It always happened when we do have a big fight or an arguments.I don't want to happen that anymore. Do i look so stupid?
2007-01-03 13:51:07 · 13 answers · asked by jennil 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
No, you don't look stupid. I do think it's a little silly to try to find a way to make it stop, however. It means you care about your boyfriend and you're a sensitive, emotional person. There is absolutely nothing wrong with that, and if your boyfriend loves you, he'll see nothing wrong with it either. You shouldn't have to hide anything about yourself in front of someone you love and who loves you. I agree that it can make you feel vulnerable to cry whenever you get upset (I have the same problem with blushing when I'm embarrassed)--but there isn't much you can do about it except to accept that it's who you are, love it, and make sure you find someone who loves it too:) Men are socialized not to cry as often as women, which is a shame because we always feel like the weak ones--but I think it takes courage to have your feelings on display like that--more so than to be able to hide them.
2007-01-03 13:56:51 · answer #1 · answered by justme 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know what you are going through. People called me ugly in school because I am. I have small eyes and a large head lol. This is extremely important so listen up: People say you are ugly because you think you are ugly. Try to act sexy. Even if you're not, let other people know that you have self esteem. I guy in school called me ugly and I will never get a girlfriend. So one day I stand up in front of the mirror I was extremely angry and I said today I will stop being so shy and putting myself down by saying I'm ugly. Then I punched the mirror and I had to go to the hospital lol. When I got back I went to macis here in NY and I tried different outfits to see which 1 looks good on me. I found some clothes that made me look 'hot' but then I noticed my face was still the same. I went back to school with a different attitude and people stopped saying I'm ugly in a week. The point is you are ugly if you want to be ugly. Don't risk your life by doing a surgery. Be proud. Stand up and say I'm beautiful and show it to the world. Guys love girls with a lot of confidence. Even if your face is extremely ugly even with the nice clothes, try to act sexy. Go to a Gym. Be more active and meet people. Trust me, you are going to find a guy you like. Don't let them put you down. And yes I'm still ugly and I think I'm the ugliest person on the planet but I try not to show that to other people. But make sure you don't turn into a jerk. But show the world that you are sexy, not by using makeup but with your actions. And I have a crush with the ugliest girl in school. At first I though she was ugly but then when I met her I found that we have everything in common. She's like an exact copy of me. I love her because she's so cute and remember cute is not in the face, cute is how you act.
2016-05-23 01:12:40 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I get so weepy when I'm upset or emotional & I find it very difficult to control even tho I don't want to cry.
My husband is convinced that I try to use my tears as a weapon to make him feel bad so I hate to cry when we are arguing or at funerals & stuff but I don't seem to be able to help myself.
Recently I learned a trick from a bride who was trying to keep the tears away as to not ruin her makeup -- now I use this tip all the time -- it helps me... when you begin to cry or get that tingly sensation in your nose/eyes, pinch the bridge of your nose just below the area between your eyes.
Good luck.
2007-01-03 13:59:48 · answer #3 · answered by celia17 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's very hard to control your emotions when you're fighting with a person you care a lot about. some people are just born with a personality that makes them cry just for a little thing or don't cry at all. however, if you don't want your bf to see you cry, my suggestion to you is to close your eyes when you can sense that the tears are coming. you might want to lower your head or raise your hand to your forehead so ur bf wouldn't see what you're trying to do.
2007-01-03 13:58:56 · answer #4 · answered by Mystery P 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you're not comfortable showing your emotions around him, then he's not the guy for you. It's natural to feel sad and to cry when you have an argument. If you're not comfotable crying around him, then find a guy that you don't fight with!
2007-01-03 13:54:08 · answer #5 · answered by kittenpie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's ok to cry if you can't help it. but it you really want to try for once not to cry during a fight, if you feel like tears are about to fall, pause and look up. don't ever look down or blink. or else, you'll end up crying...but always remember, it's OK to cry =)
2007-01-03 13:56:45 · answer #6 · answered by j3w3l 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should probably just leave him. If he makes you cry then he is stupid and you shouldn't have to mask your feelings when you are with him. That is not what a relationship should be like.
2007-01-03 13:53:53 · answer #7 · answered by Juniata P 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It might be very difficult for you to do that since you seem to be very emotional... Maybe you could try being, tough or telling yourself that this will all blow over soon.
If that doesn't work maybe you could just walk away when you feel the tears coming.
2007-01-03 13:54:48 · answer #8 · answered by Other sheep 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its not stupidity its human emotion. When you cry in front of somebody you are not crying actually you are expressing your feelings to that person.
i can only say stop crying in front of ur boyfriend but how can i say, "dont express you feelings to your boyfriend"
2007-01-03 13:56:30 · answer #9 · answered by viv 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no real good answer for that except to not care but fact of the matterly if he making you cry that much you don't need him and if he dosen't care that he is making you cry that much then you shouldn't care either
2007-01-03 13:54:44 · answer #10 · answered by Real Chilla 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋