Family & Relationships - 3 January 2007

I just watched this movie and found it really fascinating. I thought about it a lot and I definitely would sleep with a guy for a $1 million. I would probably fulfill any fantasy he had for that much. After thinking about it a little more, I would probably do it for $1000. Does that make me a slut? How much would it take to get you to do it?

2007-01-03 15:38:48 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Everyone is doing it, ,,should i discontinue doing it?
i loved dressing like punks and goths do, i appreciate it, i also love reggae music and emo stuff like that, im also an acitivist , but suddenly it became an "in" thing in the philippines, like everyone is acting like they are goths and punks, there are bands everywhere and many dress as if they are members of my chemical romance,it was so much fun dressing that way when it was not yet popular, but right now i dont want to be different anymore, its seems as if being different is the normal thing and the abnormal thing to do is be normal, so i am planning to go back to dressing normally and just act normal
im starting to get sick of all those who keep on dressing like me.i feel it has lost its originality
many even wear che guevarra shirts when they dont even know who che guevarra is, i blame capitalism
any thoughts about it

2007-01-03 15:38:26 · 11 answers · asked by haringmarumo 6 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-03 15:38:20 · 5 answers · asked by Purslane 1 in Singles & Dating

He's in his early 30s now and was sexually abused by an adult male when he was about 9 or 10. The adult was not a relative. He did a little counseling when he was 21 or 22 but nothing since. He is a warm, responsible, loving man, but I know he needs to get back into therapy. The fact that he was sexually abused as a kid is affecting our relationship physically and emotionally. He says he can fix it on his own and I know he can't. But he won't go to counseling. How can I convince him to go to counseling so he can help himself and, in turn, strengthen our relationship? I love him and care about him. I don't want to see him hurt so much. But at the same time, when do I know it's time to give up and let him go? We've been together for over a year. Thanks for your help.

2007-01-03 15:38:20 · 6 answers · asked by LM S 2 in Singles & Dating

Met this girl blind date, talked on phone for hours, met in person had a good time, we still talk on phone but her interest has cooled down signifigantly. she does not call me only returns calls. Problem is, I really feel strongly about her as a person and really felt a connection. Do I tell her this ? Should I just give up and not bother ?

2007-01-03 15:38:09 · 5 answers · asked by zigzag 2 in Singles & Dating

Why do people get married when after only a few years of being together they feel like they need to go out and explore new options either sexually or mentally? It seems like its impossible to keep infatuation alive.

2007-01-03 15:37:41 · 7 answers · asked by Noimanay 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-01-03 15:37:40 · 17 answers · asked by alig 3 in Family

My ex boyfriend was abusive to me sometimes,but he's been gone 3 months going on 4 months soon & has not been in contact with
me. I talked to a family member of his who said that he has -
changed and is getting his life right. She was very convincing but
I feel that I would be to afraid to take him back.
Do abusers ever change?

2007-01-03 15:37:02 · 23 answers · asked by Diana A 1 in Marriage & Divorce

good lookin guy = hot girl
active guy = acitive girl
smart guy = smart girl
do we all look for the same type of characteristics in a girl/guy n e advice or what ever

2007-01-03 15:36:22 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

my dad hates my bf and my bf preposed to me on new yrs.
how the hell am i supposed to tell my dad ?
my dad thinks hes a spoild selfish guy whos a bully.
but hes really sweet once you get to know him and hes not the most understanding guy but he always try to help . even though he messes stuff up alot.
hes just a tad emotionly blind, stuck up and doesnt know how to say things in a kind way but hes a good guy once you get past his many faults.

but how do i tell my dad ???

2007-01-03 15:35:14 · 6 answers · asked by me 1 in Singles & Dating

I am getting married on Augest 4th on this year and I have no idea how to plan my wedding. please help me figure out how to plan my wedding

2007-01-03 15:34:53 · 13 answers · asked by guyshateme 1 in Weddings

2007-01-03 15:34:00 · 10 answers · asked by *Benny B* 4 in Friends

2007-01-03 15:33:43 · 25 answers · asked by BAnne 7 in Marriage & Divorce

I mean not completely for money. You have a lot in common with him and enjoy his company. And the sex is "Oh so good". I suppose the question would be. Would you marry a man for money and sex. And would a man marry a woman for the same?

2007-01-03 15:33:43 · 21 answers · asked by classy lady 1 in Singles & Dating

what is love i mean real love ?

2007-01-03 15:32:33 · 12 answers · asked by it's HG !! 2 in Singles & Dating

has talked about wanting to make out with, and then he got drunk and kept mentioning it again and saying for a week straight he really wanted to make out, do you think he really wanted to?

he never ended up doing it, and i dont know if its because i didnt give him a sign to go for it.

but he ended up licking my face instead.
and i just joke about it saying he was too drunk to find my mouth.

but do you think he really wanted to make out, or just because he was drunk he wanted to get some?

2007-01-03 15:31:53 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

what is love

2007-01-03 15:30:23 · 16 answers · asked by it's HG !! 2 in Singles & Dating

Why is it that everytime i start to have feelings for a man, i pick him apart until i dont like him anymore? I need help!!

2007-01-03 15:29:32 · 10 answers · asked by abercrombie_qt07 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-03 15:29:13 · 11 answers · asked by gr8tkapper 1 in Singles & Dating

My girlfriend and i have been together for 6 months now, and things are great, However, i am a bit confused because she tells me she sees us together in the future and me as the father of her kids, however, she says she doesnt feel the love.... What can i / should i do to prove to her that she is the one for me, and that i would do anything in the world for her, and i am sincere when i say anything Any Advice Please

2007-01-03 15:28:41 · 3 answers · asked by nsguy_2 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-03 15:28:03 · 15 answers · asked by mindi 4 in Marriage & Divorce

I've read in a lot of articles that the 'good' guys want to do the asking. So here's the question. How do you feel when a woman asks you out? What is the best way of doing it so that a) he knows you ARE interested (in possible romance), and b) he also knows it's okay to say no if it isn't reciprocated?
Would you feel uncomfortable around a woman you had to say no to? If you thought she was nice, but didn't want to get romantically involved with her. Or would you say yes regardless, just to spare her feelings or maybe get some booty?

How do you go about this dating thing as equals, without subterfuge and games etc? Can it be done?

2007-01-03 15:27:50 · 4 answers · asked by gobbolino_the_witches_cat 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-03 15:27:09 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-01-03 15:27:02 · 11 answers · asked by atx_love1 1 in Singles & Dating

I want to get more involved and be as receptive as I can with her about it. She is very shy about it and I think she feels she has to be ashamed about it or atleast make it a taboo subjet between us. I just want to show her that it is not a big deal and that I want to do whatever I can to help.

2007-01-03 15:26:15 · 33 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I was at the movies at the second date with a girl and I hold her hands for 15 minutes but mine they were cold.
I was excited though. After a while she told me your hands are freezing and I dont know how to consider that.
Oh my.
Thank you

2007-01-03 15:25:04 · 3 answers · asked by ianquestions 1 in Singles & Dating

Okay, I'll be no one has heard of this before......I've been married 22 years, 3 kids, the dog, house, cars, etc. My husband's sex level is like that of a 16 yo. Mine however died years ago. The relationship is all but over...I'm just trying to figure out how and when to leave him. That's another issue for another time. My mother lives with us. I feel I have to sleep w/ one eye open all the time. After he thinks everyone is asleep, he'll walk around the house naked. He'll sneak into my mom's room and crawl around on the floor, play sexually explicit CDs very low, even when the doors locked, he'll get in. I think he has even masterbated in other rooms of the house...including my mom's room when she is supposedly sleeping. He says things and does things around me, as well when he thinks I'm sleeping. He is very sneeky and it is just a very sick thing. I've never in my life heard of anything like this. I want to leave but don't know how. Please only true advice needed. Thx.

2007-01-03 15:24:59 · 40 answers · asked by froggyskidz 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-01-03 15:24:48 · 14 answers · asked by thirdeye67 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

I have a daughter who is my only child. She is 12 going on 13 in one month. She is really crushing on this Russian kid who is 17. Is that too big of an age difference? I think it is, but maybe I'm too old fashioned. When should she start dating and if so, what age of boy is appropriate?

2007-01-03 15:23:57 · 53 answers · asked by kwightman69 3 in Singles & Dating

There's this girl I've had a crush on for 3 years, but until recently I was too shy to even admit my own feelings to myself. Now me and her are pretty good friends, but not in a way that I think will lead to dating. She has dated several other guys over the years, and flirted with plenty of others. I know that she has alot more dating experience than me, and I am afraid that I'll make a fool of myself and wind up destroying our friendship, as if me asking her out wouldn't do enough damage already. I know that you only live once, but is that risk worth destroying a valuable friendship? And if it is, what's the best way I can tell her the feelings I have for her?

2007-01-03 15:22:43 · 4 answers · asked by Djchick3n 1 in Singles & Dating