How can I talk to my girlfriend about her period?

Question

I want to get more involved and be as receptive as I can with her about it. She is very shy about it and I think she feels she has to be ashamed about it or atleast make it a taboo subjet between us. I just want to show her that it is not a big deal and that I want to do whatever I can to help.

Answer 1

I always tell my boyfriend when Im on my period.
I guess its just the relationship you have to develop. Be more open with her and have her be more open. Just say its nothing to be shy about everyone has there period i dont care its ok. Just dont force her.

Answer 2

The best thing you can do is support her when she is going through it. Many girls (and women for that matter) dont like talking about it. So, when you see that she is cramping, offer to give her a back rub or buy her some ice cream. If she screams at you like a crazy woman, let it roll right off your back. If she crys for no reason, offer her a tissue. This will all show her that you understand and she will appreciate that way more. Remember this one quote "talk is cheap. Actions speak louder than words." If you remember that then the rest will take care of itself. I can personally promise you that.

Btw, I find it admirable that you want to help. That is so very sweet of you and your g/f is very lucky to have you.

Answer 3

I have to disagree this time with the majority of the answers.I dont htink having ky period is that big of a deal.I've very open about talking about it if someone really wants...My boyfriend and I are intimate hwile I'm pms'ing,he'll be un the bathroom while I'm changing my tampon,I let himknow when I get it so he doesnt get concerned with me not getting it.I odnt see why she should be so shy baout this.It's an absolutly normal,natural part of life for a woman......I just dont get htis one.I suggest you dont push the subject but instead tell her what you wrote on here and help her understnad you just want her to be comfortable around you....as the relationship growns and developes...she'll open up to you about htings you probably dont wanna know *LOL....but go easy,dont push or force the subject.There might even be other factors causing her uncomfortability around the subject...Just support her and she'll come aorund.you'll see!

Answer 4

It is a thing of nature. It's actually nice to see that you're interested in your girlfriend's period rather than grossed out by it.

All the girls who respond with "It's a girl thing, we feel uncomfortable, it's gross, etc." They say that because 90% of the guys out there DO in fact think it's gross. That's why you girls feel uncomfortable to talk about it so please be glad that this guy isn't grossed out about it.

To answer your question: Trust and Bond. It's just something that you will begin to develop with your girlfriend over time. Sure, your girlfriend will be uncomfortable to talk about it at first, but once she gets comfortable with you, that shouldn't be a problem. You can talk to her about how you feel or simply just ask her "Hey, are you on your period?" And see what she says. Don't pressure her too much. She'll open up to you though, don't worry. It just takes a bit of time.

I totally understand where you're coming from. She's your girl, your baby, and you want to understand how her body works. The female body is a beautiful thing and us males should love everything about it.

As for all the females out there that say it's uncomfortable to talk about, I respect that, but why? It's something natural, something of nature, and I think it's a beautiful thing. It's what makes you a woman. There is absolutely nothing dirty about it, nothing.

Props to you for wanting to know more about your girlfriend and goodluck! :)

Answer 5

Thats interesting that you want to be involved. Which I think that shows you have a sensitive side. Thats a good thing. Most guys treat it like its the plague. Its actually refreshing once in a while to hear that a guy might have concern for you. If your interested in it; maybe you can read on it a little and ask her questions. Your right though, if she doesn't want to talk about it. Thats perfectly normal also. Its a touchy subject. Its the same if you had a male problem and didn't want to talk to her about it.

Answer 6

I used to be kind of uncomfortable with my guy, until one month he asked what was wrong and I told him I had my period. He said the most amazing words any girl would want to hear : "Aww, sweetie, I hope you feel better. Can I get you some chocolate and rent a chick flick tongiht?"
He made me feel completely comfortable and we ended up having a great time.

Answer 7

Why do you want to talk to your girlfriend about her period?

Are you saying that you want to be intimate during her period?

Otherwise I would say that you should allow her that privacy. Alot of females don't care to talk about "Aunt Flow" because it is not exactly a pleasant experience. I think some subjects are better left untouched until the other person feels comfortable....

You can help her by respecting her feelings and dropping the subject. If she wants to discuss it she will...

Answer 8

A lot of girls, including myself tend to be very sensitive around that time of the month. Do what you think is right. Go with your inhibitions. Maybe ask her if there is anything you can do for her, if she says no, then don't take it the wrong way. Like I said, do what you think is right. Hope it all works out.

Answer 9

Its kind that you ever care that much, but really she will have to evolve on her own with that issue. I know when i was younger I would have absolutely died if a boyfriend would have addressed the issue with me, but now after having kids and being married, I completely understand it's very natural and how we all got here.

Answer 10

Honestly, I don't think it is your place to talk to her about her period, for girls it is just a normall thing we have to go through and not really a major topic with us..Though some of us may be more opened than others, it's not like we are just going to bring it up at dinner time.... :}