I mean not completely for money. You have a lot in common with him and enjoy his company. And the sex is "Oh so good". I suppose the question would be. Would you marry a man for money and sex. And would a man marry a woman for the same?
2007-01-03 15:33:43 · 21 answers · asked by classy lady 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I would only marry for Love because it is something you can never have enough of and when you get alot it does not turn you into someone you are not
Money is something you can have too much of and it will change a person, It can change who they have been their whole life
When you run out of money Love is always there
2007-01-03 15:40:37 · answer #1 · answered by sjb_sparkles 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Marriage is not about money. You choose money and you choose lonliness and unhappiness. The money will always rule the marriage. On the other hand, marrying for love is great. It also depends on the kind of love you have for each other. The love you should marry for is the one of respect for each other, a deep and binding gratitude, and a real love that goes beyond the actual feelings and soul. One that is bone deep. One that has potential to grow into something beautiful. There is that other kind of love we all know about... the mad, crazy, passion that turns our insides out and our world upside down and gives you tons of energy and makes you obsessed with anything and everything about him. This is the one to watch out for. When you're in your intoxicated and can't really see straight. Most of the time this kind of love fizzles and you wake up one morning wondering who is this goofball lying next to you. Or he is fickle, unfaithful and you end up hurt and the enchantment of life and everything that it is becomes a haze and you live by just going through the motions and in a constant, "If only I..." moments. Anyways, the question was not, "Do I marry for love, but do I marry for sex..." Sorry got confused. Sex... well this goes in spurts too.. Umm.. sometimes it great and awesome... and then you tired of it, it fizzles and sex isn't an indication of the character of a person at all... So the answer is... neither.. Marry a man that you love, respect and can make you laugh anytime and only adores you alone and cares deeply about your happiness and loves you tremendously.
2007-01-03 15:46:57 · answer #2 · answered by calypsorodeo 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, I would marry a man that I had a lot in common with and the sex was "Oh so good" and had money.
I already married a man that had no money, I didn't have so much in common with but the sex was ok. That one didn't work out...your scenario sounds much better!
2007-01-03 15:37:10 · answer #3 · answered by Carol B 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I would not marry anyone except for love. My ex married me for my money, when it was all gone, he decided he no longer wanted to be married. He took every cent I owned & I was a complete FOOL because he was nothing but a con artist & knew just how to push my buttons to make me think he loved me even tho he cheated on me constantly. What a complete fool I was. Now I'm living on Soc. Sec. & sure could use some of that money today...:(
2016-03-29 06:50:11 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would only marry for love. There isn't enough money or good sex in the world to keep me in a marriage. If you don't love that person then you'll soon grow to despise that person and then its all an act. You shouldn't have to pretend you love your mate when you only love their money or their sex.
2007-01-03 15:45:30 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I believe marriage should be based on love, honesty and being able to look into the same persons eyes everyday and saying to yourself " wow I'm glad i married this person",so no i wouldn't marry someone for sex and money.
2007-01-03 15:39:31 · answer #6 · answered by *Benny B* 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well yeah...if he was good looking of course! If he was ugly...I wouldn't marry him for all the money in the world!! Sorry........ Don't get me wrong but 'beauty is in the eye of the beholder'. A guy may be good looking to me but to some other people he may not. Money, good sex, good looking.....yeah....for sure I would! Face it, we all need security so money is good. (Financial problems can cause divorces). Good sex, yes you need that too....if not, you will forget your feeling for love eventually...it helps strengthens and maintains a relationship. So is he reasonably good looking to you? When you like or love someone, they are good looking to you anyway so if you are comfortable with that...yeah why not?......I would......
2007-01-03 15:44:59 · answer #7 · answered by Cream 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I believe that you marry for love or the catch (a partner that can provide you a good life), I would marry for love next time
security does not bring happiness.
2007-01-03 15:56:37 · answer #8 · answered by Soulfulgrl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, I would not marry a man for money because money does not buy you any happiness!
2007-01-03 15:36:14 · answer #9 · answered by Cameka H 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't marry a man for anything. I have my own money to earn, and I can't get sidetracked from that by marrying.
2007-01-03 16:06:48 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋