2007-01-03 14:21:51 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Mind over matter! You don't mind, and it don't matter! I did it for 25 years myself. I just made up my mind that I was going to do it, if it killed me. I'm a very determined person. You simply "do what you have to do!" Every day brings a new challenge, but you face that challenge....to the best of your ability! Good Luck!!
2007-01-03 14:28:58 · answer #1 · answered by olderbutwiser 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Drop all of your high expectations, and take a day by day, and start looking postive on things especailly on him, and look on the good the face value of him.
There is a book called
Love Must BE tough
by James Dobson
This book gotton me through the darkest moment of my marraige, and when I change my self, my husband changed and my marriage is so much better, in fact my marriage and to him, that I fell deeply in love with him more, and don't want ever to be back in the dark times in the past.
You have to forgive him, the past, and never bring it up again.
write journals, and everyday, write 5 good things about him, to help you to see the postive things about him. And start meeting his sexual needs now, so that your needs can too be met!
Best of Luck,
and most of all, allow God to mend you and your marriage!
2007-01-03 14:40:55 · answer #2 · answered by ourjacobdavid 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just focus on doing what you have to do for you. Focus on getting to the point that you can get out of the marriage. Once you have goals then you can work toward those and place less importance on the marriage itself.
2007-01-03 14:26:08 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
tactical evasion
2007-01-03 14:25:50 · answer #4 · answered by ih8women 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋