at her profiles and tell your friend what hos wife is doing...that is what you would what him to do for you
2007-01-03 22:54:25 · answer #7 · answered by B-ryan 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
anonymously tell him.. he's going to be like why were you looking at my wife's profiles..
2007-01-04 00:39:16 · answer #8 · answered by bunny_eared_lum 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just looking with interest. You have not done anything yet. If you do something it could change your relationship.
2007-01-03 22:54:40 · answer #9 · answered by ronnny 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should say something too him.
2007-01-03 22:54:21 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋