Family & Relationships - 3 January 2007

She hit the party scene, hooked up with the first guy that came along, and gained a lot of weight right after the breakup. Are these symptoms that she is having a hard time with the breakup of our long term relationship? She broke it off, but I don't think that she expected me to dissappear afterwards.

2007-01-03 13:36:29 · 3 answers · asked by forgot my real name 1 in Singles & Dating

Okay well me and my boyfriend took a short break over the summer but we still talked like every three days or more and still hung out a lot. Well on that break he made out with like 4 or so different girls and the break was only like a month. He made out with my best friend, a couple other girls, and this really skanky girl. I didn't make out with anyone.
Well I get really jealous about girls now, and I think that may be why.
Well he saw the really skanky girl last night and talked to her and she gave him one of her naked senior pictures.
Do I have the right to be upset or not?? Because my feelings are really hurt and he says it's not even a big deal. If it's not a big deal, then why am I so hurt?

2007-01-03 13:36:28 · 12 answers · asked by shoe 4 in Singles & Dating

I just found out he was Indian. He lied to me and told me he was hispanic now that I know I don't care I love him. He also has not told his friends. His Mom and Dad don't know about us or our kid he says he will tell them this April. We talk about getting married and having more kids. My family likes him also and they get along great. The don't like that he lied to me for 10 years. What I want to know is will it really work out. Are his parents going to have a hard time dealing with it as much as he says or is he over reacting. I know they will be upset that they missed out on their only grandkid growing up. Can our realation ship work even though he is Indian and I am not. I have let him know that we can celebrate anything he needs too. I am not asking him to abandon who he is or his beliefs. I have offered to help him celebrate. I really love him but am scared that my child and I will end up getting hurt in the long run.I have also seen him on marriage web sites for indians

2007-01-03 13:35:23 · 5 answers · asked by june 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

ok i really like this guy and my brother and his brother r friends and his brother told my brother that he likes me but my friend camrie likes him too and but i never told any1 that i actually like this guy so she doesnt know that i really like him.what should i do and i have know the guy more than 3 years and i have known my friend for2 years

2007-01-03 13:34:27 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-01-03 13:34:01 · 22 answers · asked by notsoposh 1 in Singles & Dating

my so called best friend has not been acting like a best friend lately. My birthday was in august and she blew me off..she had a kinda fit her mom said and i was kinda hurt by that...
i have been trying to talk to her on myspace since we dont go to the same school anymore and i never get a response back..
well today i did b/c i told her we needed to talk and i am suppose to call her tomorrow...
how do i tell her that im feeling hurt and that her friendship means a lot...i've never had to do anything like this with any friend and i don't know how to approach it...
do i just go straight into it or just talk about casual stuff first...
i'm scared of what might happen and i would be very sad if we could not be friends anymore...
What do i do?

2007-01-03 13:33:35 · 17 answers · asked by M E 5 in Friends

i had a friend and we always got into arguements, so one day he just said, ok it is over!! i didn't know what to say because i had played a small prank on him. then we were a part for 2 months or so, then he decides to say that i asked him for oral sex! i didn't but... he said so. Everyone then decided to say yeah that is true and all sorts of stuff. then he tells all of my friends this and they all hate me, except one. then he said that i admitted it. i don't hate him but i don't necessarily think he is the coolest guy around. what should i do to get him either on my side or for us to stop fighting etc.?

2007-01-03 13:33:09 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I really think i like this girl but i havent' really said to her and I noticed that she liked me too but she has a bf so i really didn't do anything and now she is still with her boyfriend and I have friends that have told me that she still likes me so what shoud i do

2007-01-03 13:31:28 · 21 answers · asked by dancool 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-03 13:30:53 · 8 answers · asked by ? 1 in Family

2007-01-03 13:30:30 · 9 answers · asked by C.JAY* jamaican princess* 2 in Marriage & Divorce

we've been going out for just over 6 months and i think i love her....i'm not sure whether to tell her. i'm 18 and she's 17.

2007-01-03 13:29:37 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Well I REALLY REALLY REALLY like this guy. Hes 16 and Im 14. Ok I havent had a crush in 3 years because I am tired of guys. so I really accually havent felt this way before. He can do anything you through at him. Hes great at football and really good at basketball.He is such a hard worker( he works at my house for some extra money) and we both love the same things. But there is a HUGE problem! hes has a really nice girlfriend( that doent like what he does as in sports). It kills me to see them together.But I told his sister that I like him and she told him ( she thinks he might break up with her) and at the lock in ( his GREAT family is involved in christ alot) he kept looking at me and was always around me and like little things like a play kick( you know the little not even close to you backwards thing when he passes by) when I was laying down. But anyways I am soooooooo confused. I LIKE HIM SSSOOOOOOOOOOOO MUCH!!!!!!but again his girlfriend! what should I do!

2007-01-03 13:29:01 · 15 answers · asked by emma 1 in Singles & Dating

untill you get married

2007-01-03 13:29:00 · 13 answers · asked by sinababy25 1 in Singles & Dating

This is yrs before we started dating.

1) A few yrs back, my bf dated this girl for 2 yrs which ended up him getting dumped by her for another girl. The catch is he would still get booty calls from her. They cont. having sex for several months until he got pissed off at her girlfriend & blurted out they were still having sex. His ex got pissed & they never had sex again. He says he cont. sleeping with her to try to win her back.

2) He dated another girl that he fell for pretty hard & easily. The catch w/ this one is my bf was a rebound. She was newly divorced. Before they broke up he got her tickets to see a concert. He told her if she wanted to see it she had to go with him on a 2 day trip & have sex w/ him. I original thought this was a 1 day trip & she had to sleep w/ him after the concert to make her look bad. But instead it was a plan to win her back. This is his statement "I was pissed that I didn't win her back but at least I got lots of sex out of it."

2007-01-03 13:28:25 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

Many guys claim that women only like a**holes who will be cruel and abusive to them and are not attracted to good men who will be good to them. Is this true?

Do women prefer to date men who abuse them and cheat on them?

Do they avoid dating decent men who will be respectful of them?

2007-01-03 13:28:16 · 44 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I've known my boyfriend for over a year now but we've only been dating for 1 month . I always had a huge crush on him and he's always had one on me , Now that we're together things are great , he wants to marry me , is it too soon to marry him even though we know each other longer than we are dating or should we wait ? Honest opnions please . Thank You.

2007-01-03 13:28:05 · 33 answers · asked by ♥ Army Wife ♥ 4 in Weddings

please god i want see my daddy

2007-01-03 13:27:07 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I don't want to leave him cos I like him so much but...is there any way to convince him to stop cheating on me? Is there anythin I can say that will, you know, touch his heart enough for him to stop?

2007-01-03 13:26:24 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-01-03 13:26:05 · 9 answers · asked by Lelee 1 in Singles & Dating

sleep with your husband.By sleeping I don't mean sex.What if you just want to sleep in another room and take shower in another bathroom and have different closets and don't want to to go out,any where with him not even going on vacation.

2007-01-03 13:25:33 · 18 answers · asked by broken heart 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I called my boyfriend from work, and he said he would call me back in a little bit because he was on the phone...so he called back in like an hour, and said he was "talking to a friend."
After a while, he mentioned that his other roommate was home and other randomness, and he was like ,"well, i was just calling you back, I'll talk to you later."
THEN, I asked him who his friend was, and he said a girl's name. And I was like "Oh, I don't know her, where do you know her from?" And he said his job, and was like, "Ok, I'll let you go and call you later..."
The whole thing was just a little wierd sounding, should I be worried? Or am I overreacting? And should I say something, or forget about it?

2007-01-03 13:25:32 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

by having s e x with them? My FWB keeps wanting me to sleep over but I know if I do I will get attached to him and I don't want to. I'm just enjoying the great s e x with him for now. Does anyone else find that when you sleep with someone you automatically get attached to them even more than if you just have s e x with them??

2007-01-03 13:24:58 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Well im currently in a relationship but before I started going out with my boyfriend I was seeing this one guy who I fell in love with. We were never an actual couple but i fell for him eventhough he told me since day one that he did not want a relationship. I still went out with him wishing that one day he would fall in love with me but it never happened. So I came across my boyfriend and developed feelings for him. But i still cant get over the other guy. I get so depressed because i feel like im lying to my bf. I think that if the other guy were to tell me to get back with him I probably would. But when I was with him he was seeing other girls and it really hurt me. I didnt want to be in that type of relationship cause it wasnt healthy foe me. However dispite everything that the other guy did I still cant forget about him. Its so hard cause theres times when im with my bf and think about the other guy. I dont want to keep on doing this to him. Please help me get over the other guy.

2007-01-03 13:23:16 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

Help me settle an argument with my sis. I really like a man I work with and I can tell by how looks and acts that he's attracted to me. He's asked me to lunch a few times and he calls and/or emails me once a week. If I don't hear from him by Wed., or Thurs then I contact him. My sister told me if he liked me that much he would call me more often and that I shouldn't or he would lose interest in me. She says men "enjoy the chase" I see nothing wrong with initiating conversation, especially because I like him. what do you guys think?

2007-01-03 13:23:09 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

my parents always are on my baack and i don't know how to get them off, i have tried talking.OK for example i would moan because i forgot to do something and then when my sister walks by my parents had told her to do something so they thought that i was laughing at her. it stinks please help

2007-01-03 13:22:52 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

okay so i have a boyfriend and we've been going out for 8 months but the guy that i liked for three years just came back.(He was in the navy), and he tells me that he really loves me. I like both of them and dont know what to do. If anyone has any advice, please tell me.

2007-01-03 13:22:28 · 7 answers · asked by karla m 1 in Singles & Dating

he likes her and she likes him. you want your best friend to be appy because you love her like a sister. but the feelings for him wont go away. what do i do?

2007-01-03 13:22:14 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

How old should u b to have ur first kiss?

2007-01-03 13:21:57 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

i really like this girl but so does like 10 more guys
i want to show her that im not like all the other guys
what should i do ?
all the other guys like have been sweet talking her like they would say hey beutiful and all this stuff but i havent
what should i do any ideas

2007-01-03 13:21:55 · 7 answers · asked by gex09 1 in Singles & Dating

I went hiking with a group of friends. 3 guys (including me) and 5 girls. We came across a natural hot spring and decided since it was nice out we stripped off our clothes and jumped in. Once my clothes came off I got an uncontrolable full erection that stuck straight out and wouldnt go away. It was not a problem so much while underwater but we had no towels and had to sun ourselves to dry. That whole time out of the water standing around drying in the small clearing within inches of these 5 naked girls (3 of which i didnt know well) it just stood straight out.
One girl started telling this sexy story and then out of the blue I ejaculated! I never even touch anything. It just started shooting on its own. One girl had to move to the side to avoid getting it on her. I paniced and jumped back in and told everyone to go on that I would catch up.

How should I reacted? How would you react if you were one of them?

2007-01-03 13:21:49 · 10 answers · asked by orangecross666 1 in Friends