by having s e x with them? My FWB keeps wanting me to sleep over but I know if I do I will get attached to him and I don't want to. I'm just enjoying the great s e x with him for now. Does anyone else find that when you sleep with someone you automatically get attached to them even more than if you just have s e x with them??
2007-01-03 13:24:58 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It DEFINITELY confuses things when you start spending the night together...especially if he's one of those that holds you all night. Once in a great while is ok, but I've been in that situation and if you don't want anymore than just a physical relationship, don't start spending all night with him.
2007-01-03 13:42:17 · answer #1 · answered by singleagain062005 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its annoying isen it! I have the same situation, and yea i got attached and actually i think he is to, he won't admit it. So it may turn into a good thing then again it may not.
2007-01-03 21:33:27 · answer #2 · answered by casper_rat 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i dont tend to have friends with benefits because that would never work for me. im too emotional. so i see how you could become attached. but heres my question - why not get a boyfriend who you could have sex and the emotional stuff with. wouldnt that work out a lot better
2007-01-03 21:28:38 · answer #3 · answered by kd baby 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If all you and him both want is the sex then you shouldn't have much prob staying fwb. I have alot of those people. I prefer that to dating.
2007-01-03 21:28:34 · answer #4 · answered by justinbowen2003 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ouch tough one ,first of all sex without feeling or for just pleasure is not a healthy thing, you must be having sex with him because you find something appealing about him which means there is already a connection there, I say if your not interested in a relationship with him save the sex for someone who you might wanna have a relationship..
2007-01-03 21:30:04 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you're not interested emotionally don't sleep over, it will only confuse things.
2007-01-03 21:27:21 · answer #6 · answered by Sweet Surrender 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋