sleep with your husband.By sleeping I don't mean sex.What if you just want to sleep in another room and take shower in another bathroom and have different closets and don't want to to go out,any where with him not even going on vacation.
2007-01-03 13:25:33 · 18 answers · asked by broken heart 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
If you don't want, need, or like him to be around, why did you even marry him? Be a big girl and mow your own lawn and open your own jars... talk to him, see if there are issues that the two of you can work out... otherwise you should divorce because what you want is not marriage... it is mirage.
2007-01-03 14:57:30 · answer #1 · answered by No More 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds very bad !! I think it's time to have a serious talk about where your relationship is heading. It sounds to me it could be on the way to the divorce court. My husband annoys me no end sometimes but we always go out together, sleep together and go on vacations together. We both get annoyed about things the other one does at times but l feel that's just a normal part of being married for so long. You two sound like you have no connection at all and that is really bad for any relationship. I wish you both well. I really feel you will need all the help you can get to sort out your problems.
2007-01-03 21:47:16 · answer #2 · answered by kazzadanni 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I was with you until you got to not going out anywhere not even on vacation. Seperate rooms, even bathrooms, why not - gives you your own space for your own stuff, and a better sleep sometimes. It doesn't alter sex if you are attracted to each other and in love. You lost me after that last bit - now I just don't get it. Don't you like him? Poor guy - bad enough to be rejected sometimes in life, but totally rejected by your wife???
2007-01-03 21:37:31 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
That sounds pretty bad--the only one I can relate to is that I do get up about 3 a.m. and sleep on the couch--only because he snores and is a bed hog, I'm a very light, restless sleeper-so I end up on the couch most nights. We do have separate closets (I've no desire to go to the office in the flannel shirt--trust me if I'm half asleep I'll end up in one!) We do, however, go out every Friday together and vacation together. Sounds more like you're roommates.
2007-01-03 21:33:11 · answer #4 · answered by fallingstar 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Wow. I hope you aren't talking about yourself. If so, you really have a problem.
Did something happen to make you feel this way - did he cheat, did you? Can you get past it?
If not maybe you should try separation. Not just bedrooms. Really live apart for a while and see if that helps.
If it doesn't, you know the next step.
Life is too short to be miserable. If you don't have anything to do with him, he's miserable too.
2007-01-03 21:33:16 · answer #5 · answered by PMS 24-7 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I was there too, recently. I filed for divorce. It was NOT my idea of a good time! I found being in the same room with him nauseating and prefered work to being home with him all weekend. Hell...I would have worked for free just to be out of the house!
2007-01-03 22:03:43 · answer #6 · answered by shannon d 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It would be terrible! You need to examine why you even want sex with him or even remain married to him, if you want to be so independent all the time. it would be better for both of you if you could separate.
2007-01-03 21:32:21 · answer #7 · answered by greenhorn 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow. that's really bad. Somewhere, somehow you lost your intimacy with him. Do you still love him? it sounds like you are not sure. You need to really think about this for your sake and his. what has he done for you to feel this way? things don't get this bad overnight.
2007-01-03 21:32:38 · answer #8 · answered by Sweetness 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like you are not happy at all in this relationship, and that is not fair to either of you, I would probably say do yourself and him a favor, and move on.......
2007-01-03 21:34:31 · answer #9 · answered by Nicky J 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
iT'S NOT BAD TO WANT THAT SELF TIME AND HAVE A HUSBAND AS LONG AS YOUR NOT SEEING SOME ONE ELSE IF YOU GOT THE ROOM TO DO THAT THEN GO FOR IT ABSENCE MAKE THE HEART GROW FONDER. BUT YOU LEAVE HIM OUT THERE TO LONG ALON E SOME ONE WILL SNATCH HIM UP TRUST ME THEY WILL.
2007-01-03 21:39:01 · answer #10 · answered by miss out spoken 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋