Well I REALLY REALLY REALLY like this guy. Hes 16 and Im 14. Ok I havent had a crush in 3 years because I am tired of guys. so I really accually havent felt this way before. He can do anything you through at him. Hes great at football and really good at basketball.He is such a hard worker( he works at my house for some extra money) and we both love the same things. But there is a HUGE problem! hes has a really nice girlfriend( that doent like what he does as in sports). It kills me to see them together.But I told his sister that I like him and she told him ( she thinks he might break up with her) and at the lock in ( his GREAT family is involved in christ alot) he kept looking at me and was always around me and like little things like a play kick( you know the little not even close to you backwards thing when he passes by) when I was laying down. But anyways I am soooooooo confused. I LIKE HIM SSSOOOOOOOOOOOO MUCH!!!!!!but again his girlfriend! what should I do!
2007-01-03 13:29:01 · 15 answers · asked by emma 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
he knows I like him
2007-01-03 14:20:57 · update #1
Well he might like you better....but you have to think about the situation if it was you with the boyfriend and someone liking you. And also think about how his girlfriend will feel if she found out. How would you feel if you were her?
2007-01-11 13:32:06 · answer #1 · answered by Ms. Sheenah 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am surprised that at 14, you are tired of guys. But since you like this guy so much, why not tell him? Or, you could do the respectul thing and back off. He has a girl friend. Her opinion of his involvement in sports should not concern you. You have already said that she is really nice, so just leave them alone. Find a guy who will be interested in the same things you are. then go from there.
2007-01-03 13:33:35 · answer #2 · answered by David L 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Woah, calm down. First of all, don't try to break up him and his girlfriend. Maybe he just sees you as a good friend, or maybe he likes you a lot, but he's not sure about how you feel about him. Just give it some time. Waiting is a lot better than trying to figure out everything right now.
2007-01-03 13:58:18 · answer #3 · answered by *~*RaChAel*~* 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He knows that you like him so calm down. Your work is done. The best thing you can do is play it cool. Act like you are just another person in his world. If he likes you as much as you like him then he will go out with you and break up with his non-supportive girlfriend. Don't be overly obsessive. Guys hate that most.
2007-01-03 13:33:19 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
there's 3 things that will kill a relationship: dishonesty, cheating, and third party involvement (someone getting between 2 people). Move on. you'll lose your dignity if you butt in, or your head bcuz she might bite it off. stay friends with this guy and maybe the future will bring u a surprise. hope this helps.
2007-01-03 13:35:32 · answer #5 · answered by thundergnome 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you like him, you will have to allow him to make up his own mine.
If you get along, continue to be friends with him.
DO NOT interfere with his relationship. That is a very poor form thing to do. His girlfriend will hate you, and he might too.
He knows you like him. Just wait and see what happens. If he prefers to be with you, then he will break up with his girlfriend and start seeing you. But you have to let him decide who he wants to date.
2007-01-03 13:41:17 · answer #6 · answered by Anna K 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that you should show him and tell him how you feel. If he likes you, he'll break up with his girlfriend and he'll start a relationship with you. If he says he doesn't like you - you'll be heartborken, but at least you'll know and you'll be able to get over him and move on. Good luck!
2007-01-03 13:34:14 · answer #7 · answered by baby2007 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wait until you get past the diaper age before you start thinking about such things.... :)
2007-01-03 13:33:48 · answer #8 · answered by ticklemeblue 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your 14, stop worrying about guys.
At 16, guys only want one thing (you know what it iz), trust me, I waz 16 a few years ago. Forget about him and worry about school, or else you will end up workin the streetz.
2007-01-03 13:35:32 · answer #9 · answered by SUPERMAN 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You can't break them up. Inside he will resent you for taking away something that could have been it. If you really like him you will give him time.
2007-01-03 13:32:10 · answer #10 · answered by Chey 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋