It took me a while to accept, but I really think my gf has some serious unresolved issues that are going to take some pro. help. Being in a relationship w/ her has taken its toll on me now, too. I have got an appointment set for ME now next week, but really (and I am very serious) want her to go at some point if, for no other reason, because she is never going to be happy w/ me or anyone else until she takes care of whatever this is (and I think it's pretty heavy stuff). Any advice?
Before anyone asks or suggests, yes, we have talked and she is VERY closed about this stuff. I let it go for a while and tried to let her "come to me" and now all she can do is pull me close then push me away. She might hate me for this, but I care enough about her not to care if she does.
And please be nice. This is, unfortunately, a serious question.
2007-01-03 14:57:56 · 1 answers · asked by randyken 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I think that some professional help maybe in order, first seek some advice from a pro. Also try con her talk to some close in family (e.g. siblings, mom, cousins) that she has a special bond with. For some reason or another she's afraid to open up to u, and it may or may not be ur fault but right now ur definitely not gonna find out. But who? That's what u gotta find out. Who is she comfortable opening up to. It won't be easy, but don't just go to a pro....try harder!
2007-01-03 15:02:23 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋