I've read in a lot of articles that the 'good' guys want to do the asking. So here's the question. How do you feel when a woman asks you out? What is the best way of doing it so that a) he knows you ARE interested (in possible romance), and b) he also knows it's okay to say no if it isn't reciprocated?
Would you feel uncomfortable around a woman you had to say no to? If you thought she was nice, but didn't want to get romantically involved with her. Or would you say yes regardless, just to spare her feelings or maybe get some booty?
How do you go about this dating thing as equals, without subterfuge and games etc? Can it be done?
2007-01-03 15:27:50 · 4 answers · asked by gobbolino_the_witches_cat 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
First of all, asking out is a guys job. I would feel like a wimp if I got asked out by a girl. Secondly, most guys are used to getting a "no" and if they are not, they are going to. Finally, use you femininity. Talk to him and ask you friends if they can invite him to something (anything from movies to a party). This will make him more comfortable and he will be more likely to return the favor by asking you out.
2007-01-03 15:34:49 · answer #1 · answered by caballero5792 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
haha well.. im a girl but with my boyfriend.... when me and him were just getting to know each other & we went on dates but were not an official couple... i felt like i wanted to know where the relationship was going... so one night i was on the phone with him and brought it up. i asked him what we were. we just casually talked about it and both agreed we wanted to be a couple with each other. soooo i guess you could say i took the reins and asked the question, lol.
either can ask the other person out... you just need to be sure that they are interested in you first... and i'd say build a friendship first so you can get to know them! guys are confusing... each guy is different and each has his own opinions. most guys do get reallly nervous to ask a girl out... im sure they'd think it's cool (and would be sooooo much less nervous) if the girl asked them bout it!! worked for me & has for the past 10 months =]
good luck!!
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2007-01-03 23:35:51 · answer #2 · answered by littlexgirl325 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It all depends whether or not I would like the girl. I wouldn't mind hanging around her even if I had to turn her down. If I don't like her in that sort of love way then they would be treated like a regular person to me, as a friend without relationships beyond that.
2007-01-03 23:31:30 · answer #3 · answered by Shadows of my Sins 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
women should ask us out the same way we ask women out, there is nothing at all rong with it
2007-01-03 23:30:42 · answer #4 · answered by H2O POLO BOY 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋