Family & Relationships - 3 January 2007

I always go after men that are like 20 years older than me. I am only 18 and i know that none of these men will ever actually care about me, and there are lots of guys my own age that want to be with me, and i never give them the time of day. There is a guy that i work with that is 37 and we have messed around a few times, but we always stop because we know how wrong it would be if we were to sleep with eachother. This isnt the first time it has happened, and i have been with a lot of older men, but i know that i can never be with someone who is married, or is way too old for me. I dont think that this is a healthy way to think, and i dont know why i do this to myself when i can find a nice guy my own age that will actually care about me.

2007-01-03 15:51:13 · 6 answers · asked by chelsea3578 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

We have known eachother through friends since the ninth grade (seniors this year). In ninth grade I was like: "Oh he seems like a really nice guy" but he wasn't my type. He is a really nice guy and I was always attracted to bad boys (Although I myself am a good girl). He flirted a little bit then, but I didn't notice. Well the end of tenth grade I started to REALLY like him a lot, I was so nervous I could hardly talk to him, yet again he would always stare at me, and always pay close attention to every word I said. We shared/share a lot of same interest such as: movies, music, friends, life styles, etc. We always end up talking about the craziest things and we are often the only ones left laughing in the room. Lately we have hung out a couple of times, and each time there are several things such as: staring, laughing at things I say, when we talk he looks into my eyes for minutes on end, etc, etc. I always leave thinking he must like me, but I am not sure. I really wish I knew for sure

2007-01-03 15:50:50 · 7 answers · asked by littlegid' 1 in Singles & Dating

Please help me, I really don`t know what to do, he doesn`t seem gay but I suspect he is because I`ve heard other guys calling him Gay!... I really like him I think I will never feel something like this again :(

2007-01-03 15:50:47 · 20 answers · asked by GUada motion 1 in Weddings

there is this girl i like in school and i know she likes me but i get to nervpus to talk to her what should i say?i am only 12 and my parents said i can't date people yet.

2007-01-03 15:49:54 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I'm 16, I'm overweight and I don't think I can get a boyfriend. But this 400 pound girl in my grade has a boyfriend. I don't want to be the only one person who hasn't had a boyfriend. I don't want to die a virgin, but at this rate, I think I will. x_x I mean, I don't *need* a boyfriend, and most of the time, I don't *want* one, but I also sort of do want one--as an experience, I just feel weird and abnormal. I know I shouldn't rush into it, but...I just feel the need for a meaningless relationship like every other girl my age has. But then again, what's the point of the meaningless relationship? I usually scoff at the pointlessness of teenage dating. It's shallow, it's unimportant, and it goes nowhere...or does it? I just want to try and see it for myself, but I can't stand any boys at my school or anything, and I'm not desirable. I don't understand how the meanest, most unpleasant girls get the best guys. x_x

2007-01-03 15:49:23 · 44 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

IS it true during ogsm, your blood pressure increase, your veins get more strength and u feel more blood pressure in brain... I had these things during X... is it alright

2007-01-03 15:49:05 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I like a guy whose 13 years older than me (I'm 24, he's 37). What do you think of relationships with a considerable age difference? Anybody have any personal experience with this scenario?thanks

2007-01-03 15:48:36 · 19 answers · asked by hj55f 3 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-03 15:48:30 · 12 answers · asked by Paul 4 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-03 15:48:18 · 17 answers · asked by christina 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-03 15:48:18 · 10 answers · asked by Annie 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

I need advice to keep things interesting. How do I do that? I need some advice to keep the interest and the chemistry going.

2007-01-03 15:47:36 · 3 answers · asked by Confused 1 in Singles & Dating

my parents just got divorced and my dad already let a lady live with him.and when i go over to his house i start crying cause i have to see her.what do i do.i tried talking to him but he is so sencitive i don't want to hurt his feelings.what do i do?

2007-01-03 15:46:31 · 13 answers · asked by smsurz 2 in Family

My girlfriend's parents are fighting and talking about getting a divorce. I don't want to lie with something flase like "Everythings gunna be ok", but I dont know what to say to her about this. She's acting happy and normal, but I think she's just hiding the hurt. What can I say to help comfort her?

2007-01-03 15:46:01 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

do you feel it's ok to be in a "polyamorous" relationship? it seems that many of my pagan friends feel that, because they are pagan, they are entitled by some ancient, obscure law that not only permits it, but encourages it.

2007-01-03 15:45:19 · 5 answers · asked by wrldzgr8stdad 4 in Other - Family & Relationships

my guy and i had a best friend, and he was insecure, never had a girl, and then he finds one. all they did was fight, and bc they lived 3 hours away at school, we never really knew her. after all of the crap he said about her treatment of him, we find out after 3 months of even just knowing each other, her and her parents talked him into engagement. we dont support it but have let him live his life and backed off, but she was always there not letting him talk to us and even talked him into telling us we were all no longer friends. now she took our numbers (my guy's and mine) and since the new year keeps calling and harassing via text message being a total wench. ignoring has not worked, but it's gotten obsessive, and we sent a message back saying if they didnt stop we'd get the authorities involved. now they started star-67ing so we cant see their number, but we ignore it. it's gotten to almost stalking, what do we do?

2007-01-03 15:45:10 · 19 answers · asked by overwhelmed85 3 in Friends

I was asked out by what I consider to be a very hot guy the other day. I was by far not the prettiest in the room, which made me suspicious of his intentions...guys, would you ever ask a girl out other than the fact that you liked her? (like as a joke, or to use her in any way?) OR would you only ask out a girl if you wanted to date her and that's it. Please be honest

2007-01-03 15:45:03 · 18 answers · asked by hj55f 3 in Singles & Dating

a white guy asked me out and he's really cute but i am afarid of how people might take us. should i still date him?

2007-01-03 15:44:51 · 11 answers · asked by chica69 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-03 15:44:31 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

tell her? or simply hide your affection?

2007-01-03 15:44:12 · 13 answers · asked by Jason N 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-03 15:44:12 · 17 answers · asked by zogizee 2 in Marriage & Divorce

We used to be real good friends for a long time. recently though he has been kind of a jerk. It all started after he started having sex with his ex. He began acting lude and he'd talk about it a lot. I moved to another school, and I made friends with a lot of girls, average-looking and attractive. when he met them he started acting normal again... but then started thinking I would hook him up. The last straw was when he took advantage of one my closest friends, who ran from her abusive mom. I let her stay with me because my house was vacant. He knew she had problems so he weaseled his way into her room and messed her up... I was pissed off with him. He started to reconcile a little and stopped womanizing. I have tried to reconnect but I feel it's over.

2007-01-03 15:43:33 · 7 answers · asked by ? 2 in Friends

2007-01-03 15:43:00 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I'm in good shape with what women have termed a "hockey players a**". Just wondering what women in general prefer!

2007-01-03 15:41:06 · 20 answers · asked by Fire Millen 2 in Singles & Dating

My dad, stepmom, and I had a HUGE argument. It was so big in fact that I have not spoken to them for almost 2 years. Within those 2 years, I've had various people in both their families tell me I should make amends, and I've tried explaining the situation but they won't listen. Finally I had to cut off all contact, just to keep the piece. Recently, I've had several of them contact me about coming to a family reunion and just avoiding my dad and stepmom because they really want to see me. Should I go, or just keep away?

2007-01-03 15:40:51 · 11 answers · asked by gidget2523 1 in Family

my boyfriend came over for christmas and my nanna kissed him on the lips. she always kisses us like that, and we can't turn our heads for a cheek kiss cos she grabs our faces & holds us still while she kisses us with her big sloppy lips. How do i get her to quit?

2007-01-03 15:40:17 · 9 answers · asked by catsup 4 in Family

I cried when I found out he'd been hiding it from me. He said he knew I would freak out about it so he didnt want me to know. And he hides it from his parents too. Stuff like that scares me since I grew up around a man who hid drugs from me. Was my boyfriend right in what he did? Or am I right? Is it safe for him to be taking caffeine pills, creatine, muscle pills, and powders like this? What should I do?

2007-01-03 15:39:33 · 17 answers · asked by kay_kakes 1 in Singles & Dating

"I just can't picture you liking girls." What about me would tip this off to him?

2007-01-03 15:39:03 · 7 answers · asked by missprissy1004 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-01-03 15:39:03 · 6 answers · asked by kwightman69 3 in Singles & Dating

LISTEN TO THIS, MY BOYFRIEND JUST TOLD ME THAT HE HAS A GIRLFRIEND, BUT HE DOESNT FEEL SORRY BECAUSE HE FEELS THAT JUST BY TELLING ME, I SHOULD RESPECT HIS HONESTY, BUT AT THE SAME TIME HE SAID HE NEVER LIED TO ME ABOUT NOT HAVING A GIRL, HE CLAIMS I NEVER ASKED, MIND YOU IM PREGGO, NOW WOULD YOU'LL CONSIDER THAT HE CHEATING ON ME OR ON HER?

2007-01-03 15:39:01 · 13 answers · asked by DAYUM I 1 in Singles & Dating

Today my boyfriend punched me in the face while I was drivng and gave me a cut on my face! I turned him in and he is now sitting in jail! I have a no contact order on him so he can't come near me or our son but I have his stuff at our apartment and I know he's gonna want it and I don't really know what to do at this point!!! And knowing him, he will come crawling back with all of his promises and sorrys!! But I just don't know what to about him because what I do effects our son!!

2007-01-03 15:38:55 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating