Family & Relationships - 1 January 2007

Or should I keep looking for a decent girl who would take a guy with kids.

2007-01-01 09:43:53 · 20 answers · asked by Hard Working Man 1 in Singles & Dating

Last night on new years eve at 10pm. I recieved a phone call from the spouse of one of my husbands co-workers. He sent me copies of emails between them. He told her he loved her and hated being with me etc etc.... When I confronted him about it he lied and then lied some more. Now I dont know what to do. He's put a lot of the blame on me, but I havent done anything. He tells me he hasnt slept with this woman, but then one of the emails said that He couldnt stand my touch and couldnt wait to be with her. So what now?

2007-01-01 09:43:15 · 26 answers · asked by Klingonhomeworld 1 in Marriage & Divorce

my sis calls me a brat,hooker,loser,ugly am i really all these things she says i am ? should i get revenge? she is older than me

2007-01-01 09:42:49 · 10 answers · asked by hawain_girl 2 in Family

For instance, they might say something like "When I was your age, we didn't have all these fancy toys. All we had was dirt, sticks and rocks to play with, and we were HAPPY!"

2007-01-01 09:42:21 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

We lived together for 7 years and he left me to live with another woman for the last 3 months. This is not the first time he has cheated but he says "he has changed" should I believe that? Can people like that change? He calls me everyday and leaves voicemails telling me how much he loves me but when I ask him what he is up to he says it is none of my business if I dont want to be his girlfriend any more. Then he cusses at me and and tells me he doesn't want me back then calls back and tells me how much he loves me. What is his deal?? How do I get past this and stop taking his calls?

2007-01-01 09:42:12 · 7 answers · asked by wicked1too 1 in Singles & Dating

Baby Brando was born with Skeletal dysplasia, also known as dwarfism. The baby will only grow up to 3 to 4 feet max, even as an adult. The family tried talking her out of giving him up for adoption, but she was sooo devasted to hear the news. I was happy that nothing happened to my sister while giving birth and the baby was good and healthy. He is good, but not as healthy as we thought. My sister is DETERMINED and this has given me the blues. I WANT TO ADOPT baby Brando. I told my husband about this and he said that would be good since we are the family. But he pointed out 2 things to me: 1. How are you going to tell your sister your plans? 2. Its obvious we will get attached and love him, what happens if she decides she wants the baby back when he is a little older, like 2 or 3. Or sooner.
Here's my question: Has any1 been thru this? How can I break the news? I think she will be furious. She says she never wants 2 c the baby nor have another 1.

2007-01-01 09:42:03 · 14 answers · asked by Justme 2 in Family

so shld i be frenz..will it lead to confusion on my part

2007-01-01 09:40:42 · 4 answers · asked by julia 1 in Singles & Dating

We lived together for 7 years and he left me to live with another woman for the last 3 months. This is not the first time he has cheated but he says "he has changed" should I believe that? Can people like that change? He calls me everyday and leaves voicemails telling me how much he loves me but when I ask him what he is up to he says it is none of my business if I dont want to be his girlfriend any more. Then he cusses at me and and tells me he doesn't want me back then calls back and tells me how much he loves me. What is his deal??

2007-01-01 09:40:40 · 21 answers · asked by wicked1too 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-01 09:40:25 · 9 answers · asked by bob 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-01-01 09:39:39 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

can you get it through oral sex..?? even if both of you are virgins

2007-01-01 09:37:39 · 23 answers · asked by BELLA XO 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-01 09:36:25 · 10 answers · asked by ramdor20002001 1 in Singles & Dating

My bf of 4 yrs changed our friday night plans (we were just going to stay in, but still) to go out with friends. He invited me but suggested that i must be tired from work and that maybe i should stay and rest. He could've been with me a while before going with them, but didn't. I admited i was tired, i would have only gone to be with him, so i stayed home. Then, saturday, i called him to see when we would see eachother and asked him about how was his night and he wouldn't tell me anything. Started fighting about it and he suggested we didn't see each other, i told him i would come over because it was stupid to waste a day over this stupid fight. That day went over fairly normal. Yesterday he didn't want to come visit me cause he'd just gotten up and it wasn't worth getting ready in 3 hours to come see me for about another 3 cause he didn't want to be here when my sister got here for our new years eve dinner. And today he won't see me cause i didn't tell him i wasnt working...

2007-01-01 09:36:15 · 8 answers · asked by jade 2 in Singles & Dating

MY 20 year old sister is a stripper, a groupie for some dumb band, and is involved in the pornography industry. She has no problem with what she is doing, and almsot rubs it in everyones face. What she does to her own life is her choice, but she is having adverse effects on my 17 year old brother. She has him come out to visit her and subjects him to her life of promiscuity, drug and alcohol abuse. He is even present at the concerts where she is stripping. He used to be such a good, kind, caring kid, and now he is just like her. Selfish, stupid and arrogant. I almost cant stand him. I do not choose to associate myself with people like her and I most certainly will not make an exception for a family member. How can I be a good influence on my brother? She lives in PA, we live in OH, but I live 3 hours from my brother. And also am I right to cease communication with her? Every time we speak she is condescending, calls me fat, *****, etc and I dont wish to deal with her.

2007-01-01 09:35:57 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

My divorce was final a month ago and my girlfriend of 2 years who has been there for me during my divorce wanted me to wait a year to work through this because she was not sure. I got it done last week and then told her over the phone a week later. She called this"beyond selfish" and broke up with me. Its what I wanted and that is all that counts right?

2007-01-01 09:35:54 · 27 answers · asked by ccsail 2 in Marriage & Divorce

We have been dating for a couple months, we mainly see each other during school, what are some good examples of good dating places? Also I haven't gotten my first kiss yet, I really want him to kiss me, what should I do?!

2007-01-01 09:35:49 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-01-01 09:35:45 · 21 answers · asked by P M 1 in Singles & Dating

If so, what happened LONG after the cheating occurred?

2007-01-01 09:35:16 · 16 answers · asked by purringout 3 in Marriage & Divorce

I'm married but I feel so lonely.

2007-01-01 09:35:15 · 12 answers · asked by Monique 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Without sounding like a helpless female, do men still believe in being chivalrous? I would love to have somebody that really wanted to take care of me, not financially, just emotionally and physically do all they can to make life grand for the woman they love. I am 36 and it seems alot of men my age have their own agenda, and want to be the one taken care of and pampered. I would like to hear from anyone that can keep my hopes alive!

2007-01-01 09:34:43 · 9 answers · asked by stacey h 3 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-01 09:34:24 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-01-01 09:34:14 · 19 answers · asked by Rich 3 in Marriage & Divorce

Ok, there is this guy that I work with that is attracted to me as I am to him. The timing is wrong for us to be together right now, though, so we haven't acted on anything. What I'm wondering is how hard is it for him to be around me everyday? For me, just the sight of him sends my heart beating and if he looks at me and smiles I just melt. He's always very nice to me but every few days he'll ask what I'm doing for the weekend, do I have a boyfriend, lightly touch me in passing, etc. We've always been professional with one another and haven't taken this desire anwhere but sometimes I think about him and what could be...Mentally how do men deal with seeing a woman they are attracted to but can't have? Is it easy to block the woman from their thoughts? Do men think about what could be type situations as well?

2007-01-01 09:33:57 · 4 answers · asked by jewels 2 in Singles & Dating

Do women know when they are saying crazy things when they do it? Or does it just happen? This girl I thought I was talking to totally flipped out last night... Like went PSYCHO at a new years eve party I took her too. She ruined my whole night, and I had to appologize to the host of the party for bringing that type of drama to his party... Its like her idea of our relationship, and what had happend between us was at least 65% made up... I mean, somethings she said happend, but the other half was made up... I mean, there is no way a sane person could just make this stuff up?? I consider myself a reasonable person, 25 years old, college graduate, But my X girlfriend would flip out when we would get in fights too.... And I would be like, are you from earth?? Or are you just making stuff up to argue about?? Are most women seriously crazy sometimes??? Every day I realize I will never understand anything about women.. lol (dont take this post the wrong way, I just think its funny)

2007-01-01 09:33:56 · 6 answers · asked by ucfmanic 2 in Singles & Dating

my mother is really annoying. everytime i talk to a guy she starts annoying me about how im going out with him... umm.. i talk to A LOT of guys and if i would have to go out with all of them i would be a... u know.
anyway, theres this guy and im going to watch a movie with him and then im supposed to help him with a song for choir in spanish cuz he needs help with the pronounciation. my mother is probably going to annoy me FOREVER just because of that guy. i dont even feel like going there but i sorta have to go..
how am i supposed to talk to my mother about her stopping to annoy me with that.. crap. i have NEVER talked to my mother in my life more than me saying: "mom! im going out with some ppls to eat" and she always says: "where? with who? when are u coming back?" and she starts bombing me with useless questions. she is so overprotective. what should i do?
thanks everyone! :-)

2007-01-01 09:33:41 · 6 answers · asked by chic! 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

ok, i met this girl at a dance, and we talked and such, and i found out later that she has a thing for me, i am planning on asking her to go do something sometime this week, so i am wondering, is there anything i should make a point to do and not to do? i know to just be myself, but i am a very shy and usually am very quiet so i most times its just awkward silence, i don't know what things i should talk about. any suggestions?

2007-01-01 09:33:27 · 16 answers · asked by M 1 in Friends

if u checkin out a guy what a good way to approach them when they out wit their friends? or it best not to say anythin cuz they gonna act like a as*hole....guys what u wanna girl to say when she step to you?

2007-01-01 09:32:51 · 3 answers · asked by smartsexycurvy 1 in Singles & Dating

Hi. I am twenty five years old and there is man that Is thirty three years and I believe that he is attracted to me. I catch him staring at me and there are times when he seems to go out of his way to get my attention. I dont mind that he does this,becasue I am attracted to him as well. But there is a catch.. He is already has a girlfreind and they live toghter. I know that there is nothing that I can do about that,and he has never said anything that would make me think that he wants to take it beyond casually flirtation,are interactions are innocent (and they will continue to be that) but yet I cant stop thinking about him.Am i crazy to feel this way? I try to not interact with him,but it is difficult to because Of the complicated social network we are in,and he is difficult to ignore because he flirts alot. (and by the way is joking around flritng?) But my question is how do I stop thinking about him,and are my instinct right in telling me that he is attracted to me?

2007-01-01 09:32:07 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I've told him where I stand on the matter--waiting until marriage.

2007-01-01 09:31:56 · 27 answers · asked by bluebutterfly081 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-01 09:31:10 · 8 answers · asked by live2cheer-n-cheer2live 2 in Friends