Have u ever left someone great and wonderful but developed feelings for someone else...pursued this relationship having it not work out and regretted later leaving the other person??
2007-01-03 13:44:20 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
YES AND WONDERED WHAT IF? BUT IT MIGHT NOT ALWAYS WORK OUT WITH THE PERSON YOU THOUGHT WAS GREAT AT THE TIME EITHER SO I JUST CHALK IT UP TO IT MUST NOT OF BEEN MEANT FOR ME AT THE TIMEM. THINGS HAPPEN FOR A REASON AND THE ROAD THAT YOU TAKE IS ALREADY MAPPED OUT FOR YOU SO DON'T BEAT YOUR SELF UP OVER IT MOVE ON AND BE HAPPY.
2007-01-03 13:55:00 · answer #1 · answered by miss out spoken 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course.
I'm sure everyone has gone through that.
But what you learn is that before you leave someone
to pursue someone else you have to really make sure
your feelings for that other person are sincere and not just
lust. Next time make sure you really know if you have a
connection with the other person, instead of ruining the
relationship you have now.
2007-01-03 13:48:24 · answer #2 · answered by nancy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
of course everyone has had regrets, that they left someone too quickly and got involved with someone else not even as good as what u left. but seldom does the person ever voice their regrets, mainly do to avoid humiliation and having that other person say" i told u so". yes i have been in that situation before, but too embarrassed and too immature back than to admit it, or go back to that person, feeling i would not be forgiven anyway.
2007-01-04 02:02:12 · answer #3 · answered by jude 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO l haven't but my husband did. He left me for the so called greener grass. He realised his mistake after a few months and came back which made me very happy. We are working on our marriage now and are both realising where we went wrong with it in the first place. Life is wonderful right at this moment !!! Happy New Year.
2007-01-03 13:58:43 · answer #4 · answered by kazzadanni 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Damn if you do and damn if you don't...You would be wondering if staying with Mr.wonderful was the right thing to do!! You had to find out! And Mr. Wonderful must have been missing something for you to fall for someone else!! Move on and capture another guy's heart!!
2007-01-03 13:55:54 · answer #5 · answered by September Sweetie 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Apologize to the ex. Maybe he'll tell you he never wants to see you again and maybe he won't. If he cares, he'll at least hear you out. Everyone is at different stages in their own lives and you shouldn't feel guilty about being honest with yourself. At least you didn't cheat on him.
We live and learn... and sometimes we mess up.
2007-01-03 13:54:08 · answer #6 · answered by roci 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think just about everyone I know has done that. The most important thing to remember is to learn from this experience. Besides, you can't help who you love.
2007-01-03 13:48:11 · answer #7 · answered by wounded healer 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No I don't regret ANYTHING..Live life to the fullest and remember what happen in the past let it stay there.
2007-01-03 13:55:18 · answer #8 · answered by gblue52 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nope. I've never left a good thing for a maybe.
2007-01-03 13:47:47 · answer #9 · answered by janicajayne 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
At some point in life almost all of us make that mistake.
2007-01-03 13:46:07 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋