Family & Relationships - 3 January 2007

2007-01-03 13:51:12 · 14 answers · asked by nerd123 1 in Singles & Dating

It always happened when we do have a big fight or an arguments.I don't want to happen that anymore. Do i look so stupid?

2007-01-03 13:51:07 · 13 answers · asked by jennil 1 in Singles & Dating

when I was 16 I had a daughter at the time I had a boyfriend who I was cheating at the time I became pregnant. At the time I had no doubt that he was the dad and not the other guy.when my daughter was born she looke nothing like him but we always said she looked like me. I resently ran into the other guy and my daughter looks just like him as soon as he saw pics of her he asked me if she was his we took a test. and it turnes out he is the dad. we are now currently together and my daughter adores him. But she doesnt know that he is her dad. how do I tell my daughter that the guy she has always thought was her dad isnt her biological dad? Even thoe he hasnt been there for her eighter he sees her once in a while and he lives 20m from us, he didnt even call her for xmas or her birthday so is not like she is really attached to him but she still loves him I know that so please help me.

2007-01-03 13:50:52 · 7 answers · asked by prettylady36 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-01-03 13:49:08 · 13 answers · asked by tim mcgraw(luv) 1 in Friends

Why is it when you go to make a meal everyone in the house wants something different and if you make 1 thing 1/2 of the ppl wont eat and then bug you to make then something else!!

2007-01-03 13:48:48 · 10 answers · asked by notes from an angry white chic 4 in Family

i love her but my heart hurts because of this

2007-01-03 13:48:42 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Me and my fiance have been together 4 years and will be married in 6 months. I have been ready for a baby for 2-3 yrs and he knows that. I told him I would wait for a decent amount of time and be fair, we both have to be ready, right. I just found out that my cousin is pregnant..I cant help it..the jealousy and envy are uncontrolable..she has what I have been dying to have.
I am now taking the anger out on my fiance and re-evaluating the whole relationship because when I told him why I was so sad after I heard about her, he immediatly was on the defense about NOW not wanting any kids for 4 more years. You know I have been so up front with him about how much I want to start a family. I know I shouldnt take my anger out on him but he has known what I want all along. How can I control this anger?

2007-01-03 13:48:03 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-01-03 13:47:53 · 17 answers · asked by Harmon 4 in Marriage & Divorce

good songs about
the girl missing the guy
because he moved on and now has a new girlfriend...
or some quotes??! pleaseeeeeeee

2007-01-03 13:47:52 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i hooked my sis up with a guy after one date she said she did not like him. I thinks hes cool is it ok if i dated him?

2007-01-03 13:47:51 · 14 answers · asked by miss-info 4 in Singles & Dating

Will it keep him guessing?

2007-01-03 13:47:38 · 10 answers · asked by To Remain Anonymous 1 in Singles & Dating

what shoud i do i get so nervous around him?

2007-01-03 13:47:01 · 10 answers · asked by pink princess 1 in Singles & Dating

i hate a lot of things in people... u?

2007-01-03 13:46:35 · 11 answers · asked by love_xxx_always 2 in Friends

How do you break an addiction? How do you change your personality? How do you change what are you? I want to stop cussing, i want to figure who i am, i want to stop watching corn with a p. i want to be able to open up to people. It's so hard for me to open up to people and be real. I want to be able to say exactly what is on my mind and to be to state directly how i feel. I want to be a better person. I know the first step is acknowledging your problem, but how do you fix it? How do you open up to people? I can't. I feel like crying in front of people makes me weak, pathetic, and somewhat selfish. I feel vulnerable. I feel like i can not please everyone at once. Yes, people do say i cry and get mad over trivial things, but why does that make me wrong? In addition, i feel like i'm only changing for other people. Even when i do change people think i'm the same old witchy with a b person. I can't be perfect no matter how hard i try. any advice, tips, comments, etc.

2007-01-03 13:44:47 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

Have u ever left someone great and wonderful but developed feelings for someone else...pursued this relationship having it not work out and regretted later leaving the other person??

2007-01-03 13:44:20 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-01-03 13:44:17 · 21 answers · asked by Zewp 1 in Marriage & Divorce

ok. well i had this really weird dream that my friends obducted me. like they snuck in my house dressed in all black with teir family,sarah put her hand over my mouth while nathan cuffed me, then took me too there dad, and he tied my legs together,and then they shoved me into the back of there green ford van and i was laying in the back nathan at one end sarah at the other with scary music playing with their last name reapeting. what does this mean?

2007-01-03 13:43:24 · 13 answers · asked by rlum0606 2 in Family

I'd love some impartial advice. Please help me to see beyond these choices.

The situation:
I live and work in Japan. Have only been here for 18 months.
My contract is per year and I must soon decide to stay another year or return to the US.

Should I stay or go?

Pros on staying in Japan:
easy job, good pay (im saving alot and paying off college debt)
i enjoy life here (it's clean and safe)
my boyfriend (he's the best man ive been with)

cons for returning to us:
complete life upheaval (ill have to find a new home, new job, ill be single- long distance relationship is not an option)


Cons on staying in Japan:
this job has no longterm career potential
i feel as though i am delaying the search for a job i truly love
i am close to my family and being away from them is difficult

Pro on returning to US:
ill be able to start a new chapter in my life

thank you.

2007-01-03 13:43:19 · 6 answers · asked by ichigo 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

My hubby had an affair and we are trying to work it out. He is doing and saying everything right to ease my mind, show remorse bla bla bla. I am still dearly in love with him and want to forgive him and believe that he is sincere but i cant get the images out of my head of him being with another woman, they torment my every waking moment. There was a reason for the affair and he has pointed it out to me. Things were rocky at home with us. Fighting all the time, lack of sex, we were growing apart, he was unhappy. Since the affair, things have been wonderful. We are both trying really hard to make us better than we ever were. We dont fight, we are much more intimate and affectionate towards each other. I'm just afraid that i will never get past the images and the betrayel and eventually walk out. Is there hope after an affair? Do the images and feelings of betrayel ever go away, does the trust ever come back? Any advice will be appreciated. Thank you

2007-01-03 13:42:28 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

What can I do to mesmerize men and get my way?

2007-01-03 13:42:17 · 53 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My gf and I have been together for about five years now and I am feeling a little bit in corner even though we love love each other so. She knows my feelings and has voiced she will find it difficult to accept but overall she does not seem to be threatened by my desire. Any body have any ideas as to how better pursade her into acceptace without breaking depth of our relationship?

2007-01-03 13:42:15 · 31 answers · asked by Wondering 1 in Marriage & Divorce

at the age of 24 its time for my son to leave home. hes not mentaly or phisical impaired has no problems other then being boneidle

2007-01-03 13:41:18 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

me and my girlfriend, we're both virgins. we decided it was time that we lost it together. she's 17 and i'm 18. we were ready, then she started to back out but before i know i'd ejaculated on her. i'd didn't do anything else. what are te chances? she says don't worry and it's impossible, but it's not, is it? it was really close. i didn't use a condom, i know that it was really stupid of me, because we were going to have sex. i won't make the mistake again.

we've decided to leave sex fora while.

2007-01-03 13:41:12 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-01-03 13:39:48 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

1. What Do You Think Is Most Attractive About Your Body?

2. How Do You Show It Off?

3. (So guys can participate) What Do You Think Is The Most Attractive Part Of The Female Body?

2007-01-03 13:39:39 · 13 answers · asked by Bobby_Bomberman 1 in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend always has to eat or even asks me to go and buy him the food when he knows Im trying to lose weight..I have five months to reach my goal because i want to look good for my birthday party...WHAT SHOULD I DO HE GETS ME SOO MAD?!!!

2007-01-03 13:38:32 · 6 answers · asked by happiness 2 in Singles & Dating

OK, I have a few female friends and an ex who I'm still friends with. Every time I meet a new girl I want to date, my female friends get really jealous. They tell me they don't like her even though I haven't even introduce her yet. Are girls territorial like that?

2007-01-03 13:38:31 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-01-03 13:37:43 · 14 answers · asked by askewmew 2 in Singles & Dating

well my boyfriend is living in another state and wants me to go live with him and i told him maybe im not sure but he told me if i dont go by his birthday he would find another girl over there but supposely he told me that he cant find another girl cuz he loves me. what should i do?

2007-01-03 13:36:56 · 38 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I'm bullied at school. I've been bulied since the fourth grade, and now I'm in seventh. I've done effort to ask my parents to help me. Which they do try, and try to talk to the guidance counsler, and the princebal their i no sucsess. They Princabal SAYS he'll do stuff to put an end to it, he just never has.

Their are some things say to me that I really don't care about. But their are some things they say that get me REALLY ticked off! Like, for example, I've been staring in the drama club plays for the past three years now. 95% of the kids in drama are girls. The other 5% is me and a couple of other boys. The boys in Drama including me get made fun of bacause we don't like sports. And in my school the policy is: "Sports are for boys, Drama is for girls Only." I don't know about you but I've heard of famous actors today that were in the drama club as a kid!

So leading to this, everybody treats me like a girl, and calls me a girl! I'm god damit sick of it. I'm a freakin boy! Help?

2007-01-03 13:36:32 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends