Please help me, I really don`t know what to do, he doesn`t seem gay but I suspect he is because I`ve heard other guys calling him Gay!... I really like him I think I will never feel something like this again :(
2007-01-03 15:50:47 · 20 answers · asked by GUada motion 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
These days sometimes "ghey" can mean uncool. "That's ghey" or "you'e so ghey" - don't jump to conclusions.
When said at friends its usually meant as a teasing joke - a harmless bit of fun.
Good luck.
2007-01-03 15:53:59 · answer #1 · answered by Joe Bloggs 4 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Check out my answer to your other similar question... As I said before, DON'T ASK HIM! That may be like an insult to him! Instead, try to show him that you like him. Sometimes men can be shy as well, so you may be better just to tell him that you like him and see what he says. Guys often call other guys gay as a casual insult amongst friends (or enemies!). This doesn't literally mean homosexual.
Also, I know you are Argentinian, but your English is better than almost ALL of the people here on Yahoo Answers who claim that English is their first language. Well done!
2007-01-04 14:35:45 · answer #2 · answered by Rich 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why would you let him being gay effect whether you like him or not? Gay men can be much more caring and compassionate than the straight ones!
Besides that, one of the ways that straight men put down men that they envy is to call them gay, so there is always the chance that this is the reason you hear this.
If you like him, then let him know it! Hang out with him and be his friend. If he isn't interested, he will probably let you know, and if he is, then maybe you'll give all those other guys even more reason to envy him.
2007-01-03 16:26:10 · answer #3 · answered by The Lone Gunman 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-06 10:06:12 · answer #4 · answered by erlebach 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask him out. If you like him, stick to your instincts and let your choices help you. If he refuses, don't let it be personal or affirmation of your suspiscion, accept it as simply that he's not the guy for you right now. As it stands, I bet he has almost no idea that you like him, and I can tell you from personal experience, having a woman tell you, they're interested in you is an extremely flattering moment.
As only about 10% of the human population is Gay, I'm betting your odds of having picked someone out of the crowd as Gay as fairly limited. If you did, it doesn't mean that everyone you're attracted to won't be attracted to you.
2007-01-03 16:24:14 · answer #5 · answered by Jason W-S 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
firstly just because other blokes say this guys gay doesnt mena he is or he isnt the only way you will find is by asking him... If you like this bloke then just ask whats the worst that can happen he tells you no hes not gay butisnt interested in you...
If you like someone no-matter what anyone says about them its always best topo find out the truth for urself only then will you know the truth...
2007-01-03 16:37:26 · answer #6 · answered by mitch 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hi there,Just tell him that, you know i heard ion the news that government is thinking about building a seperat society type thing for gay and lesbian people, government is gone crazy' and what do you think about that?
Then he will say yes or no.
YEs means he is not gay but he prefers it.
SO the final thing, ask him 'WHAT IF YOU WERE GAY OR LESBAIN WHAT WOULD YOU DO?'
Se what he says and post the asnwer in yahoo answers.
Bye and good luck
2007-01-03 17:19:47 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Casually say something like, 'oh my brother(cousin, friend....) is worried about meeting his girlfriends parents, don't you hate that? then hopefully he will say yes or, I am gay imagine how hard it is for me! That probably is not the best question to get it out of him, but asking him like that would probably be easier,(yes it is a bit sneaky), and save embarrassment on both sides ... or just be honest and ask..
2007-01-03 16:01:07 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well thats a hard one.how long have you liked him just ask someone of his mates the girls ones and see what they say and if they say yes tell them to take himt o a gay club
2007-01-03 23:47:06 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's really none of your business. Wait and see if he asks you out, but if he does he is probably not gay. Have you ever seen him with other girls? Ask one of the other guys if what they are sayig to him is teasing or true.
2007-01-03 15:56:39 · answer #10 · answered by m2little 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
On your next time out together bring one of your goodlooking guy friends. Than see who he flirts more with (lol).
Just ask him damn it. Or just ask him out for a date.
2007-01-04 03:34:08 · answer #11 · answered by NoAnswers 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋