I don't want to leave him cos I like him so much but...is there any way to convince him to stop cheating on me? Is there anythin I can say that will, you know, touch his heart enough for him to stop?
2007-01-03 13:26:24 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Unfortunately, there's not much you can say to make him stop. But more importantly, do you really want to be with someone who would cheat on you? You deserve better hun, it's better to dump him and move on.
2007-01-03 13:32:29 · answer #1 · answered by Kat 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Cheating on someone is like breaking up with that person. In the cases of breaking up and cheating, the idea is that you've lost the emotional connection to your partner. Your boyfriend cheats on you because he doesn't feel the same way you do about him. Cheating is the complete and unwaivering act of disregarding an emotionally-enhanced relationship with another human being.
In simpler terms...by cheating on you, he's already (in a sense) broken up with you. You don't need that dragging you down. How can you TRULY be happy with a person like that? There are other "right" people in this world; just take the time and effort to find them and they will come when you really need them.
For now, lose your cheap excuse for a boyfriend. Remember: Even if you can pass a test by cheating...that doesn't make it right.
2007-01-03 13:33:45 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
`I don't understand. Why do you want to WASTE your precious life to be with a cheater??? A cheater is a cheater, whether he does it behind your back or openly. Unless he repents completely, there's no way you can convince him to stop. If he REALLY loves you, he won't have the heart to hurt you, especially betraying you. Would you want to have such a husband? Bec I can guarantee you, you'd live in heartache everyday to be suspicious and get hurt. Think abt it in the long run. Is it worth your "liking him so much?" Is your constant suspicion and heartache and sorrow WORTH your feelings for him?? This guy does NOT even deserve any woman!
You have other IMPORTANT things to think abt everyday, why squeezing your mind just to think whether he's cheating on you or not, where he is, what he is doing, etc???
If I were you, I would leave him immediately and have no contact anymore. Yes, it will be painful for you to let him go, but believe me.. that pain won't linger there for a long time. Consider that as a little "Sacrifice" for gaining your own happiness, that is to be free from him!
2007-01-03 17:01:29 · answer #3 · answered by bogey 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
At sad as it may be if he cheats on you is because he really doesnt care. Maybe try asking him why he cheats on you... It can be something that both of you can work out or you can realize that he's not worth keeping. If he can't be committed to you, I think that you should leave him because there are plenty of guys out there that will give you the respect that you deserve. You may like him a lot but that won't stop him from cheating of he doesn't really care. Best of luck to you girl!!!
2007-01-03 13:31:41 · answer #4 · answered by Becca 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave him do not let him get away with cheating. If you want respect you are not going to get it from this guy. Especially if you stay with him. I don't think that there is anything you can do to stop a cheater if they do it once and they get away with it even if they stop for a while they will likely repeat it. I know it sounds harsh but the best think for you to do it to find someone that is willing to love you and only you. Not someone that cheats
2007-01-03 13:30:36 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Unfortunately, I don't think there is any right thing you can say that will change his behavior. However much you may like him, you don't deserve this, and if he cared as much about you as you do about him he would not be treating you this way. I believe his cheating is a symptom of HIS problems, not anything to do with what you do, don't do, etc. Dump him and find a guy who really cares about you.
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2016-10-19 10:38:34 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it doesn't matter how much you like him he is playing with you, have some dignity, and also since he knows you won't leave him he is going to keep on doing that, you need to leave that guy and realize that there are a lot of great guys out there and you sound like a nice girl, but you should go with your head not your heart, you need to think this through
2007-01-03 13:33:29 · answer #8 · answered by DEJA VU 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Idiot. Break up with him, then he cannot cheat on you any more because you're not with him.
You really need to look at yourself in a mirror. You don't go around mooning for a man porking other women.
2007-01-03 13:39:33 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are worth so much more than this. what good is it to put time and effort into something that isn't giving back to you. he obviously doesn't see your true worth, and why should he when you don't see your own true worth. it is not going to be easy to move on, but at least you are looking out for yourself and what is best for you (even though it may not seem that way right now), but once you do move on and look out for number one, this guy will realize what he has really lost.
2007-01-03 13:31:54 · answer #10 · answered by grey_fox 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋